Why People Can’t Stand Relationship “Experts”


The man above is the well known Tony Gaskins. He recently sat down with Madame Noire for an interview. Madame Noire is a site that I frequent because of all the thought provoking content. This time around was no different as the subject matter got  the people buzzing. Feel free to watch the full interview […]

I Have A Different Beef With Bill Cosby


You can feel free to call me a 90’s baby. I grew up in the 90’s. My early years consisted of Saturday afternoon wrestling on Fox 5 after “Life With Louie,” or Dionne Warwick’s Psychic Friends Network. I grew up knowing if I caught “Bobby’s World” after school it was a great day. Beeper gum? […]

Will He Wait In 2015?

Seattle Seahawks Quarterback Russell Wilson and entertainer Ciara Harris arrive for a state dinner for Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe, Tuesday, April 28, 2015, at the White House in Washington. (AP Photo/Andrew Harnik)

Yes would be the simple answer here. There’s more behind that yes, which is probably why you’re reading this currently. I figured that this was the perfect time to rehash one of those really good conversations on celibacy. You see, America’s Golden Boy Russel Wilson currently dates the “cute an ting” Ciara. In a recent […]

Is God Responsible For Sexual Chemistry?


I think one of the greatest beauties in life is the fact that there is so much to debate. There is so much to discuss and so much room to gain more understanding. Once in a while I am lucky to be inspired to write about something that I think would make a great debate […]

How Can Your New Lover Measure Up To Your Ex In Bed?

young afro american couple kissing

This past weekend I was able to watch Chris Rock’s “Kill The Messenger” stand up special again. If you’ve followed my writing you know that I gain a lot of inspiration from stand up acts. We laugh at most jokes because we relate. Kill The Messenger is one joint that grew on me over time. […]

Who Decides What “Making Love” Is?


[embedyt]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1DsWazTC6_w[/embedyt] It’s Monday night, and we are in the midst of a big time snow day here in the northeast. That’s right, if you reside in a city in this vicinity then your city will be cuff city for a couple days. What better time to have a little fun with this topic. F****** vs […]

4 Good Things About Break Ups


Some people view break-ups like they are the end of the world. Friends console you as you mope around for a good three to four months, but everything isn’t so bad about cutting your loses and calling it quits. Here’s ‘Four Good Things About Break-Ups': 1. It’s a Relief You ever break up with someone, […]

“If Marriage Isn’t The Goal, Why Are You Dating Him/Her?”

Couple Cuddling in Bed

You may or may not have seen the above meme go viral. It’s really nothing new. Every time I see it my mind becomes conflicted. I’m conflicted because on paper, dating with the purpose of marriage is ideal. It’s exactly what many of us would like to do. At the same time, this meme isn’t […]

Bedroom Antics: 5 Reasons Men Should Talk During Sex


*theSUNK Throwback* This past memorial weekend, my boy and I walked along the Lake to spot attractive women, big booties, and whatever lied in between. Towards the walk back to the car I overheard two women discussing sex; this red-bone with short hair said, “He doesn’t say anything to make me cum.” So the sex […]

Please Stop Having Children By My Future Husband


This is a public service announcement on the behalf of my future married self and my sister friends in the struggle. Have you ever dated a guy with a child and thought to yourself: I wish he didn’t come with a microwave family. Am I wrong? I’ll help you with that answer, no you are […]