Trouble With The Swirl: My Boyfriend Was Ashamed Of Me Because I’m Black

I learned that love isn’t blind the hard way. “I didn’t think you’d want to know.” This was how my boyfriend of three years told me that he was leaving me for a different girl. A white girl. As I watched him struggle with what to say, I remembered that I had seen them together around campus […]

Revisited: Are Black Men Obsessed with Latinas?

About three years ago, I penned a piece on SBM titled, Are Black Men Obsessed with Latinas? Since today effectively ends Hispanic Heritage Month, I thought I would post it again with some thoughts three years removed. I want to note that since 2010, I really haven’t done any articles about Latinas because I thought […]

An Anonymous Black Man Explains Why He Prefers Non-Black Women

For amusement, I sometimes look at Craigslist ads. I fish through the Men Seeking Women section to read posts to see what some men are looking for in women.  There are many anatomically correct parts on full display in the attempt for hookups and many married men seeking a friend. Some posts are sad; others funny or desperate. […]

Why You Don’t Mind Interracial Dating Until You Have To See It

If you’ve been reading my writing on the internet for any amount of time you know that I try and stay away from topics around Interracial Dating. I have never really seen a productive conversation about the topic take place and it all depends on where you are how the conversation will play itself out. […]

Stuff Black Bloggers Say

Let’s be honest, we can’t get away from it.  We’ll probably be dealing with the fad until at least the end of the month.  If you guys follow me on Twitter, @DrJayJack, you know that I despise trending topics.  I only get involved with a trending topic every once in a while, just to show […]

Here’s Why I Wouldn’t Recommend a Black Man Date White Women

I don’t have to tell you much about why I would write a post on this topic.  I was surprised one day when I was dismissed from a conversation about dating white women by a group of Black women who said, “Shut up, we know you’re the type to date white women.” And … everyone […]

I Love Chelsea Handler

Let me preface this post by saying this will be more ignorant than Rza. For those of you who don’t listen to Kanye West or hip-hop, because I know most of you roll together, Rza makes that track when he says, “Champagne wishes and thirty white b*tches!”  One time me and my boy are hanging […]

Jill Scott, Get Over It

There were a ton of articles I contemplated posting, and I had some good ones lined up for you, but we broke stride and went with current affairs. If case you didn’t get a chance to read what Jill Scott had to say on Interracial Dating, you can catch up with the conversation here; […]

Jungle Fever

****** Admin Note ****** I know you you probably already did it … but why not do it again?  Like Lay’s … can’t do it just once! Vote for us in the Black Weblog Finals!  You know you wanna – SBM ***************************** Because we have all been coming down on the fairer sex kinda hard […]

Where have all the good black men gone?

Apparently all the good black men are MIA.  The topic of brothers and bunnies has been discussed and explored since the days of slaves defying massa to get him some pinkfoot.  “Why that fool Jebediah keep messin’ wit massa daughta?  Don’t he know massa gon kill him?”  Well thanks to the Emancipation Proclamation, brothers don’t […]