What’s Behind Twitter’s Obsession With Eating “Cake”?


 Share on Tumblr You know, it’s said that we live in a microwave society. We are trendy. We want instant gratification. I’m sure we’re conditioned to be that way at this point. At least in small doses we all have a little microwave society in us. This day I examine a small part of what’s […]

Why Men Don’t Put in Work in Dating


 Share on Tumblr “Why don’t men want to put in any work?” I guess this is an age old question. Hell, I might get get a question like this at least once a week. It’s well documented that dating if nothing else can be tricky. So many nuances are involved. You’re always thinking so defensively. […]

Are These Women* Loyal? Some Men Sure Aren’t.


 Share on Tumblr   We’re a couple weeks from summer y’all!! It’s around this time where there’s a whole slew of new music. We’re all listening and looking to see reactions. We’re trying to figure out what will be the summer anthem. I love summer anthems. I frequent  many outings throughout the summer months (like […]

Messing With The Guy You Don’t “Like” Might Lower Your Stock


 Share on Tumblr It’s no secret that men and women are wired differently. These differences show themselves in a myriad of ways. We spend more time than we’d like to admit just scratching our heads at one another. It’s why I and other SBM writers write. We seek to bridge a gap with understanding.  We’re […]

Are Men Responsible For Round 2 in the Bedroom?


 Share on Tumblr Most times when I begin to write, I listen to a song or two just to get my mind right. Today the ipod was on shuffle and “Tap Out” comes on. How fitting, right? Maybe it’s more ironic considering today’s discussion. Last week I wrote a post entitled “Ladies, This Can be […]

Ladies, This Can Be Why “Round 2″ Doesn’t Happen


 Share on Tumblr Today’s post is dedicated to the discussion of sexual chemistry. To put it plainly, it’s an important attribute to any kind of sexual relationship. Through my discussions with friends and my own experience I’ve learned  few things. One of which is that a woman can take somethings personally. In this case, it’s […]

When is it OK to Deny Him S*x?

I bet she not even really sleep...I wonder if Kim is still up.

 Share on Tumblr  I listen to a syndicated talk radio show and it seems like their sole purpose is to come up with inflammatory questions to ask their listeners each week. Last week’s question was: When is it OK to deny your husband xes? Responses fell into three general categories. Category 1: Never. Other than the […]

Celibacy and the Single Woman

*Cover Art By Michael K. Wilson*

 Share on Tumblr  Well folks, it’s finally here. As many of you already know, my e-book, my digital novella, my really long, short-story drops today. It’s called Secrets Discovered In Memoriam, and it explores the mind of a man trying to come to terms with his past and his emotional relation to it in the […]

Should Women Carry Condoms

Well, this is awkward.

 Share on TumblrSource: National Survey of S*xual & Health Behavior – Indiana University A couple quick statistics before we begin: 1 in 4 people in monogamous relationships reported using condoms 1 in 3 singles reported using condoms So, should women carry condoms? Or do they already? Whose responsibility is it to provide the protection? Why the […]

Can You Love God & Sex?

I have been trying to figure out what this was billboard was advertising for over a week.

 Share on TumblrI have a confession to make, the readers really drive content on the site.  As a writer at SingleBlackMale.org, I can tell you most people read a post one time, but they’ll read the comments many times over.  And in our minds we’re able to classify our readers into several categories, so it’s […]