Old Love vs New Chemistry: Which Do You Choose?

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Wanting that old thing back can be a bitch can’t it? Well it sure can be when you’re aware of the dangers of it. We could end up paranoid sometimes about a situation like that. There’s only two ways things can go: right or wrong. We’re only human. With that, there’s been times that we’ve […]

Yikes, My Crush and Ex Flame Are Friends

Yikes, My Crush and Ex Flame Are Friends

Have you ever been in a situation that you couldn’t anticipate, but you could’ve avoided, and somehow you didn’t? Let’s just start with the moment that I walked into the house party in Brooklyn. It was packed. A tad sweaty due to the summertime heatwave. But not even the heat could distract me from the […]

Picky or Patient: What Type of Dater Are You?

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Nitpick- adj. Overly critical, esp. on trivial matters; focused on only trivial aspects Patient- adj. Quietly and steadily persevering or diligent, especially in detail or exactness Throughout the period of time that we date, we turn down many. Some people in our eyes are completely out of the question. Others might really be on the […]

The Thing About Break Up Sex

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Break up sex is probably some of the best sex you can ever have in your lifetime. For the most part break up sex usually isn’t the last time you really have sex with that person- it’s all bullsh*t. It’s what we see in the movies, that romantic hoopla that makes women glee with moisture, and the […]

Two Guys One Show: Brown Fist Urban League {Podcast}

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The 2 Guys discuss Rich turning 31, some clarification on women not wanting men to have fun…EVER, Stay in Your Lane Relationship Insurance, cutting things out of life that don’t make you happy, a divisive article on Salon.com about the My Brother’s Keeper initiative and the struggles of young black girls and women, a woman […]

How Does a Man Approach a Newly Single Woman?

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I don’t know! How about we start off with that and let it be known. I am not perfect in the world of dating. Although I’ve experienced great successes, i sure have some weak points. One of my biggest weak points is my timing. With women I have the shittiest timing this side of the […]

Why Some Men Fear A “Church” Woman

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  I tread on thin ice today. By the end of this post I am sure to ease the minds of all religious people. The title of this post isn’t exactly what you might think. Allow me to preface my post. I think if you’re a woman and you’re spiritual that’s great. I believe in […]

Why Are We All Looking For The Same Person And Relationship?

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I had a conversation with this dude who grew up in a religious household. As an adult, he does not follow his old, strictly religious way of life. He enjoys having sexual relationships with porn stars and strippers and engages in threesomes and all sorts of other sexually adventurous activity. But he’s in his early […]

Is a Title Necessary for a Healthy Relationship?

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A title is not necessary for a healthy relationship, but on the other hand it is necessary for a healthy relationship. The unhealthy circumstances come to play when one person is holding back their true feelings and intentions. We call that settling. When a woman wants to have a title, but meets a man who […]

What Do We Really Know About Relationships in 2014?

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I find it hard that in 2014, we are still rehashing many of the same issues we’ve been talking about for the last six years since blogging turned into the industry that it is now. As it pertains to relationships, every year there’s a whole new dose of the same issues and topics with fresh […]