Another Dysfunctional Dating Story

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I will be the first to say that dating is difficult. It’s stressful. As the woman, you have to make sure your hair is on point, nails done, and that what you wear is flattering. You have to worry about what to talk about, how much to disclose, and depending on what city you’re in, […]

Can Men Ever Successfully Call Women Out?

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Recently I read a Facebook status in which a guy was speaking in retrospect. The following I’ll be pretty much paraphrasing. The man goes on to say that he was curved for being too sophisticated and nice. he says that the man that the woman eventually curved him for was less sophisticated and ultimately got […]

Did You Leave Your Panties at Home?: The Lost Art of Flirting

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How can you be hard to get, if you don’t know how to flirt? Flirting incites the chase. If flirting is essential to dating, then it is not men’s fault if they do no court or date you, it’s yours. It is your fault if all they talk about is sex or are overbearing. Flirting […]

Starting a Business with Your Spouse

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Men and women approach things totally different, one of the biggest areas we approach differently is business. Recently, I was discussing with a woman I was dating a business idea. She was enthusiastic about the ideas I had that built upon something she was doing that she knew had legs, but hadn’t made profitable. She […]

Stephen A. Smith: Men Shouldn’t Hit Women and Women Shouldn’t Provoke Men

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My father once told me, “You should never put your hands on a woman. If you are dating a woman that makes you feel angry enough to hit her, than she isn’t the woman for you.” Basically he meant, it’s up to you to be a man and never blow your cool. He also meant […]

5 Reasons Men Should Go Out Alone

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My friend Leeder and I were discussing the benefits of going out alone and it started to become apparent that some of these points needed to be shared with a few of you cats, who can’t seem to detach from the bros. Real men can go out alone confidently, if you have never done so, here […]

What If You Unknowingly Fathered a Child?

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“How many people have ever heard of the Putative Father Registry?” I ask this every semester when I teach my family law class at Syracuse University. No one ever raises a hand. Only blank stares. “What about deadbeat dads? Ever heard of them?” Students nod, self-satisfied in their recognition. I move to my next question. […]

6 Reasons Why Women Love Beards

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In 2013 we saw the re-emergence and adoration of one of man’s greatest accessories- facial hair, more specifically the beard. A few squiggly hairs on your chin wasn’t enough to suffice as sexy, unless you were Pharrell. Women were fawning over scruffy faces all over the U.S., you saw pages dedicated to beards on Twitter, Tumblr, […]

Men Have Always Been Better Cheaters

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Women cheat. Men cheat. However, when you listen to the radio or watch comedians run their routines, you always hear people say women are better cheaters. Don’t believe them. When it comes to cheating men have all the power and less of the consequences. Since the dawn of infidelity Men Have Always Been Better Cheaters: We […]

Pedicures, Happy Endings, and Why I Can Understand Men Paying for Sex

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Yesterday, I got my first pedicure. I was truly skeptical at first, thoughts of getting my G card confiscated as swiftly as I walked into the door swirled through my mind. Nevertheless, I was there, in a nail salon awkwardly asking for a nail tech that came with a high recommendation. Moments later, I feel […]