Another Dysfunctional Dating Story

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I will be the first to say that dating is difficult. It’s stressful. As the woman, you have to make sure your hair is on point, nails done, and that what you wear is flattering. You have to worry about what to talk about, how much to disclose, and depending on what city you’re in, […]

Why Men Should Enjoy The Holiday Offseason

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Happy new year to everyone, and one time for Stuart Scott! I hope everyone had an enjoyable break or semi-break. I happened to thoroughly enjoy mine minus a couple of nonsensical events. But what’s a holiday season without those right? So now we’re in January and the dust is settled. For the fellas, hopefully we […]

Views From The 6: A Retrospective On Women As My 26th Birthday Approaches

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At this point I am less than a week from my 26th birthday. 25 was a fun year, a progress year. I expect 26 to be more of the same just with some bigger moves to be made. It was my own bright idea to share with my SBM family some thoughts I have and […]

Can Men Ever Successfully Call Women Out?

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Recently I read a Facebook status in which a guy was speaking in retrospect. The following I’ll be pretty much paraphrasing. The man goes on to say that he was curved for being too sophisticated and nice. he says that the man that the woman eventually curved him for was less sophisticated and ultimately got […]

25 Things Every Black Woman Should Know How to Cook

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  To pick up where Amir’s dope response post ‘The Problem with the ‘Can You Cook?’ Debate’ left off, here is a theSUNK classics called ’25 Things Ever Black Woman Should Know How to Cook’. Read this list, practice it, be fruitful and multiply: 1. Homemade Mac’ n Cheese not runny, nice and thick 2. […]

Will America Ever Fully Embrace Women’s Sports?

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I could’ve chose any woman to place above but I selfishly had to put up Skylar Diggins because I’m not sure of many things in the world better than her. But today is about some new business and a subject that strays from my usual M.O. I love sports and today’s topic is about the […]

Did You Leave Your Panties at Home?: The Lost Art of Flirting

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How can you be hard to get, if you don’t know how to flirt? Flirting incites the chase. If flirting is essential to dating, then it is not men’s fault if they do no court or date you, it’s yours. It is your fault if all they talk about is sex or are overbearing. Flirting […]

Are Pregnancies Always To Be Celebrated?

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The title of this posts probably made an “uh oh” go off in your head. Pregnancy can be a touchy subject. It can be touchy especially in where this post will go today. It can be easily thought to be judgmental by some but I promise you nothing of the sorts. I have a story […]

Starting a Business with Your Spouse

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Men and women approach things totally different, one of the biggest areas we approach differently is business. Recently, I was discussing with a woman I was dating a business idea. She was enthusiastic about the ideas I had that built upon something she was doing that she knew had legs, but hadn’t made profitable. She […]

5 Phrases Women Use to Initiate Sex

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There’s a misconception that men never turn down sex or that we’re horny all the time. From my experience, women are just as horny if not hornier most of the time than men. Not to mention they have just as much game to get the pipe, as you think you do to get the panties. […]