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It’s so easy for us to give up faith in relationships. Many of us have thought about quitting several times. People will tell you, “When you fall off a horse, you have to get back on.” That’s provided you haven’t concluded that you don’t even want to be on that damn horse. Relationships can be [...]
I often joke that the biggest hindrance to me finding women to date is how intimidating my female friends can be. I always imagine a game of taboo where I’m the keyword and my girlfriend probably wouldn’t be able to describe me to a room full of people, but if I let one of my [...]
In 2013, we will see the usual flux of New Year’s resolutionists declaring that THIS will be their year. They will talk about the change that will occur in their lives and how they will #BeTheBetter. While I have my own take on resolutions, I will agree that with a new year, some things should [...]
A few weeks ago, I wrote a post called 5 Ridiculous Things Women Expect of Men. While this post was largely written in jest, a commenter by the name of Mara explained that in her opinion the first three items on the list showed a “lack of manliness.” To support her claim, she provided a [...]
This week Ashley, a SBM reader, shared a non-traditional bucket list from her friend, Zuri F., through our Facebook page. At first, we thought the list was pretty hilarious. Then we realized the list made a lot of sense and it was our duty to share it here with the full SBM Family. Tabernacle! Below are 30 [...]
It’s no secret around these parts that I have a thing for a few women that I really love. I lie to no one. I would snort Rihanna for a living. I think Rosa Acosta is an alien from out of this world. Kim Kardashian is from Krypton. Cassie can do whatever she wants to [...]
If you know anything about women, you know that there are just some things that you should never say to them. Don’t worry, they brought this on themselves. They say they want men to open up to them, but we’ve got a history book full of stories about men who tried and failed miserably. They [...]
First and foremost, I would like to say that personally and on behalf of everyone on the staff at SBM we hope that everyone out here on the East Coast is safe and dry. Power and cable are casualties of inclement weather and without them, we’ll live. I thought about doing a post that [...]
