Friends with Benefits (FwB) to girlfriend (GF): Make the jump

Here at SBM.net we get a lot of emails … a very very healthy amount! Since we offer one of the few places in the whole wide internet where a woman can ask some men a question, and get an honest answer without us trying to smash you off later … we draw many looking [...]

Can I Get That In Writing

“To put it another way, every love relationship is based on unwritten conventions rashly agreed upon by the lovers during the first weeks of their love. On the one hand, they are living a sort of dream; on the other, without realizing it, they are drawing up the fine print of a contract, not unlike [...]

Rantings of an SBM

Its Friday .. so time for me to get some things off my chest. Sometimes I fear I’m gonna have to sell, close, or scale back on this blog to keep my sanity.  I can live with the time commitment … but dealing with all this drama is draining.  I tell ya … just saps [...]