Is The Time He Takes To Reply An Indication Of His Level Of Interest?


Over the years, i’ve penned a few pieces on Texting etiquette as it pertains to dating. I’ve always been of the school of thought that the person who pays the bill, makes the rules. I am not oblivious to the challenges that texting causes in relationships or dating. It can be the cause of serious […]

Why Does It Take So Much Work For Men Not To Cheat?


Is it really work not to cheat? My coworker has a friend whose husband told his wife he will not go to dinner or for drinks when he’s on business trips if the crowd is mostly women because it’s too much temptation. Another guy friend has a similar rule. In the work plac,e he won’t […]

You, Him and Her: How To Handle The Pre-Exclusive Zone


From MadameNoire: You’ve been on a few dates with a guy you’ve recently met and you’re excited about the possibilities. Over drinks you find yourself telling your closest friends just how great this guy is and how he would be perfect for you. As you and your friends drink wine and nibble at shared appetizers, […]

When Should a Man Move for the Relationship?


From MadameNoire: For those of us crazy enough to even engage in a long distance relationship, there is one unavoidable question that will come if you stay together long enough: who is going to move? This week I was asked if the man or the woman should move or does it matter? Let’s get the […]

Does Social Media Make THE THIRST Worse?


As some of you know, is running an in-depth series exploring the intricacies of THE THIRST and how social media contributes to the dehydration. This week, I was asked to provide insight on how social media encourages the thirst movement. An excerpt: The Thirst Is Real.” Is it? Isn’t it? These days, “the thirst” has become a ubiquious term showing up […]