“I said I love having sex … but I rather get some head” – Three 6 Mafia
To anyone who doesn’t know, respect, and understand the importance of oral sex in 2008 … kill yourself (said in true Three 6 fashion)
Don’t get me wrong … sex is great. Sex is wonderful. It can be an emotional and soul connecting experience. It can raw and rough ending with two people tired and smiling. It can get real freaky and elaborate … and its one act that aims at mutual satisfaction (everyone gets off) … but lets be real … its trumped by good head anyday.
When I was younger (middle school or early high school … years before I started having sex either way) I read an sex article written by some woman. It forever changed my life. She said “A man who can f*ck well is great … but not special. There are plenty men who can give you good sex. But … to find a man who can give good head … thats special” (quote paraphrased from memory).
I took this to heart. When I got my first girlfriend, I honed my skill. I also mentally convinced myself I liked giving head (which I still do to this day). To this day, I get no bad reviews … I keep adding to the “skill set” … and I still love it. So … to sum it all up:
Reasons I love giving head
- Nothing sounds better than to hear your name while the other person is in a fit of pure ecstasy.
- Its one of the most unselfish sexual acts I can think of … shows the other person I really care about their enjoyment.
- The look on their face afterwards is priceless.
- They know I care about them on some level.
- I can do more with my tongue.
- Something about when their whole body just starts the shaking … whew.
- At the end of the day … I really enjoy the other person “finding their happy place”.
Reasons I love getting head
- Uh … its head.
- The tounge and hand can do a lot more.
- I can be lazy, sit back, and just enjoy myself.
- If you need more reasons than that … you’ve never gotten good head before!
Does the rest of the world adore oral sex the way I do? Anyone else knows the best way to say “I Love You” is by making some toes curl?
so wait a sec……
I say "hey guys lets be unselfish and think of our partner" and I get called every name in the book and called soft, simp, pushover ect ect.
But if you apply the same logic to sex its ok?!?!? holy hannah we gotta have an intervention with our race 🙁
so yeah, I actually dont like head. not enough stimulation for me. I allow it since its a more selfless act and lets me know a woman is thinkin about me more than herself.. or because ya just wanna gas her up so she thinks shes doin a good job (women have such fragile ego's in bed)
best for me however is 80% done with sex, 19% done with her hand and then the safer and less child bearing finish by oral. but not everyone is down with takin their own juice in their mouth I am finding out now….
as far as giving? oh well (evil laugh) you can imagine an evil simp such as myself has a gold star.
First time I "gave" was 6th grade. did I get back? oh hell no… I shoulda known the aplha black female thingy was just a precursor of what was going to happen for years to come. I look at 6th graders now and am like… no way. But I guess if I was they could be too… Im soo gonna lock my nieces up when they hit 10.
anyhow, tips from an old man.
I flick. usually flck!towards the middle of the act, when the clit is more engorged with blood.
With your tongue pointed, gently flick your tongue around her clit. Feel free to roam, but keep coming back to her clit. Using your two index finers to pull back the hood and expose it, usually works better for me but be careful, as it may be overstimulation. you do this directly on the exposed and rather helpless clit…. but not too much. ration it out.
NO she wont cum by this, but she will jump, pop and jerk all over the place in excitement like those girls in the down south rap videos 🙂
When stimulating her clit make sure to start out gently if you aren’t sure how she likes it. If she likes it shaken not stirred, double-check the size of her "clit" and if she is carrying a Walther ppk" When you try this, pay attention to whether those moans are ecstasy or pain or maybe she's waking up.
The Clitoris Hold
Take her exposed clit into your mouth and gently suck on it, simultaneously circleing your tongue AROUND and around it. Don't gag on it. Swallow what you can and close your eyes and make believe you're not really there. When asked if you like this, grunt an affirmation. Go to your happy place until it's all over. Take the pack of smokes and go back to your cell.
Try using your tongue to spell the alphabet on her genitals. This works surprisingly well as your tongue is always moving in different directions. When I'm bored I like to send subliminal messages to my lover. Stuff like, "Doing the dishes is fun," and "Stop inviting your annoying friend, Rachel over to our house," and my favorite, "When are you going to come? I've lost all feeling in my jaw and Sportcenter started 10 minutes ago." If your lover is a non-English speaker do your best to simulate Sanskrit, Cyrillic, etc. If your lover is illiterate, get your face out of her pussy and teach her to read ferChristsakes.
The Clitoris Suck
Expose her clitoris by spreading her lips and lightly pulling back her hood. When her hood is pulled back, make sure it's really her and not the cleaning lady……….put the hood back and readjust your own hood in case her's falls off again. With her clitoris exposed, give it a quick little suck. Now when she tells you that you suck, you can take it as a compliment! This is a lot like licking a bit of cake batter off of your pinky, except not as tasty and it shouldn't bring back fond memories of Mum.
Get a grip son!
I was told nothing was more manly than when she bucks.. grip her thighs and hold her down. in a firm manly way, not the way we used to while taking turns dunking the fat kids face in the sandbox at recess. she will usually gyrate from the middle of her back so you way have to stop the hands from roaming (remember roaming her firm abs and erect nipples are a good thing while giving) so you may want to bring the oars in and have all hands on deck captain! clamp down with your hands and make grunts like a level 50 orc warrior so she thinks your more into it than she is. (zug zug)
if done correctly it should send her a message… yes I am in control of you and am suppressing you in a passionate yet manly way. fall back woman I got this!
if she is not responding in such a manner then perhaps you shouldnt have gotten her that 5th cosmo to get her into this position in the first place… that or you suck.
wat do ya think of flavored gels uncle hassi?
fukin stupid. dont use them. they never taste good anyway. man up and learn to enjoy the musky taste damn you! if your doin it right the river should start to flow anyway! and new water always tastes better than the old.
but uncle Hassi…..I hates da hairs in my mouff!
STFU and stop bein a baby. any man worth his salt knows how to very sneakily and simpishly like suggest how they would eat more if she had less hair. turn it into a game! My ex used to want me to shave her in the jacuzzi when we first moved in together. (that was back before creamshaves became safer… yes I know im old)
and for christs sake…. dont STOP to pick hairs out of your mouth while she is about to cum. its like taking your ranmen noodles out of the pot before you add that special flavor packet thingy to them. ALWAYS wait til your finished before cleaning up the mess.
you want to be the master of this! why? look man, if your living with a chick you NEED to master the3 minute pussy eating. unless your chick is a biological freak (in which case give her my cell) shes not going to get enough stimulation to cum from penetration in under the 5 minutes its gonna take for your show to be back from commercial. us giving is the opposite of them giving. the better we are the less time it should take. also, you can blow your horn about your stamina for sex, or running the 5k.. or even the stamina on your level 70 Warrior. but lasting a long time while eating pussy is a bad thing. after a while you will rub it raw. and that shit hurts son!
lastly, I highly suggest oral sex to actual intercourse. why? because too many of us are having kids already for fuks sake.
I really want to know what you were saying w/o reading all of this…so if you can condense it down to like 5 or 6 sentencces I would greatly appreciate it.
LMAO @ Teacia…I don't even try to read it anymore!
Hasani, you really really need to get a day job, who in the hell has time to write a mini thesis on the art of giving head. Maybe you should put your talents to better use by writing for adult mags. Oh BTW if you don't like getting head that's because they are not doing it correctly.
I think I know my own anatomy… talk about rampant speculation on your part 0_o!
in 99% of the women I have gotten head from in my life I would have rather been having sex or a good handjob.
just a preference.
You'd prefer a good handjob … WTF man!!!
I might just have to silence your voice for speaking that blasphemy!
Thanks for making my already "Racy" post an X rated "How to eat a woman out" manual … LOL.
Too much info … and nothing a good eater wouldn't already know. I couldn't even make it through it … hopefully I'm not missing out on anything.
Are you kidding with this long ass paragraph!!! What the hell are you saying in SHORT!
yall buncha Illeterate negros.
NO yo asses do notget a shortened version.
stopbeinignant and read my shit yo!
SBM. its nw there for those who dont know or need pointers. thats all.
we here to help right?
Ok, so SBM can you just put a comment limit on Hasani!! I didn't even read that novel he posted.
On to the topic…you can call me a brain surgery or the head doctor b/c I have my head game on lock. I think there isn't a more important gesture a person can make than giving someone head. I live and breathe by that statement. I was dating a guy who was caking me hard, we enjoyed each other's company, he gave me everything I wanted and needed but this negro didn't give head, never has and he said he never will. Now that's just some selfish ass shit….no head, but a nigga gotta give head. Everything he did didn't even matter after that point b/c completely satisfying me wasn't his ultimate goal. He claimed that he substituted other things for head…but uhhh not the same mister. Some people will say that I was being silly in my decision to cancel him out, but it's the philosophy of head that prompted me to end it. If he can't get down and dirty to put a smile on my face with something as simple as head then ventually other things would surface that just absolutely wouldn't do…and that was that….no head…geesh.
Note: There is no substitution for head. Period.
There is no substitution for good head. Pussy beats mediocre head anyday.
I'm with Teacia. If I'm getting down for you like that and let's face it, a lot of chicks really aren't, then that's the least you can do is reciprocate. I've kept dudes around whose dick game wasn't all that but the head game was spectacular…Lawd have mercy!
Weeeellll!!! I know that's right…most women don't get a nut off of intercourse anyway…head is a sure thing.
good thing I wrote a guide to cunnilingus JUST for you Teacia…oh wait…..
no you cant get a condensed version. its a guide with tips.. not banter bait.
I think its rather comical myself .. why you h8 son? 🙁
It probably is funny…I didn't read it…and since I'm not planning to eat any cooda anytime soon I guess I don't really need to…lol.
HA HA HA HA….okay so I read it and it was quite funny…BUT:
"if your doin it right the river should start to flow anyway! and new water always tastes better than the old."
….that's just plain nasty…u had me over here like ewwwwwww, damn Hasani…lol.
OHHH see… lets bash the HNIC without reading his shit first..
ok… say your sowwy… say it!! SAY IT!!!
head..what a wonderful thing…I love getting head..and I love giving head. I have to digg your spirit like that to do it. can't go around randomly sucking dudes off. I'm good at it..not a master yet, cause I can't get past the gag reflex..but teacia gave me pointers on that one!! thanx girl!
to swallow or not to swallow..that is the question …lol
yeah I can't really get on the swallowing bandwagon…gotta save something for the future husband….even then it will be a big step for your girl.
and i picked up me a tube of that good head last week when me and girls hit up our local adult store…lol. i broke my b.o.b…sad i know.
and has..baby that is a lot to read at something in the morning but I do understand how through u are…smooches! lol
@Comeback: gurl I got someone for you, he's 37, not bitter…lol, loves the sisters, originally from Georgia(southern gentleman), went to Famu, he's a Major the military now, has been for the past 13 years(stability), no kids(drama free), good credit, lives in Alexandria(local), has investment properties(savy), and is an all around good guy.
Why don't I want him do you ask…well b/c he lives damn near 11 hours away, he's super busy as am I and we have not been able to link up…a man only gets 90 days to show real effort when he doesn't live locally, this weekend was the deadline…lol. And I'm a realist…we both just have too much going on and this will probably evolve into a distant friendship. He loves strong women b/c he's a man's man(strong mentally and physically)…but he's super sweet(read:caring and considerate)…kind of like the sweet and sour combo, he takes no nonsense.
Here's the link to his myspace profile…let me know if you're interested and I'll hook it up(trust me, i'm good at this):
Oh and did I mention that he's an Alpha man….oooooh I just loves me an Alpha.
OMG Teacia you traitor!! wheres the love? (cries) 🙁
Trust me…I'm looking out for your best interest on this one mister. 🙂
"Why don’t I want him do you ask…well b/c he lives damn near 11 hours away, he’s super busy as am I and we have not been able to link up…a man only gets 90 days to show real effort when he doesn’t live locally, this weekend was the deadline…lol."
This is SOOO generous of you. But lets be real, this does translate into he's NOT INTO YOU. When a man really digs a woman he will move heaven and earth to ummmm be with her. But thats good you've found ways to rationalize it and make yourself feel better. Maybe you ought not dole out dating advice and matchmaking tips just yet.
we may have to put a hold on the ebook too…there's some major points that your missing.
Nor should you be giving men who don't want you away (there not yours to give). But You're an eager girl…5-10th time is always a charm..no thanks
LOL…so cute! Uhhh, yeah I get that, he's not as into me as he needs to be. I agree, but I ain't trippin…I'm simply sharing the love baby girl…or don't you see that. Since when did being rationale become a bad thing…oh it isn't…oh ok then. You see, this is where you and I differ…I know when a man is into me and when he isn't and I don't get all up in arms about it…I embrace it and keep it moving if he isn't or open myself up to the possibility of something greater if he clearly is.
My failure just may be your success…and my offer was more than generous…b/c although he isn't that into me, he will make some women very happy and I was trying to bestow that opportunity on your negative ass…but forget I mentioned it…it would be a crime shame for me to even set such a wonderful man up with someone who isn't capable of appreciating him.
Oh and one more thing, if he was mine I wouldn't be offering you the opportunity to meet him…i'm selfish like that…you see how you chose to focus on the negative of my offer, instead of the gesture itself. He and I have become great friends, relationship notwithstanding and I am sure he would value my offer…because he too sweetheart is a realist…and it seems you need a little reality check yourself these days.
….just tryna help a sister make her comeback in love…damn, i forgot you said you were bluffing. 🙂
"My failure just may be your success…and my offer was more than generous…b/c although he isn’t that into me, he will make some women very happy and I was trying to bestow that opportunity on your negative ass…
Girl you need to be cannonized as a Saint…that is so self-less…when I go to my alumnae meeting at my HS I'll check to see if there's anything open for self-less instigating matchmaker. The F bombs you drop up and through might be a sticking point. But I know some people.
And the "making a comeback in love" is tongue and cheek. And I certainly don't have a problem with meeting men off net so why am I taking random men who don't want you off of myspace.
I'm not trying to be mean but you really need to back off. FOR REAL. Your eagerness even with "helping" me really is starting to illustrate why YOU failed with him and i'm gonna take a leap and say with others to. but maybe u can break him down. Keep At IT.
I was told by "someone" I need to be a diffuser … so lets all hug and make up before someone gets cut.
*Initiates 3-way hug*
All better now?
hell to the nawl… she really needs to get off my vajay jay.
HA HA HA HA….guuuuurl you got me over here dying laughing….rotflmao!!
Let me clear something up…I didn't meet him on myspace but he has a page and I decided to share, everyone loves pics…got nothing against meeting men online though. And I really hope I make the list…please let me know what your HS decides…it would be my absolute HONOR to hold such a title.
And you know what…I DON'T BELIEVE YOU!! I don't believe you anymore, I don't believe that men actually get the "signals" to approach you. I've looked down really deep and said there has to be good in her as there is good in everyone…you have once again proven me and everyone on this blog wrong.
"I’m not trying to be mean but you really need to back off."
You see, you're also a liar…you have done but been just that and not to just me but you take every chance you get to attempt to belittle someone. And shit I feel you NEED the help….don't like to see a sister down ya know.
And my eagerness is always sustained when dealing with men, I got that under control…maybe it was the lack of eagerness that did me in this time…either way I don't indulge in the notion of self defeat, I simply take it for what it is(with a coke and a smile) and keep it moving. "It is on our failures that we base a new and different and better success." So you see, I'm that much closer to success…my prediction summer 2008.
You don't have to worry about any future attempts from me to HELP you where you obviously are lacking…I couldn't live with myself knowing the disservice that I would have done to a good black man. We have so few of them to go around these days…I gotta preserve them for the ones who are deserving ya dig…yeah I thought you would.
@SBM: Sorry mister and I'm over it…she can continue to hack into nigga's email accounts and do other dumb shit to direct men to the nearest exit…without my assistance..
wow–you had to go back months to read that (being you just graced us with your presence last week)….i guess its some sort of spooky flattery.
all the man needs is one more myspace message…and he's putty…one more.
lol…girl don't flatter yourself…i simply pay attention to what's said on the site as well as off of it. i don't indluge in ur blogs…i read a couple and frankly they're a little boring…but u don't deny being a little psycho i see…only made my point.
i'm starting to think that you're just upset that i actually have men to give away…lol…myspace message…lol…cute.
oh wow comeback that was an interesting response.
OK ladies, retract the claws!!! It's not that serious!!!
Girl I am NOT upset..the shyt is rather funny and flattering….and you ain't givin no man away not one that wants you…And you don't even know me…so why would you want a "friend" to be subjected to what I have to offer..
Come on one more friend comment…he doesn't want a lurker…he wants a woman WHO TRIES HARDER. You should go into sales.
Girl you just keep getting funnier and funnier…we were on the phone looking at his page together while he was showing me pics of his siblings when I left that comment…and it's the ONLY one…myspace isn't our thing…and I'm gonna need you to stop hating on the space. And it's funny that you think he's doesn't want me…maybe I didn't try "harder" because I didn't NEED him…he was on the roster, never really a starter and barely a player(read: practice squad).
So you say I need to try harder, I thought you just said that my "believed" eagerness is what failed me…lol. Naw, I don't need to do anything other than what I've been doing…niggas been falling in love and dropping down to one knee with no problem…I think my game is in tact. And thanks for the sales tip, been there, loved it, made loads of money, invested most, spent the rest, educated myself further, and then chose a career path with a little more stability in today's economy…you see i even have my financial game in tact.
Dam comeback fights diiiirrrttyyyy!
but the whole "eagerness comment is killing me.
why is itthat comeback you feel any woman who LOOKS for love is weak? you called me weak and "dependant on someone else for 16 years" like thats a bad thing I know how to love someone else?
your weaker if you are single than attached. our generation is really startin to suck with this whole "being singe is cool" mentality.
if god wanted us to be alone he woulda made us asexual like frogs…. but even kermit has ms piggy!
I personally don't like to get head…I enjoy giving it, with the right woman. I must admit, women have kept me around just for my oral skills. And there is something special about having a woman's legs quiver around your neck/shoulders. I've never met a woman who doesn't appreciate a man with great tongue skills.
Please give LisaQ my most gracious and heart warming thanks when you pick her up for your date…oh, for taking men like you off of our hands. I mean really, no one is subscribing to your BS anyways.
I dunno…. white women DO give good head and black men eat pussy well…. les keep it real here.
white women are subserviant intheir culture (to white men) which is why they give.
black men are subserviant in our culture (to black women) which is why we give head.
So thus makes us some 69'ing happy couples wit white girls. and for all you brothas who have heard the rumors.. YES that shit is actually pink I have seen it!!!!
Teacia: your happy a good looking educated tall black man who is passionate and has a decvent job is not dating women like you??? I think you shouuld push the mad button on this one.
a black man who only dates white women comming on the blog… oh man I have only dated ONE white woman in my life and the gas on here are lettin me have it… your gonna get fuggin killed bro. BWAHAHAHAH Im sooo off the hook now.
Yeah I went and peeped Eathan's blog but I was just going to let that shit ride. I don't need to get my pressure up behind someone who would want me if he saw me on the street anyway. It's whatever.
@Eathan: Not to say that one race does "it" better than another, but it was those of the fairer complexion that first taught me head can actually be really really good. I'm truly shocked.
@Eathan & HNIC: What is with this anti-head sentiment??? I am truly convinced you haven't come across a true brain surgeon yet in your lifetimes … but when you do … you will feel the same way that me (and most men) do about the act.
not to sound like im belitteling you again because of age…. but come on…. your 25. I think by 31 I know my own anatomy.
A "GOOD" handjob blows good head out of the water. stop thinking like a porn star for a sec. she has more control with her hand and can minupilate your tool better with 2 hands than she can with her mouth (if shes trained) what seperates us from other animals is that we have hands and thumbs ya know.
more pressure can be applied with hands than with a mouth.
common sense is on my side with this one.
and then when she pumps the back of your balls when your gettin close and jiggles them when your cumming? AWW SKEET SKEET SKEET SKEET!!!!
shit I checked my pornstar ego at the door a long time ago. Im also goin to freek you out and tell you I prefer 1v1 to a 2girl on me 3 sum! yes I have been in more than one, and NO I do not like 3 sums. (4 sums are ok)
I like to concentrate on what I am doin and like for me to get full attention. its just my opinion.
Thanks Hasani, for the copy&paste tips.
I LOVEgetting head. Giving it, I will do it but it's not my favorite thing to do. However, I do not allow it show in my actions. Like you said SBM it's a self less act so I aim to please at all times.
@ Comeback and Teacia: Are you all kidding me with this bullshit!!
@Teacia: that was thoughtful of you to offer your friend to a totally stranger for a date. However, you don't know Comeback only what you read on here unless you guys talk elsewhere. I don't think that was a wise choice, but I can appreciate the effort. If I was hooking up a friend with someone I would have to know the person a little better than a blog. I have hooked friends up and been quite successful. On the other hand were you trying to be funny and prove a point about Comeback by offering your friend? * raising brow with a suspicious look*
@ Comeback: Help me to understand why when Teacia offered this guy to you, you couldn't just respond with ' thank you but I am not interested'. Why all the extra? You all went into to full attack mode which the problem with the black community. Teacia didn't say anything incorrectly. I just wonder why you felt the need to respond in such a unpleasant and uncaused for manner?
@ SBM- whew… this blog is getting out of hand bro. Way to go!!! LOL
Hey Ms. Dev: Controversy sells! LOL!!!!!!
You're right Ms. Dev ….I was totally wrong …Teacia ONLY wanted to help me make my Comeback at love…First Hasani and now the other myspace guy.
Man … I just want a drama free day so I can get some real work done.
Thank you for being that voice of reason … cause you know no one listens to me!
We still love you though…pushover…lol, j/k.
Ms. D…nope after talking it over with a "friend" last night it seemed like an easy choice. He's a great guy, they live in the same vicinity, and people will continue to be strangers if they never meet. I gave her the link to his page so she get a glimpse of the guy. I did mention to him that I knew someone in the area, attractive, strong and successful that he may be interested in meeting. They're both successful, black, live in the same area…I don't see the problem.
The worse that would happen is she would get a free meal and hang out with a smart, attractive and successful black man and possibly indulge in stimulating conversation and he would meet someone new. I'm all about black love and I wasn't trying to be funny…I was being real…but I knew she wouldn't go for it…maybe I was being an optimist again…gotta stop doing that shit!!
There's alot of "Friends" on here who seem so motivated to help me. Teacia…I really do apologize. And to the blog as well. You've been here a week. And the connection you have to everyone is kismet. I sometimes shy away from real chick's chick connections. The little pot shots that you throw at me on the love connection breaks …well there just opportunities for me to grow and be better…well like you. I mean after being formally engaged 6 times, its high time I listen to other women who have been able to get the love they want and deserve.
Maybe I can pay you something for getting together with this other friend…I mean what's your time worth..hit me up with a paypal link. Then lets make some magic happen you have a face for TV…this would make a great tv sitcom.
oh wait…I think you said you were informally engaged six times and formally once… well im confused…no matter you have something that i need to learn. I'm all eyes.
7 men, 6 rings(formal), 1 no ring(informal)…but it's cool.
oh yes…I'm sorry. formal means Vera Wang invitations and seating charts??? no matter. please except my apology. I won't be able to sleep or continue my love journey until I know that we can have this truce…and you can lead me to an engagement (not the silly one I had) but a REAL FORMAL ONE. With wedding china, Crate and Barrell and Tiffany registries.
ummm…we can't lead you to an engagement until you separate the wedding(invitations, seating charts…and so forth) from the engagement…one step at a time mam.
if you're being serious and not facetious there's only one thing you need to do…cut it out. man are really mean and that's such a turn off…i don't know if it's a fasaud you put on for us but damn girl…seriously cut it out.
"I won’t be able to sleep or continue my love journey until I know that we can have this truce…"
you see, even you're apology was a feeble attempt
you're a trip…lol, i can't do you. you're too much like me, just with a meaner streak…u attack first and then think. i'm the same way with guys(not lately though…working on my center)…not usually with chics though b/c i feel their pain…shit, i'm single and accepting applicants as well…well there's a hold on the process right now…weeding out candidates.
comeback i know you think that i'm trying to pity you but it's never been my intention, i was the same way and it got me nowhere and made me push away many a good man. i just thought he would be more your speed(sorry hasani)…he loves strong black women, darker complexion women, and since nothing is popping off on our end shit why not share the love…that's all i was doing…but again i'm backing it all the way up.
You're right we're like twin flames….sister twin flames..I dont think your pitying me…why all these single women on here..you took a special interest cause ***gesturing pattycake*** you and me will never part.
ok thanks for explaining. I get both your points. Although, I have to ask Comeback what are you looking for in a date? Meaning to go out on just a date with a man nothing else, what are you looking for? I am not playing matchmaker I am just interested in knowing.
I am single in Chicago and I love meeting new people why no hook ups in the Chi for Ms. Dev….lol I don't ever knock food and good conversation ever…lol
@Tiffany In Houston: I agree…lol they will definitely sell out then.
ok thanks for explaining. I get both your points. Although, I have to ask Comeback what are you looking for in a date? Meaning to go out on just a date with a man nothing else, what are you looking for? I am not playing matchmaker I am just interested in knowing.
I am single in Chicago and I love meeting new people why no hook ups in the Chi for Ms. Dev….lol I don't ever knock food and good conversation ever…lol
@Tiffany In Houston: I agree…lol they will definitely sell out then.
@ Teacia: always remain an optimist but just understand the people you are dealing with. Comeback never asked for a hook up. 'Comeback' is only a name. She might not be ready to get back in the game yet. She did say not to long ago I think that she was doing some soul searching so she might just be taking baby steps. At the end, it doesn't appear that she is open to date anyones suggestion… I think. Correct me if I am wrong Comeback.
I was just a little thrown…I mean now that Teacia and you as well have the best intentions for my happiness. well maybe I should reconsider…but no…I just ended a relationship almost 4.5 weeks ago…so I'm just trying to figure out exactly what it is I want…But I think again I was wrong. sometimes other people who've only been in the fold for a week can see past all that and no better than you do.
I really must reconsider…this is the kind of woman I want to be. She has it so together, I was just WRONG.
girl i'm on my 3rd week…and yall still can't get my name and the length of my presence right…i am truly hurt.
I got it from her blog she posted a week ago or so about making a comeback in love…which is gonna be my new catch phrase. Ain't nothing wrong with a litte dinner and conversation, soul searching or not…and my friend is super cute…I mean dang, lol. I think we come to realize who we are in relationships based on our failures and successes. so you can't truly find yourself alone…of course this is just my opinion.
Oh and I got you Ms. D…I have friends everywhere(not necessarily that I dated)…what kind of man are you interested in?
Girl I am simple type of girl… I like them chocolate but open to anything. I love humor , since I think I am pretty funny. Must be at least 6ft or over, only because when I wear heels I am easily over 6ft. No assholes. I am a little sarcastic so I can take it a little bit. Since its only a date I am not to picky. Anything else I want to know I can find out on my own. Its the summer everyone should be dating and having fun!!!
Alright ya'll both starting to be a hot flaming mess..Both of you put your nose in the corner!
I'm gone. Someone email me when the dust settles. I've got some java code calling my name.
why don't we just all call you…hows that???
If you got my number than thats some serious e-stalking!
ok, I see what you are saying. I want everyone to be happy, I have 'heal the world' spirit about me…lol
I can see how you might be a little stand offish about a hook up since you just ended a relationship.
But dinner and good conversations with strangers are always good pass times…lol
I really must reconsider…this is the kind of woman I want to be. She has it so together, I was just WRONG… Is this a real comment or you being sarcastic? I can't help but question it, its in my nature…lol
oh she's being nice nasty…we know how she rolls…it's cool though…i take it with a grain of salt and keep it moving. i hope she finds happiness in the sarcasm though.
it was REAL…girl you do have an optimistic spirit…I meant every word. See sometimes you resist when you really admire somebody when they are more of what you aren't —you know what I'm saying??? Like their life is just so together…They antagonize because they want you to BE BETTER, DO BETTER HAVE BETTER…it all comes from a real high place…HIGH..real high. Sometimes you can't fight it. You have to just believe that everybody wants to see you happy-even when they don't-THEY DO. does that make sense?
The call Teacia made to a "friend" that came from a really deep place. A kismet place. She's right we are JUST alike. We might even be related. I was fighting it. I do wish I could have 7 engagements. Like go out there an make plans to get married 7 times…you know how much free stuff I could probably get. I could have 7 princess cut 3.5 carat diamonds (not conflict though—nothing from Angola)…I digress…I would be closer to my made for tv movie. I don't need a break from dating. What's 4 weeks. And what's a friend (Teacia can I call you a friend) whats a friend when they know you better than you know yourself.
ok cut it out…i don't think I can handle both you and Hasani being nice to me…SBM did I did turn the dynamics of your blog upside down…lol.
My life is just that…my life, it's not anymore together than yours…I'm just open to being loved, and that has made a world of a difference. For example, the past 3 weekends I have been taken out of town by a suitor who wants to prove his admiration for me…me a year ago would have frozen up or diverted my energy entirely….me today embraces all the love that men have to offer until the right one fills my heart…I know I'm close to meeting him if I haven't already.
Oh and you have to give the rings back…I did get a 3 carat from Tiffany's…it cost as much as my car…lol…that one was the hardest to let go…the ring that is…lol. *sighing*
LADIES!!!! Check this out(sorry SBM): I just finished placing my order and spent ONLY $37 for a load of stuff
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The make-up line E.L.F. (Eyes, Lips, and Face) has been bought out by Nordstrom and will be re-packaged with the Nordstrom name on it. They are getting rid of all the make-up in ELF packaging. They are selling everything for $1.
You do have to pay shipping. They have powder, mascara, brushes, nail polish, you name it.
Just thought I'd pass along the good deal. Also, if you use the coupon code: CAROLINA you will get $7.50 off your first $15 of your purchase or 50% off if your order is under $15.
Everything for eyes, lips, and face are all only $1.00. Make sure you add Carolina (coupon code) because you receive additional discounts!!!!!
NP…matter of fact make that a grand total of $48.98…lol…oh and I got you on a dude…I'll let you know the info when I get the ok to give it out.
Thanks. On my way to place an order now.
Maybe Teacia and Comeback are fighting because they look alike…
Funny but I don't think we look anything alike…lol.
OHHHH yes we do…just go with it…it might bring in more adsense this month. You know how people like to keep shyt going even after our truce. Besides everybody needs something to talk about tonite.
matter fact you should come to dc. It'll be like Yitzhak Rabin and Yasir Arafat shaking hands at the whitehouse…EPIC.
Ur a complete fool…
I think its a well known fact that anything you say Comeback drives away more people than it brings in … but then again I've already told you that before.
If I only had a nickel for every phone call, text message, or email about your rantings …
or it could be stage play…but people seem to be more thrilled with "REAL" confusion…sometimes its just how a bitch says Hi!!!
Geez. Kiss and make up already. Can we get back to talking about head? Can my lovely African American sistas please tell me what's wrong with swallowing or receiving facials?
Thank you … did we all forget about the dick sucking …
no i was just thinking about whose a dick…but let the sucking topics commence AGAIN.
A Big Swinging Dick at that … and don't you forget it.
I can pull mine out and we can compare sizes.
my dick is for asking for more money…you kind of need one over a specified rate cap–and its small. Your's is big. In fact it seems to just engulf you.
Question: Why do some men feel the need to plead their case on why they should be given head? No, means no.
Why was he deprived head?
While I don't think you should beg for it, if he has been kind enough to do it for her, I think its fair that he expect and ask (if he must) for it in return.
Alls fair when it comes to love & SEX. But if the woman says no she doesn't want to or doesn't feel like doing it, trying to pressure her into doing it isn't going to make it happen any sooner.
And don't be mad the next time your 30 seconds away from an orgasm and he just ups and decides "well … I got mine … good luck" and bounces.
Sorry, but all isn't fair in Love & Sex. Besides … its Karma … it all comes back full circle.
"And don’t be mad the next time your 30 seconds away from an orgasm and he just ups and decides “well … I got mine … good luck” and bounces."
Yes, that would piss a sista off. But then he wouldn't have to worry about dipping into the candy jar ever again afterwards either.
I agree. If I'm slobbin knobs I'm in love, like I know ALL of your urology info/and HIV status "IN LOVE". If not, I'm tryna go to the kitchen and get saran wrap…this is not a "random act of kindness" for me…but it is a turn on …but again love has to be in the fold here.
"Lucy Pearl" is on sabbatical right now so between head and sex I'd say neither…to me its all about the foreplay where the sex and or head is being done..I have so many fantansies that I think i could probably get arrested for half of them. The regualar up and down is just not doing it for me anymore….And I really feel for the man …once Lucy Pearl is off of her "reflective" trip.
"If I’m slobbin knobs I’m in love, like I know ALL of your urology info/and HIV status “IN LOVE”."
Good point. This act isn't something that should be done in just a casual relationship.
Yes. And if you really love somebody the experience is so heightened it would reduce all that other stuff to just humpin around…for all that might as well go to a one of those old school book stores/ ghetto strip club and stick your knob through a random hole.
You gotta be in love to get head???
How can a guy even fall in love? I will admit the one night stand or the random person at bike week shouldn't be privied to that, but all FwBs deserve oral satisfaction.
Really … anyone you have slept with more than 3 times deserves a little slobbing.
HA!!! For some reason I agree. Although honestly I don't follow that rule…:-)
SBM: That's some bullshit right there. Every jumpoff or FWB does not deserve the pleasure of getting a fabulous knob slob. Oh hell no!
***Can dick's talk now??***
"How can a guy even fall in love?"
WHAT??? I'm sorry if a man is in love with Lucy Pearl and NOT me we have a problem. Lucy said bye bye to FwB's 4 years ago…thats not even great sex.
"You gotta be in love to get head???"
no but its 1000x better…why would I do this with an FwB when i could get just as much satisfaction with a B.O.B. I'm in my prime and it definately won't be wasted on random dyck.
Only the special Fwb's you can give head too…lol and I have had some great sex with a FwB!
There is no rule to say who you should and shouldn't give head too. It's your choice it's about how you feel when you are in the mood…right?
Ok, so I used to be all picky about how I handled divying out head but I've figured out a simplified method to it. If you're thinking about a guy and your vajay jay starts to tingle…well dammit he might deserve a little head the nice time you see him…lol.
I don't think that every jump off should get head…honestly I don't do jumpoffs these days…I'm more of a recycler…I'm trying to take care of the earth by recycling the dick until I find something a little more permanent…lol. Don't tread on me fellas…lol.
I guess that is an ode to the demanding standards I have for my FwBs. If I am willing to repeatedly sleep with you … then you deserve to experience the culmination of years of hard work and dedication to a craft.
Plus, I treat my FwBs really well (yea … it gets me in trouble too). I cook for em, cake em, and give them oral delights.
Maybe its just cause I rarely have FwBs …
"I’m trying to take care of the earth by recycling the dick"
this should go on a tee shirt
Well SBM since you are cooking, caking and you ALLEDGE that your head game is spectacular, why don't you give this old lady a sample…*winking at the youngin*…LOL!!!!
"all FwBs deserve oral satisfaction"
Not. I guess that's why I try not to have FWBs.
Yeah these are my rules and their personal…I rememeber how even a good FwB was, but I also know what a committed relationship feels like too. There really is no difference…I like a little element of getting caught ..and there are some chances I REFUSE TO TAKE WITH A FwB. And I'm in my sexual prime…its like gambling…if I plaly I play to win not play to feel ok in the morning.
"There really is A difference"
I can't even hate on you with this one(although you know I would love to)…sex should be taken a little more seriously these days. I know that I can get a little reckless at times…..but damn, it just feels so good…lol.
ok side note: I am working on a project and I need to create a survey SBM how did you get your survey on your blog?
BREAKING NEWS: A white boy is making a play for the roster and he just might be admitted on a trial basis…lol.
Oh and he is GORGEOUS!!
Teacia love I mean lust doesn't discriminate. 🙂
who is he?
lol, he's some young tender thang from Italy-Milano…lol…so I guess he get offended if I called him white…but he is gorgeous.
i wanna go this year. Black women are the FLAVOR….actually the UK too. but I need to find out first hand on Italy.
I actually wanna get my rocks off in Jamaica this fall…maybe around September right after hurricane season. I hear the black women are the ONLY flavor down there….ooooh and that accent just does it to me everytime.
But i'll hear the Italian out…he has his work cut out for him dealing with me.
stop hating…you know u sooo wanna come…come on there's always room for more.
I tryna wrap up this instrument pilot license in Sept…if you wait to Oct…I could fly us…and we just "might make it"..LOL
lol…uhhh yeah I don't think I so…unless ur really good then it just might be worth the weight.
I'm a beast with non-instrument…I could sight fly us right to 19:00..after that …its a wrap. LOL
and now we see why the white wmen and asian women are married at a 60% rate and black women have their spiffy 30% rate… good job ladies! way to hold the community together!
and … if we tok AFRICAN women out of the equation (who are nothing like you american born, self centered, power hungry types) and their values for family and all… I think the rate would be closer to 15% in all seriousness.
You're just looking to get on my bad side again…it's when you spread these degrading ass statistics as if it's law that bothers me.
Yeah, yeah I know…fix it right…yeah well you have alot to fix in black male category as well…if only you put as much energy into your fellow brothers as you do into pointing fingers as us….man, we'd be light years ahead by now.
you sound like my 5 year old niece. when she does something wrong insted of owning up to it, she tattle tales on something her brother did a week ago.
I only care about one statistic. Happyness. its lacking in our community
Im not getting on your badside…. Im saying the same shit I say every day.
other races ragard their men/mates higher than the black american race does. Just look at this messgboard. its filled with women not caring what any man says, much less the moderator. Flame first …..listen later. thats not because of what black men are doing we havent changed.
I point fingers at black men all the time. From 1970 til 2000 we havent been taking care of business in the homeplace and have been just as cold and un nurturing as some of the other males. this is not the case now and now is the only thing that matters.
You pune at the notion of giving oral to your man. But other races dont. what makes you different from other women? does the color of your skin prevent your lips from opening? does your hair being curly give you some gag reflex that people with straight hair dont have?
your the cause of your own statistics…. not me.. not SBM… not Tiki barber or tiger woods. Statistics cant be "degrading" my dear…. thats like me holding up a mirror and you saying its degrading. its a numerical representation of whats going on. Degrading would be calling you stupid or ugly or "doomed to fail and lement in your insolent misery"
what I am saying is, if you want to get where the other races are….. why dont you do what they do?
time to stop blaming the modern black man for your failures. as a community and address what we can do future forward to amend the problem.
"I only care about one statistic. Happyness. its lacking in our community
Im not getting on your badside…. Im saying the same shit I say every day."
This was as far as I got and you know why…because I can care less!!! I've heard the sphiel…okay already…we have a problem…we need to fix it…you say I'm telling on you…I say I'm only throwing ur bullshit back in ur face…what exactly are you doing to fix all the shit wrong in the black male community…yeah the ones who aren't locked up or dead have a little success in relationships but dayum that's realitively minor compared to the fact that the majority are locked up or dead before 24…yeah so which do u think is more important…trying ur damndest to dismiss us with these meaningless statistics OR getting off ur ass and detering a young black man from falling into society's trap…yep, that's what i thought…keep with ur daily sphiel….u lack substance and that's why no one takes you seriously.
go ahead and argue it if you like but i'm already over it. period. 🙂
Ok so I caught a glimpse of the end of that mess you wrote and no where in my response did I blame the black man for my plight…shit i'm doing pretty okay with my life. i said that u focus all of ur energy on our faults but are you doing to point our ur own…yeah, that's what i thought…i'm starting to think that you can't actually read.
so once again. we start at the root problem. You state in your first sentance that you have no regard for what I have to say… but expect everyone to listen to you. You have no respect for the male voice and disregard everything that a man has to say or how we feel.
is this productive???? and when we speak our concerns to you… you do the same god damn thing my 5 year old niece does. you try and divert attention from your own shortcommings and point to another situation. STOP FUCKIN FINGER POINTING AND ADDRESS YOUR OWN ISSUES. thats what seperates being a woman and being a skank. a woman is prideful a skank is spineless and honorless. which are you?
And what am I doing? do we really have to go there?
OK lll let you know.
DO you take yoru local girlscout troop out every month?
have you started a girlscout troop in a local inner city to get local black children a chance to go camping insted of running around the city?
do single black fathers come up to you every month and tell you your father would be proud if he saw the work you were doing with the kids in yoru community? do parents who are stupid enough to have children and too stupid to provide proper guidance by the way…. tell you how thankful they are that their boys or girls have a positive black role model in their lives?
whens the last time you sponsored a soup kitchen… not just given time… I mean give your god damn time AND money.
whens the last time you went on a date? have you seen a problem with dating in the black community and done anything other than bitch about it? Have you "tried" to date as many black men as you can do identify the problem with yourself and others? or do you just sit home on friday nights and watch law and order while eating ben&jerrys?
which do you own more of presidential and community awards… or pocketbooks+purses ?
which do you have more of xmas cards from people whom are not friends or family or shoes?
I dont care about the black men in jail. I care about the ones in middle class america. the ones that are trying to live the american dream and actually do something. spare me with your retoric of feigned black womans sufferage for all those locked up. I couldnt even begin to shed a tear for anyone who is locked up. those arent my people. please dont equate black people to "niggas" again.
My concern are for all those who are trying to do and do so in a lawful prideful honest manner.
I dont have a concern for black men getting married. wanna know why? because we have found out that even dispite you, your negative and condescending kind we are lovable and compassionate and other humans that dont look like us will love us none the less. top 4 inter racial pairings… black male in in FOUR of them. but the least married woman in america is the black woman. I
if I give you a DVD and it works properly on my player.. works on my friends player, works on your neighbors player but wont play on yours. I guess your the girl who says "you must have scratched it!!!" insted of saying "there must be something wrong with my player" blame first…. think later?
I would love to sit here and figure out "why". but Ill be damned if Im gonna let you cop out and finger point at my kind for your kinds problems. the dvd works in every other player… its time to get yours fixed sista.
Uhhhh I never said that…you be making shit up…cut it out already!!!…But you do sing the same damn song errday…it's not like u got any new statistics or info to relay…find somthing positive why don't u and report back.
LOL…nigga the girl scouts don't need ur ass, the young black men in your community do…and as far as what I'm doing…I'm the CEO and FOUNDER of a non profit organization dedicated to the wayward young women in our community, which has been built and paid for with my dime…you see Sani I'm trying to change the statistics you're so quick to point out and I'm not just selfishly working on me. I'm also looking into plans of starting an academy while nationalizing my non profit…so mister I am doing plenty.
While I lived in Tampa, I worked part-time for FREE 10 hours a week at Metropolitan Ministries(a food bank) and counseled people on how to get help and better themselves, all the while holding down a full time job as a social worker for the great state of Florida…lol, u think u can group everyone in ur hopeless category of black women but you CAN'T…and excuse me for getting tired of hearing the same fucking song…Hasani is whining again about why he can't get a good black woman…b/c we're all stupid and he's so bright…lol…riiiight.
And those black boys who are locked up ARE your people…the fact that you can even say that they aren't is sad as hell. They're there b/c you don't care and there are many more black men who feel as you do…survival of the fittest right…u talk about our statistics and how children need good male role models but u've abandoned ur own people b/c you don't want to be bothered with the ignorance(read: blindly condoning it).
Sani I'm done, like I said I KNOW we have things we need to work on as women but you don't seem to see the same thing with you men…and shit if you can constantly outline the women then i can occasionally throw that shit right back at you…YOU just keep blaming women for the hopelessness of the black community…lol, I stick with my earlier assessment that it just may have something to do with ur sad ass.
Oh and I'm not really sure how being a "skank" can even be related to this conversation, that is unless you aren't as eloquent as you think you are and that was ur sad and sorry ass attempt to once again degrade your women…ha, and u wonder why we won't date ur ass.
And why in the hell do you keep ur Christmas cards, do you need a reminder that someone liked you at some point on an automatic card holiday…lol…it just keeps getting sadder.
Oh shit, I forgot to address the date thing…this past weekend he took me to Miami again…last weekend St. Augustine beach, the weekend before that Miami…the weekend before that my friend came down from South Carolina and took me out…the weekend before that I think I stayed home to rest b/c every weekend going back as far as 3 months some man has been vying for my attention locally and from a distance…and the list just keeps growing and growing while I continue to weed them out…please don't get it twisted! Ain't shit wrong with my player mister…don't get mad at me b/c your damn DVD is scratched!
Once again… you ask a question. I answer and you feel the need to stroke your pedigree?
I didnt ask what you did for making your own orginization. Girlscouts need YOU much more than wayward women. lets fix things before they start not after they already happen. not saying wayward women dont need help cuz obviously with your comprehension skills you will try to say that next. Im saying your batch of cookies is so fucked up already you may as well try and fix the next batch. CEO and founder… and she puts it in CAPS like CEO means something….. why not put CFO and CIO up there too…
Niggas are not in jail because I have abandoned them, they are in jail because they broke the law and are morally corrupt. Ive done that term paper already. please, the fake black womans sufferage is played and tired. if you care so much about joe thug and shafeef hood, marry them 🙂
I know a modern middle class black woman is not talkin about survival of the fittest… isnt that why we started this in the first place? because for the most part you guys are caring more about yourselves than others? I mean, I said I had to run the boyscouts up camping one weekend and half the women on this board called me a scrub and a geek.
Yes I am a geek.
DO I see problems with men? Why do I keep saying…. stop pointing fingers and every post you try and point it back again and again?
Lack of ability to want to listen is whats making us drown.
And for the one billionth time. MY statistics cant be "disrespectful or putting you down or negative…. they are statistics
seriously, thats like saying im making fun of you because I show you a mirror.
If you dont like the statistics… get off your fat ass and change them
Here lets stop your finger pointing.
Address the ONE question. why are other races getting married at a higher rate than you in your own country?
please play the black card so I can play the african card… please oh please!
please play the "its because of slavery" card so I can play the chineese card.
please play the poor and low income card so I can play the mexican card
please play the "black men wont commit card" so I can play the everyone else is marrying us card.
the DVD is SOO not scratched sista, it works in everyone else's player except yours. its a shame 🙁 you really should watch it, its a great movie …….everyone else loves it, havent you heard?
You're alone b/c your annoying…right or wrong you're just annoying. You don't listen, you just talk(in circles) while missing the point and it's rather annoying…funny thing is we're saying the same damn thing just differently and you can't even see it with ur ignant ass. But as for relationships, if we don't like the movie find another player…stop going against the grain and keep it moving…PLEEEEEEAAAAASE!
Oh and CEO is always in caps you moron, as are most acronyms…and last I checked hater it does carry a little weight. And you're a contradiction, I am changing the statistics if I'm trying to take the girls who are in the streets or cutting a fool and redirecting their energy towards something positive…but still you just see what you think makes you feel good about you…se la vie and I'm out.
I appreciate you trying to make a change in your city.
do more and strive for more in every endeavor or our society love.
we've digressed, kissed and made up…every family fights from time to time…she even made my top list on the space…lol
**ahem** oh wow! your topics are diverse!! lollll!!
yeah we like to keep it treal around here…lol, thanks for not giving up on us yet. 🙂
Another ALERT ladies: E.L.F. is not affiliated with Nordstroms. The site is real as are the prices, but they have nothing to do with Nordstroms. I cancelled my order on sheer principle(which only took a second to do)…some people love their products, others don't. I'm actually a Mary Kay consultant so I didn't need the extra stuff but I figured hey what the hell…it was only a $1…too bad they lied about their affiliation.
Their nail polish is good also.
it looks like they are targae (target) based. Im gonna take a huge leap a faith and try the mineral makeup.
they have it for $5 so it may actually be worth the try…i thought about it afterwards…i really don't have the need for all 50 things i purchased, so i'm placing a much smaller order tomorrow to get a feel for the products.
actually, teacia, i have their lip gloss and it is very good.
I'm late but uh, LOL @ this IGiveGoodHead-vertisement!
You ain't slick.
And um, on the subject of oral sex, I think more people do it than not. It's like the sexual act you should have the least amount of hangups about. What's the problem? I'm not going to go into my PERSONAL business on a public blog, but I'm a grown woman. For me to be with a grown man, we need to have a mutual understanding about certain "acts", ya know?
I wasn't trying to brag or anything … just figured I would mention it since it was pertinent.
thats a lie….your stock went up right along with your ego I suppose esp from earlier in the year..is it the weather, the internet groupies, the bike…what exactly..i'm all eyes. LOL
I'm going to have to go with all of the above…he think he's slick but ain't nobody biting…lol.
"he think he’s slick but ain’t nobody biting"…any wagers????
I kind of liked the late winter SBM…but I know you gotta due what you do for the ratings…like sweeps.
yeah I don't know that guy…only the whiner I met 3 weeks ago…lol.
not to bust your bubble but his "ratings" happen to be higher than all of the rest of yours combined.
just more statistics… dont mind me 🙂
why don't you get off that nigga dick and stop trying to insert urself into something that only makes you sound like a simple little b@tch…just more observation…don't mind me. 🙂
Hasani (LOL is that you BOY LOL….) I'm glad. I don't really need a blog to tell me things I don't already know about myself!!! if this works …KEWL..
Everybody have a good day. Gotta do my big girl thing today.
The only thing I can think of that changed from earlier this year is that the job takes even more hours out of the day.
I think your trying to call me arrogant!
Arrogant…..thats the attractive part!!! think a little harder…or call a few people 🙂
There you have it guys…she likes arrogant men…sorry Sani.
Why don't you give me your number Comeback, then I can dial into the conference calls. Then you can tell me and have everybody co-sign.
I think there's enough Payton Place drama going around…you can certainly fan the flames without me!!!
@ Teacia -"Sani" I like…he's a drama boy too…but …well…
how bout to swallow or not to swallow …onward and upward.
get off dat nigga dick….. wow… you sure sound like a lady…… oh wait..
all the white girls call me "Sani" I usually just assume its because they arent use to hearing diverse names. Minotiry women usually get it right but, you guys can call me whatever enderment lines you wanna. hot chicks always get away with murder i swear.
over 40 dates and have yet to get head from an american born black woman….
but then again… 40 dates and I have yet to get past first base with an american born black woman either.
furthest I got was friday I went on a date with a black/inuit (eskimo) and I got a good amount of kissing and kissed her neck too. alaska counts as domestic I guess.
now I could just its because Im not very cute or attractive… but the darn african women seem to think im sexy and loveable 🙂
and we wont even talk about what the white women are doin……
so whats the difference between the black americans and the other women I have dated? any suggestions?
we don't take bootleg DVD's…sorry mister.
every other race in the country seems to like the dvd,
what makes you not like them?
yes it is bootleg. It dosent have all the features you want and it dosent come in the nice and shiny warper.
but damn I hear its a reeeeeelly good movie…
just ask the chineese latino and white women, they can give you a review 😉
no thank you.
so dont talk about change since you dont care to do anything about it.
dont worry,perhaps god intended you to fail, wallow, make excuses and give up…. which is why he equiped you with such a strong will….. oh wait.
lol…negro people love me…ur the one who can't convince someone to stick around…now what exactly is it that I need to change…lol. we don't take ur kind…sorry.
I cant convince someone to stick around??????????????
IM 30…. and I have a 6 and a 10 year relationship? compared to me you look like a fly by night hussie.
omfg thats rich. do you ver think before you flame????? first you call the gekiest muthafucker on the board who just got flamed a few weeks back for being active in boyscouts… selfish and does nothing for the black youth …. you then take the only person on here who has been in not only one long term relationship…. but TWO and said I dont know how to make someone stick around?!
what the hell is the matter with you??
perhaps me being facetious in my last post I was actually right…. perhaps you are destined to fail by gods on design. I wont let you be so hateful and argumentative. even if it kills me I will make you a happy person who loves and appreciates us black men and wants a bigger and better middle class community.
they left. you didn't. period.
but…. ive spent 16 years with two people….. and your saying I dont know how to keep a woman. by definition your correct but the statement is still beyond asinine .
In both cases, neither woman "left" me. the 6 year one just neglected me til I had to leave 🙁
oh and I just checked… you cant be a CEO of your own created non profit charity. y
yes I called my old editor at bloomberg to get his opinion
yes I also wikid it
yes Im a geek
yes I love you and still very much appreciate you for your efforts in your city incase you didnt think I was sincere when I said it before.
"the 6 year one just neglected me til I had to leave"
…which meant she was long gone before you were…anyhow i commend ur efforts and dedication to one woman…u'll get no more pummeling from me.
"oh and I just checked… you cant be a CEO of your own created non profit charity"
uhhhhh, not true…u were gravely misinformed…some people choose the title of Executive Director, others choose President and then some choose CEO…the State of Florida where I filed my Articles of Incorporation aren't particular on the title but you are mistaken about your info. Most CEO's like Bill Gates are also the founders of their non profits…just figured I would throw an example out there…others widely known are Jesse Jackson Rainbow/Push Coalition…and then Oprah has about 3…Montel Williams has the PBA Association…and I am proudly able to claim my title of CEO and Founder of Exquisite Ladies Inc., b/c I work really hard to do what I can to make a difference for our youth.
Can ya'll take some of these long ass comments, focus & proof read them, then send them to me as a post so I can get a day off?
First let me say thank godness I don't work for myself with all these damn comments I would be broke as hell from trying to read.
On the subject, giving head is an art you must master and continually hone your skills. I agree everybody don't get the head game. and who ever that is saying its not for you (hasani cough cough) Imma need you to get somebody to help you out somebody is slacking (i know my body ish is soooooooooo bs). I can even do it myself call me @ 313……
sike im playin yall don't shoot me down I can't take reading another 100 post!!!!
@SBM: You got the ladies and fellas loving u…lol…pimpin ain't easy…it just ain't easy.
This is love?
lol…yeah it's love…even Sani is jocking u…man it must be nice to be admired by Hasani…that shit ain't easy.
itseasy tbe admied by me. all you have to do is be admirable.. which SBM is.
if she aint showing you the love my brotha let me say your doing a fine job and I give you mad love and respect for what you have done here. for both entertainment and banters sake. Your running a very successful blog and media outlet, be proud of this… all jokes and haters aside.
love me some head, skull, throat. and u quoting my homeboys good look
rawdawg your so random!!
"how bout to swallow or not to swallow …onward and upward."
funny you should mention that…i was having this very same conversation last night…u may have to be a guest writer on this one.
on sabbatical friend….but I'll let you know on the next bf…might have to try in a cesna…then I go to FAA jail lol
never mind chile, its a little mile high humor.
@Teacia: If you don't announce…she doesn't have a choice. Not like I ever did that…
Random question: How many names for head/giving head do you know?
Slobbing on the knob
Shining me up
Teacia why are you explaining yourself? You know what your occupation is and that's all that matters. You don't owe any of us an explanation.
gurl it's cool, he was wrong…and i would hate for him to step out and unknowingly insult someone who doesn't consider him a distant cousin…lol…but ur right, which is why there was no hostility in my tone when responding back to him. thanks for looking out gurl…Sani has been known to spark a nerve.
Doll I dont spark nerves I spark ideas.
I dont think I have said a single thing anyone of you havent already known but just are just mired too far in a state of lethargy to act on.
just think about it. most would deny it on the boards or in public, but when in yoru bubble bath at night when you get to do most of your thinking you will hit a smirk in recognition…. "ya know…..dat niggas got a point… I dont like how he put it…. but hes got it none the less"
"Doll I dont spark nerves I spark ideas"
and NO you cant be a CEO of a charity you founded. you dont have a board of directors or shareholders. its kinda like making your house a new land called Saniland and proclaiming yourself empress.
you dont have shareholders
you dont have a CIO or CFO to delegate to… so how are you the chief of the executive decisions if you dont have anyone else to defer to? CEO is chief executive officer… not "I run this shit yo"
if you dont have other executive officers…. then how are you the chief???
I havent worked for bloomberg in a while so I had to bring in someone elses knowledge on this. so once again… flame me for being the messenger.
Speekin of jobs… can you make up a CSO spot and hire me and pay a brotha more money? I need some $$ if I ever hope to go on more than a 2nd date with a cute nice black woman like comeback 😐
I appreciate your spiffy charity and what your doing. but dont be ignant foo! titles dont make you important … DEEDS and actions do. your doing enough already that I admire and respect your actions without you having to overhype them.
I do have a Board of Directors genius…lol. You can't even file the Articles of Incorporation here in Florida without at least 3…I have 6…again I say to you DO BETTER!! And there are no shareholders for a non profit…it's NOT FOR PROFIT!! Lol…your friend at Bloomberg apparently is in the wrong field or only knows about for profit corporations.
"I appreciate your spiffy charity and what your doing. but dont be ignant foo! titles dont make you important"
this sentence is not a way to show your appreciation…and stop hating on my title FOOL!
Hasani, I am just wondering… why are you so confrontational with everyone? Please don't say that you are not because everyone on here knows its that truth?
OMG! i just read the post I couldn't read more than the post after I read one sentence of Hasani's post!