The Hot vs. Emotional Unavailability Matrix – Women’s Guide to Men

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Not that there’s anything wrong with women taking a crack at the matrix. I’m sure most have seen the Hot vs. Crazy Matrix by the genius who posted in it late July. This is a version for women to evaluate men on a Hot and Emotional Unavailability Matrix. Thoughts?

Why Being In Love Shouldn’t Feel The Same Every Time

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“I Think I fall in love a little bit with anyone who shows me their soul. This world is so guarded and fearful. I appreciate rawness so much.” The above quote was “screenshotted” by me from instagram. It speaks almost directly to what I’d like to get into today. I have become an avid listener […]

Does Someone Deserve To Be Cheated On?

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“Maybe this might sound rude. I’m Taken but I want you.”  Trey Songz – “Cake” This is certainly a predicament many have been in. The above quote references Trey simply being greedy. That’s why the track is coined “Cake.” Today’s post isn’t about cheating for cheating sake. Today’s post is about my thoughts on our […]

4 Signs He’s Finished Playing Games

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I found myself watching Boomerang over this past holiday weekend. It’s one of my favorite flicks. This time around the experience was a bit different. Something tells me the Taylor Port had something to do with that, but I digress.  I noticed something towards the end of the movie. Angela (Halle Berry) was hurt. She […]

How Do You Know Your Relationship Is Serious?

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Listen, not every relationship is perfect. Each relationship is its own relationship in its own right. Every relationship doesn’t have a title (sometimes titles are the precursor to the end) and not every relationship makes sense to everyone else (everyone in your business is typically the precursor to the end). Despite all of that, I’m […]

Why Men Don’t Put in Work in Dating

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“Why don’t men want to put in any work?” I guess this is an age old question. Hell, I might get get a question like this at least once a week. It’s well documented that dating if nothing else can be tricky. So many nuances are involved. You’re always thinking so defensively. What should you […]

Top Ten from ‘ 33 Men Reveal The One Thing They’d Like All Women To Stop Doing Immediately’

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A pretty dope post was posted on Thought Catalog the other day that listed 33 Men’s response to One Thing They’d Like Women To Stop Doing Immediately. I gather my favorite ten and listed them here. You can check out the whole article here but feel free to see my Top Ten and offer your […]

#300Sandwiches Lady Gets Engaged 256 Sandwiches Later

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Remember the 300 sandwiches lady? The one who had to make her boyfriend 300 sandwiches in order for him to propose? They just got engaged — 256 sandwiches later. In June 2012, Stephanie Smith started a blog to document the sandwiches she needed to make in exchange for a ring. If you aren’t familiar with […]

What Is Dating Like For a “Fat Girl”?

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Before everyone gets their panties in a bunch, let me explain. Comedian Louis C.K. has a new(ish) sitcom called, Louie. In this sitcom, which is funny to me because I like Louis C.K. a whole lot but I can understand why not everyone is watching it, there is a Fat Girl soliloquy. (I want to […]

How Does He Decide That Your Relationship “Break” Can End?

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  This week I wrote a post over for the good folks over at MadameNoire. Now the premise of this post was what factors into when a man will go from the “we on a break” phase and get to the “let’s get back right” phase. Although I feel that ultimatums are the absolute worst […]