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Chilling on Twitter, as I so often do, and came across this lovely gem… @TheCosby: The women need to do this if they want to get a man advice industry is booming …I need to get my gentlemanly hands in some ladies’ purses The tweet was funny for a number of reasons. A couple days prior [...]
About four months ago, I wrote a Part I to this series to much success. A lot of women would love to hear less about them and prefer that we talk about men and what men need to do. In the backroom, I will tell the fellas that we don’t have to do much, and [...]
I believe in honesty … I mean really. I think that honesty is great. People’s ability to handle “the truth” is significantly better than it was back in the day. While our parents may not have been able to handle statements like “I’m still dating other people” or “I’m doing me” and be able to [...]
One good thing about Single Black Male is that our cast of writers have the ability to think outside the box. We present age old arguments and dilemmas in a fresh and updated light for our readers, in order to adjust and relate to current times. I’m heavily influenced by sports, literature, pop culture, and [...]
****** Admin Note ****** I hope everyone love and appreciated our Reader Appreciation Week. We get so many letters, it was time that we took the time to let ya’ll know we appreciate each and every one of ya’ll (yeah … you too!). On a side note … We are probably not going to be [...]
****** Admin Note ****** Today, we are bringing you the first SBM multi-site, male & female collaboration post! This is history people! The beautiful, intelligent, and eloquent Nicki Sunshine of Single Sister’s Speak Out is here to speak on the topic. Enjoy – SBM *********************** Picture this: you’re sitting on a couch, the lights are off, you’re [...]
What’s good SBM community. I get emails at my other locations all the time about sex, lies, and videotape different topics and personal questions they want me to address. I thought for this week, since I’ve had writers block for a month I’d share with the community an email that came across my desk screen. [...]
***** Admin Note ***** Because we really love you all and listen to you … here is another post based off of a skribit suggestion. Keep suggestiong topic using the little tool on the site … we do listen. Also … the survey is done with. Thanks to everyone who completed the survey … and [...]
I think the advice is pretty standard that too many bags can cause you problems in your future. People have all types of bags. They have bags when it comes to communicating. Maybe in a past relationship whenever they tried to communicate verbally to someone they were met with an aggressive confrontational response that has [...]
This isn’t about chicken nuggets or gold nuggets or even the Denver Nuggets. It’s about something far less valuable. You know that little teeny weeny itty bitty little nugget that just won’t go away? No matter how many times you flush it, it just won’t go away. It just keeps coming right back up. For [...]
