Is God Responsible For Sexual Chemistry?

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I think one of the greatest beauties in life is the fact that there is so much to debate. There is so much to discuss and so much room to gain more understanding. Once in a while I am lucky to be inspired to write about something that I think would make a great debate […]

How Can Your New Lover Measure Up To Your Ex In Bed?

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This past weekend I was able to watch Chris Rock’s “Kill The Messenger” stand up special again. If you’ve followed my writing you know that I gain a lot of inspiration from stand up acts. We laugh at most jokes because we relate. Kill The Messenger is one joint that grew on me over time. […]

Who Decides What “Making Love” Is?

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[embedyt]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1DsWazTC6_w[/embedyt] It’s Monday night, and we are in the midst of a big time snow day here in the northeast. That’s right, if you reside in a city in this vicinity then your city will be cuff city for a couple days. What better time to have a little fun with this topic. F****** vs […]

4 Good Things About Break Ups

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Some people view break-ups like they are the end of the world. Friends console you as you mope around for a good three to four months, but everything isn’t so bad about cutting your loses and calling it quits. Here’s ‘Four Good Things About Break-Ups': 1. It’s a Relief You ever break up with someone, […]

“If Marriage Isn’t The Goal, Why Are You Dating Him/Her?”

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You may or may not have seen the above meme go viral. It’s really nothing new. Every time I see it my mind becomes conflicted. I’m conflicted because on paper, dating with the purpose of marriage is ideal. It’s exactly what many of us would like to do. At the same time, this meme isn’t […]

Bedroom Antics: 5 Reasons Men Should Talk During Sex

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*theSUNK Throwback* This past memorial weekend, my boy and I walked along the Lake to spot attractive women, big booties, and whatever lied in between. Towards the walk back to the car I overheard two women discussing sex; this red-bone with short hair said, “He doesn’t say anything to make me cum.” So the sex […]

Please Stop Having Children By My Future Husband

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This is a public service announcement on the behalf of my future married self and my sister friends in the struggle. Have you ever dated a guy with a child and thought to yourself: I wish he didn’t come with a microwave family. Am I wrong? I’ll help you with that answer, no you are […]

You’re About to Ruin This: After Sex Do’s and Dont’s

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It has come to my attention that after getting that happy ending many people don’t know what to do with themselves, so due to such infractions I must educate. What you do after sex is just as important as what you did during? There is still a mood to set after getting the cheeks and knocking boots. Here’s what […]

Did You Leave Your Panties at Home?: The Lost Art of Flirting

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How can you be hard to get, if you don’t know how to flirt? Flirting incites the chase. If flirting is essential to dating, then it is not men’s fault if they do no court or date you, it’s yours. It is your fault if all they talk about is sex or are overbearing. Flirting […]

How to Tell a Woman She’s Bad in Bed

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The funny thing about sex is that people think a woman can’t be wack in bed. Every time sex is wack the finger always gets pointed at the man. That’s why it’s so much pressure on men to perform in the sack. It’s even more pressure when you’re a sex-blogger. But hey women can be […]