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SBM Contributor RealGoesRight takes a stab at answer why it is that men find it easier to say no than women. It’s difficult to say either way in my book. I know that it took me a long time to get to the point of being able to say, “No.” Probably longer than it does [...]
Since the beginning of time, one question has reigned supreme when discussing the parts of a man most associated with manhood and masculinity. It is a question to witch modern science has dedicated decades of study, and one for which nations have crumbled. The question: Does size matter? Generally, when the size question is broached, [...]
With all the focus on bedroom skills, sometimes it seems like men forget the fact that the majority of the time they spend with a woman will occur outside of the bedroom. As the saying goes, “It’s not about who you want to spend your Friday night with but who you want to spend all day Saturday [...]
Initially I thought this was the dumbest question I had heard in a long time. I’m sitting here watching an episode of Two Broke Girls and I comment, “Caroline stay in those yoga pants! I love it!” I get asked, “What is it with guys and yoga pants?” I thought I’d take a minute and [...]
This past weekend, someone on Twitter made the accusation that Beyonce had been abused by her father. As expected, things quickly went left and this person found herself in a quagmire. After taking heat from some of Black Twitter’s most influential, she apologized. I thought it was over, but noticed something else happen. A few [...]
By Muffie Bradshaw Men and women both make dating mistakes. Here are four that come up for the fairer sex from Muffie’s perspective: 4. Ms. Anti-Commitment You’re falling for him more quickly than you planned. The emotional connection that the two of you share goes far beyond the physical attraction. Although not anticipated, the two [...]
Chilling on Twitter, as I so often do, and came across this lovely gem… @TheCosby: The women need to do this if they want to get a man advice industry is booming …I need to get my gentlemanly hands in some ladies’ purses The tweet was funny for a number of reasons. A couple days prior [...]
Last week, I dropped a post about qualities that I go out and look for in someone that I would consider a companion. I don’t think I did anything wrong, but where things got hectic was when I tried to make a corollary with Amber Rose and implied that she is the “wifey standard.” [...]
Check out the following: My last boyfriend was a cheater. I found out and [decided] to stay with him (I was 22- go figure). One day we were having an argument about me checking his facebook inbox, emails, etc and I [told] him that privacy is something he forfeited by choosing to cheat. – SBM [...]
