Honestly, when it comes to the courting process I’m not the most ambitious man on the planet. Some might even call me lazy. Don’t get me wrong, I have no problem approaching women. I do that all the time. I’m just saying I’m not going to go out of my way to do it. However, [...]
Still Single? Maybe You Should Settle
January 5, 2012 By 120 Comments
I’ll be honest, if I begin to genuinely like a woman and want more from her than to be some guy she is dating, I am going to ask myself: “Is this the best I can do?” It’s not a simple yes or no question. Like most people, when it comes to choosing one person [...]
Women Don’t Want Men to Have Fun
December 29, 2011 By 54 Comments
Let’s face it, we all know that women don’t want men to have fun. You are only allowed to ever have fun with her and her alone. Have you ever seen the rage in your woman’s eyes after admitting you actually had a good time “just hanging with the fellas”? It’s terrifying. That’s why whenever [...]
How Many is Too Many: What’s Your Number?
December 22, 2011 By 232 Comments
I meant to write about this movie when I first saw it but life happens. In order to keep my G-status intact I will provide a brief explanation on how I came to see this movie in the first place: I set out on my date to watch Killer Elite with Jason Statham, Clive Owens, [...]
5 Things Men Need To Do To Keep Women Happy
December 7, 2011 By 152 Comments
So a few weeks ago, I wrote an article on 5 things women need to do to keep men happy. We had some great participation, and some feelings were hurt. I received a few tweets, Facebook messages, and comments by some who were offended by the title or the notion that women NEED to do [...]
Why We Get Mad at Our Wives
December 1, 2011 By 202 Comments
Earlier this week, CNN hosted an article from Parenting.com called Why We Get Mad at Our Husbands. After reading the title, I hoped to find insight on why women get upset with men and steps I could take to avoid the wrath of my future wife. I had no such luck. Instead, I reached the end [...]
Defending Her Honor: When a Man Disrespects a Woman
November 30, 2011 By 325 Comments
I was out with Shonna at one of her favorite spots. We’d been there for about an hour. She was laughing. I was smiling. We were having the best night we’d had together since we started dating. I put my drink on the bar, and let her know I had to make a pit stop [...]
Black Girl Lost: The Fallacy That Unmarried Women Over 30 Are Losing
November 29, 2011 By 232 Comments
I swear I wasn’t looking for trouble… It was Sunday, and I was recovering from the community service I performed from the prior evening, helping young women mitigate the cost of heir higher education. I checked on Twitter to see what the morning conversation was about. I saw a young lady’s tweet appear across my timeline [...]
5 Things Women Need to Do to Keep Men Happy
November 7, 2011 By 64 Comments
Men always talk about what women can do to please them. We make it simple yet we have a laundry list of demands. Women say we are simple, and at times they are correct, but there’s a rhyme and reason to the things we demand. So I decided to list a few ways in which [...]
Have Women Removed Men’s Need to Put A Ring on It?
November 3, 2011 By 355 Comments
I recently wrote a post on my personal site asking a simple question, Do Black Men Not Value Marriage? Ideally, successful posts generate conversations that extend far beyond the limits of the comments section, Twitter, Facebook and/or wherever people chose to socialize on-line. A well written, thought provoking post will continue to haunt me generate debate [...]
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