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He’s Not in Love … He’s a PIMP: The Truth of Ignorant Females


Put my pimp in your life

“I show you shit you never seen, the Seven Wonders of the World
And I can make you the eighth if you wanna be my girl
When I say my girl I don’t mean my woman, that ain’t my style
Need a real street stalker (stalker) to walk a green mile …
I’m a million dollar mack that need a billion dollar bitch
Put my pimp in your life, watch ya daddy get rich”
— Bun B of UGK (International Player’s Anthem)

Here are the full lyrics

You would be surprised how many girls I have had to play this line for (chopped & screwed version of course) because they were “confused” (read: ignorant) about the song.  They listened to the intro verse, heard the sweet chorus of “I choose you”, and figured they had heard enough to tell that this song a love ballad about choosing your soulmate.  They all told me how they loved this “sweet” song and was glad Down South rappers could put out something so touching.


The two verses by UGK give explicit tales of getting girls to literally sell their body for them, their recruitment methods, and the great things they can buy with the money earned.  The last verse, by Big Boi of Outkast, at one point talks about putting someone’s Baby’s Mama on a rocket to the moon, because he is paying too much child support, and the evils of getting a girl pregnant.  Some love ballad …

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So what’s the point of all this?  Why take time to reveal the true message behind some song that is often ill-interpreted?  Its a great analogy.

So many girls are willing to ignore blatant signs of being played.  Spotting a player is not hard (The Howto guide is coming soon for you ladies), and often you know and see the blatant signs early. So why  fool yourself into believing what you “want” instead of what you “know”? It boggles the mind.

Well, I guess I can’t complain.  This fact has helped me out in a few situations (I’m really no player though … I swear) and has helped the honesty become a lot more popular.  And because of the nature of this post, its not going to change anything.  Your going to read this, leave a comment about how “that never happens to me.  I’m smarter than that!” … and then your going to become another statistic.

Anyone willing to come forth and confess to ignoring the truth in their life?  Anyone still prospering off this simple fact?


  1. I for one must say my heart hurts from this information because I love that song!!!!!!! lol

    Further more I really don't know one female that has not been a victim of a player. (Including myself). 99.9999% Of the time we know he is a player and chose to ignore signs for one reason or another and well thats our own fault.

    Funny thing my girl was taking to a guy (getting to know him) He talked a lot about wanting MORE kids and asking her if her tubes was in good condition lol. Well truth soon came to find he was a player (didn't take long) but my point is we was reading an article about how women shouldn't be so attached to men right off and just as they say "play cool" and act is if everything is everything. I agree to some extent because we do tend to go overboard with new relationships. But I for one do not condone not calling a man out on his lies because if he is lying to me now he will think its ok and continue to lie later on then I will be boo boo the fool. so the saying goes(Bush) fool me once shame on me fool me twice…… well it just aint no more fooling me!!! lol

  2. Thats an interesting claim. None of your people ever succumb to the player … instead you know he is a player and use him for D … while giving him what he wants (the puss) and becoming a notch on his wall are all just side effects.

    Makes so much sense … and here I was thinking that it was the guy, when really he was being manipulated and didn't know it.

    PS … I hope you can tell the sarcasm. Sometimes its hard to convey in written form.

    1. I don't think that's what she was saying at all, although that estimated percentage was rather inflated. I took it more as meaning that some women are aware that they are being taken for a ride, but for some reason – smile/bank account/"love" making/whatevs – they don't do the smart thing and save themselves a ton of heart+headache. Tis a well-observed fact that a good number of people knowingly get/stay involved in relationships that will bring forth more pain than joy. "But I love him…you can't help who you fall for…" (and all that other good BS)

  3. I know for sure I have met and been with mr. "playa playa". I know a lot of women who have too. And most of us think one very simple thing when we meet mr playa man…"We are "THE 1" who is goin to make him change his playa ways. LMAO now…cause I know it never happens. I dated a guy and he got killed only for me to find out he was f'n me, a chick I knew and had a fricken fiance and a host of other women cryin over him. Sad he died, but dude was a serious playa!

  4. I have been blessed/cursed w the ill desire to always "tell the truth or shut the hell up" so I will say HELL YEA I BEEN GOT BY THAT MONKEYPOO!!! Ole boys mom even told me her son was that ladies man to the 10th power. I told her I wld have to learn the hard way and I did. Lol I wasn't in a situation gettin pimped out and whatnot (that's some mess!!) I just had to see dude loved being "that nickadoodle" more than he was gon ever love me. He be on that Marvins Room status now but he ain't Drizzy and I'm no longer that fool.

  5. Pimping ain't easy & many fall into the hands of one. Everything about them pimps is electric except the fact "you will never be the only one and this is strictly business". A lot of rappers sell the pimp game as a loving relationship to many females in their lyrics. Snap out of it!! back to reality lasting relationships start and last as they always have.


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