Single Black Mail Episode 4: Minute-Man

When a girlfriend is fed up in the bedroom, and needs advice on how to break this news to her boo, Jeff J. is here to help on this episode of Single Black Mail!

Single Black Mail Episode 3: Cheaters Remorse

Cheaters need to heal too, right? Jeff assists a young man get over his regrets in the latest Single Black Mail Episode 3: Cheaters Remorse: #SBMail

Single Black Mail Episode 2: Friends With Benefits

Jeff J. tackles friends with benefits in Single Black Male Episode 2: Friends With Benefits #SBMail

Single Black Mail Episode 1: “The Rekindle”

For years, we’ve answered readers questions via email and posted them on the site in hopes of helping our fellow readers, and anyone really, with any dating/relationship issues they face. Following the enormous digital media wave, we thought it would be natural to progress to video! Allow us to introduce the inaugural episode of the digital […]

How Long Is Too Long To Wait For A Relationship?

From the SBM mailbox: I met someone last September at a wedding. We live on opposite sides of the country and are both relatively busy. I’m currently a full-time student and he’s a young entrepreneur. After we met we kept in touch and via phone and video chat. We never discussed relationships but twice he […]

How Shedding Self-Doubt Can Help Women Achieve Greatness

As many of you know, I’m the problem child around these parts. Along with that role as a problem child is my reluctance to answer SBMail. It’s not that I don’t care to answer the mail, but it’s that often times I think that the answers are fairly obvious. The other reason is that typically […]