Please Stop Having Children By My Future Husband

This is a public service announcement on the behalf of my future married self and my sister friends in the struggle. Have you ever dated a guy with a child and thought to yourself: I wish he didn’t come with a microwave family. Am I wrong? I’ll help you with that answer, no you are […]

Single Parents: Do You Need the Approval of Your Child’s Mother or Father?

This week on MadameNoire, I was asked to speak on the ever complicated topic of when it’s right to meet the baby daddy/mama and how much influence they should have on the relationships of their exes. Early MN commenters then promptly ignored the content of the post and lashed into me for referring to men as […]