Three Ways That Privacy Strengthens Relationships

  With the release of the iPhone 5S, one of the new features that Android users will kick and scream that they had first yet no one really cares was unveiled was the fingerprint scanner. This device allows users to biometrically authenticate into their phones without using a password. All you need is a finger […]

Illegal Search and Seizure: Stay Out of His (or Her) Things!

Check out the following: My last boyfriend was a cheater. I found out and [decided] to stay with him (I was 22- go figure). One day we were having an argument about me checking his facebook inbox, emails, etc and I [told] him that privacy is something he forfeited by choosing to cheat. –  SBM […]

The Weekly ‘You Need to Chill’ Awards: Kim K., Kanye, Beyonce, Women Who Snoop and more

The purpose of this post is to tie up some loose ends and also appease those of you who comment, send emails, or tweet me and say, “How come you don’t write articles anymore?” That’s actually not true. I write a lot of articles. I just don’t post them. The other thing that I get […]


**As usual, make sure you vote for Single Black Male as Best S*x and Relationship Blog and Blog of the Year in the Black Weblog Awards. Also, please vote for my other blog, Three Ways to Take It, for Best Writing in a Blog and Best New Blog. We’re doin’ big things! -Slim** When I […]


I don’t like being cheated on. I don’t think anybody does. Though if you do like it, then oral sex it prolly really isn’t cheating. As for the rest of us, we try to screen people out prior to dating ’em if we think they’re gonna be the sketchy and shady type. And generally if […]