Do Holidays Really Define Your Relationship?

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WisdomIsMisery wrote a piece called, Tis The Season: Time to Define Your Relationship. It was pretty dope, but then Patia decided to do a response from a woman’s perspective. It turned out pretty dope as well. Check it out. Twas the Monday before Thanksgiving and all through my house, Wisdom Is Misery’s words flew from my […]

Tis The Season: Time to Define Your Relationship

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Traditionally, the holidays are filled with presents, joy, good food, family, and harmony and good will among your fellow man and woman. It’s a time of year when the welcoming warmth of a bed heated by the body of a significant other is a welcome break from the seasonal chill from outside. Yes, for many people around […]

We Be Grubbin: My Top 5 Thanksgiving Dishes

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For those who celebrate this holiday, Thanksgiving is a time for reflection. A time to give thanks to whatever deity you believe in for what you have in life. I love family holidays like this because with all of our busy lives, it’s hard to get my family all together to do anything. So we […]

Happy Memorial Day

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Today, on this federal holiday we celebrate two things that are very important to all of us: First: Those that have fallen protecting and serving this country.  Today we remember the sacrifice they gave for so many of the freedom’s we have today. Second: Black People Foolishness Between Black Bike Week, Black Beach Week, Cookouts […]

6 ways we blame it on the alcohol – Cinco De Mayo edition

Watch the border when partying! JUEPA!

As we celebrate Cinco De Mayo,  I think about patron, cerveza, coronas, and SHOTS SHOTS SHOTS!! Nationwide observance of Mexican heritage.   I know everyone some people like to observe this day with an alcoholic beverage or 2, so I dedicate this post to everyone who likes having a good time with the homie LQ! We all have situations where we’ve had […]

Christmas is Overrated. Yep. I Said It.

Scenario 1 Female Friend 1: Hey Slim. Slim: What’s up? FF 1: Not much. What did you get your boo for Christmas? Slim: Nothing. FF1: OMG! Are you guys okay? Slim: We agreed to bypass the holiday stress. FF1: Sorry to hear. This is supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year! Slim: […]

Rekindling Old Flames with a Blast From the Past

With the holidays nearing we will travel from whatever our locations are around the country to our hometowns. It’s an excellent time to visit family and friends, enjoy home cooked meals, and hang out with the old buddies. I always enjoyed this time home from brick ass cold Syracuse, NY. I enjoyed hanging out with […]

Craptacular Gifts

As Christmas draws closer and my bank account continues to dwindle, I’ve realized that I still have some shopping to do. I’m one of those people that every year waits until the last minute to get gifts for others (except wifeykins if I have one at the time). I take care of myself first on […]