How Do Men Avoid The “What Are We?” Question?

The last time I wrote here I gave my thoughts on a video that was produced by Buzzfeed. The video chronicled a woman hurt by a man who simply wasn’t honest with her. He hurt her by his lies and she felt the need to let people know that we all should be aware of […]

Why Some Men Are Afraid of Women

Some men are afraid of women. I don’t mean physically – although some men are physically afraid of women. I mean mentally. Mentally speaking, most boys are terrified of women. This is why boys tell so many ignorant bold-faced lies that they could in no way shape or form ever get away with. There are […]

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Why Are So Many Black Men Single: A Different Take on an Old Topic

  Today at 7:15 PM  I’ll be on “The Daily Drum” which broadcasts locally in Washington DC on WHUR 96.3 & nationally on H.U.R. Voices Sirius XM Channel 141 to have a conversation on “ Why Are So Many Black Men Single.” If you have time, please check me out. Before going on the show, […]

Tipping Points In Love: How To Know When It’s Time To Take The Next Step

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where a romantic endeavor you thought was going great suddenly, abruptly went south without a warning or an identifiable reason? Whether you’re in the early stages of courting and thought you were heading toward a commitment or whether you’ve been together for years and thought you were […]

Age vs. Maturity

**I felt this way in January of 2009. My thoughts are still very similar, but the readership here is a lot different now. Enjoy. -Slim** As I revisit 2008 and consider my approaching birthday a couple months from now (Pisces), I’ve realized I’ve come a long way over the X # years I’ve been on […]

Let’s be adult here

I love children. Ok … I don’t walk around saying “awww” and “she’s so cute”, but I am very good with children and do look forward to having my own little SBM running, macking all the girls in Kindergarten with his mixture of wit and genius (lets be real … girls don’t start finding that […]

Age Ain’t Nuthin but a Number…Or Is It?

As I revisit 2008 and consider my approaching birthday a couple months from now (Pisces), I’ve realized I’ve come a long way over the X # years I’ve been on this earth. In certain areas of life, I feel like I’ve matured at a quicker rate than a lot of the peeps around me. On […]