The Source For Black Male Perspective
I’ve had a number of female friends over the years ask, How can I tell he loves me? I’ve answered this question a lot of different ways but when it boils down to it, the best way to tell if a man loves you is to STRESS. HIM. OUT. I’m serious. You’re probably thinking to [...]
Webster’s defines “compartmentalize” as the ability to separate into isolated compartments or categories. It’s one of those words that gets tossed around when discussing the male psyche, but rarely do we take the time to look in totality, at the impact of some men’s ability to put the varying machinations of their minds and hearts [...]
Is there anything more depressing than the moment you realize a relationship you’ve invested time, energy and emotion into is coming to its end? Sometimes relationships end with a certain measure of immediacy- the death of the love abrupt and final. Other times the end comes so slow you only notice how much you’re deteriorating [...]
Everywhere we go there are people looking to tell us about relationships. There are the psuedo-self-help books by people like Steve Harvey. There are the preachy movies from people like Tyler Perry and T.D. Jakes. There are blogs like this one here. And then there are our closest friends always ready and willing to impart [...]
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where a romantic endeavor you thought was going great suddenly, abruptly went south without a warning or an identifiable reason? Whether you’re in the early stages of courting and thought you were heading toward a commitment or whether you’ve been together for years and thought you were [...]
Laying on the couch, Modern Family on the television watching them, She and He exchange wordless alternating glances that simultaneously say everything and nothing at all. Leaning in toward his arm where her head happened to be resting, his kiss lands unexpectedly on her cheek – not its intended destination. “What’s wrong babe?” He asks. [...]
Dear Women: We hope this letter finds you held securely by the arms of true Love. Love is a beautiful thing. Yet, we hope you realize how difficult it was for the man in your life to fall in Love with you and quite possibly, how difficult it is for him to be in Love [...]
There are several questions that make life for men difficult. A few questions that never have a good answer, yet can never be left unanswered. They put us on the spot, make us sweat, and may cause stomach pains. – Where is this relationship going? – Did you sleep with her? – Do you love [...]
One of the more interesting things I’ve noticed over the past few years has been the particular set of struggles and tribulations experienced by women whose moral code is the most influencing factor in their love life. These are women who desire romantic connections as deeply as anyone else but who also have a strict [...]
Knowing how to go on an effective date is a bit of an art form. The first thing you have to understand when going on a date is that the whole point is for the two of you to get to know each other while having fun. Many folks have no idea how to extract [...]
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