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As some of you know, I’ve worked with BadOnlineDates.com before in helping provide content for their A Man’s Point of View series. Now ABC Magazine and 20/20 have partnered with BadOnlineDates, because they want to answer the question: What makes a good date go bad? They don’t only want to hear your stories, they want to see [...]
Lately, I’ve been having a great many conversations around success – what it looks like, how it is defined and most importantly, what separates those who achieve it from those who don’t. More often than not in these conversations, success comes back to talent. Most folks feel like it is the talent – the God-given [...]
We get questions from you, our readers. A LOT of questions. “Single Black Mail” is where we respond and let the family put in some thoughts too in the comments section. If you have a burning question, hit the “Contact Us” link at the top of the page. SBM cares. I have recently started dating [...]
Slim Jackson This week actually went by pretty quickly. Not sure if that means I had a good week or I was just really busy. My basketball team is headed to the playoffs after winning 5 games in a row. I’m trying to get some footage of me dunking on some feeble bballer. If I [...]
Slim Jackson This week was aight til Thursday. I’m in recruiting, so there’s nothing like placing somebody at a job and then having them get fired the first day. I really don’t like fire fighting. Played in my first league bball game. My team managed to lose a 10 point lead with a minute left. [...]
Mr. FAQs Is a donut any better for you if you walk .6 miles to get it? For two days I went on a Taco Bell Fresca taco craze…on the third day my body said it was displeased. I hate for (good) books to end. I feel like the Houston Comets. My championship teams are [...]
***** Admin Note ***** I (SBM) am renting out a room in my condo for Inauguration. Its right next to the metro … so you don’t have to worry about the fact that every road in the city will be closed. If your interested … email me at [email protected] … I got pictures. ************************ Slim [...]
Mr. FAQs I’m still on my H-Town high…you don’t know what you got til its/their gone. “BITCH I’m WIRED UP!” is my new theme in life…along with “bust it wide open,” “damn n*gga she just love me,” “rack daddy,” “ricky bobby” et al. I need to work on being more focused and mentally and emotionally [...]
Welcome to this special holiday version of Rantings of an SBM. For you poor bastards in the office (while I’m grabbing some good shopping deals) and those of you that love us so much to come spend some time while on your vacation. Slim Jackson Last minute holiday shopping is not the move. A 5 [...]
***Late Admin Note*** My submission for the blogger fantasy is up at Rants of a Wild Child. I kept it calmer than I usually would have out of respect … but … I had to do it. Its all in fun. ********************** Mr. FAQs I really have to work on my patience. Riddle me this: [...]
