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I listen to a syndicated talk radio show and it seems like their sole purpose is to come up with inflammatory questions to ask their listeners each week. Last week’s question was: When is it OK to deny your husband xes? Responses fell into three general categories. Category 1: Never. Other than the monthly visit [...]
Well folks, it’s finally here. As many of you already know, my e-book, my digital novella, my really long, short-story drops today. It’s called Secrets Discovered In Memoriam, and it explores the mind of a man trying to come to terms with his past and his emotional relation to it in the wake of [...]
Source: National Survey of S*xual & Health Behavior – Indiana University A couple quick statistics before we begin: 1 in 4 people in monogamous relationships reported using condoms 1 in 3 singles reported using condoms So, should women carry condoms? Or do they already? Whose responsibility is it to provide the protection? Why the hell are [...]
I have a confession to make, the readers really drive content on the site. As a writer at SingleBlackMale.org, I can tell you most people read a post one time, but they’ll read the comments many times over. And in our minds we’re able to classify our readers into several categories, so it’s no surprise [...]
The digital age. What a great time to be alive. Everything has gotten faster, smaller, easier but in some aspects, have things gotten too easy? In this instance, I’m referring to dating, especially for men. I had an interesting revelation the other day but I’ll get to that in a minute. I don’t know about [...]
Website: http://www.WisdomIsMisery Twitter: @WisdomIsMisery Women put a lot of emphasis on s*x. I’m not here to debate about who thinks about s*x more but I know for a fact that women think more about the intimacy of s*x WAAAY more. For example, I’ve never had a discussion with one of my homeboys about “making love” [...]
Having an orgasm is cool, but sometimes there’s more to life than busting a fat one. Don’t get me wrong, I love to get my horizontal reggae wrestle on and thunderclap that a$$ on a fairly regular basis once I find someone that makes me wanna repeatedly tickle their fancy and push the juice dispenser [...]
With enough persistence, a guy can talk his girl into just about anything in between the sheets. It’s no secret that it’s not that women won’t do certain things in bed, it’s just that she has to feel comfortable with the person she’s doing it with. The right guy can have a woman doing all [...]
**** Admin Note **** While SBM is still running around Europe with a backpack and whatever money he can grab out the ATM … enjoy the continued stylings of Cashmere Jones. – SBM ************* Its summertime and sun dresses and sandals are back in full force. The ladies are sporting the results of that winter [...]
*** Admin Note *** Today, Tuesday, April 13, 2010, from 530-10pm at Sutra Lounge in Adam’s Morgan at 2406 18th Street NW, Dr. J will be one of several DC-area bloggers hosting a happy hour organized by Elevated Entertainment and Usual Suspectz. Come and finally put a face to Dr. J, support the SBM family, [...]
