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Can You Make My Bed Rock?

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***Admin Note***
Today is the conclusion of our Venting Week.  I know for many of our female readers (and we love ya’ll in a let me get in them guts special way and had no desire to hurt you … but sometimes we gotta let it out.  Thanks for sticking it out … and I’ll promise we’ll get back to our regular selves starting Monday
-SBM
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So let’s see…SBM read Chivalry it’s last rites, Slim and Sir Streetz Shuttlesworth put your stank attitudes and b*tchy traits on blast, and our resident Dr. demanded a drank and cover charges handled courtesy of the fairer sex since y’all got your own money and all (Which is usually underwritten by the Bank of Mom and Pop…but that’s a whole ‘nother post).  So what’s left?  ::Twiddles fingers::

Ahh yes….s*x.

When the s*x topic comes up, I read a lot of comments from female clientele claiming, “My gushy is the bomb, I ride better than a horse jockey, and I can deep throat the entire Empire State Building without gagging and I can hook a steak up.”  This is hilarious to me because this is probably more opinion than fact, and had this actually been the case, your man woulda came home last night you wouldn’t be single or lamenting on Eff ‘Em Friday’s about dry spells or racking your brain trying to figure out why he’d rather wake up early to go to the gym instead of giving you an AM workout.  If he has to do all the work while you just lay there and get arid after 10 minutes, he might as well burn some calories and work on that six pack for the chick he dumps you for.

Please don’t take this as an endorsement of cats with weak d*ck games.  This is more so an indictment on the women that believe that if the s*x wasn’t good, then it’s his fault.  It would be ludacris of me to say that most women aren’ that great in bed, or aren’t good at all.  As great as the Big Homie Lex Steele is, he still needs a co-star that can suck his d*ck like the cure was in it enhance the scene.  All vaginas are created equal.  If you read the Wall St. Journal, you know that due to the influx of supply that has hit the market, the price of p*ssy has dropped faster that DJ Khaled mixtape.  So what, if anything, are you doing to make it stand out?  Are you really catering to your man or just singing the song?  Are you doing the little things to make sure your game is on point?  The notion that a man should put you or your p*ssy on a pedestal simply because you’ve decided to “give him some” needs to die a swift death.  Point blank, p*ssy need new tricks.  While a huge part of the excuse reason why men have commitment issues is probably not women’s fault, I’d venture to say that if ya p*ssy was that good, turning is his Player card wouldn’t be a second thought.

See Also:  Do You Keep Track of Everyone You’ve Slept With?

Now…if you do actually have USDA League of Cocksmen Certified Grade A p*ssy, then maybe…just maybe, one of the posts earlier in the week may apply to you.  Or maybe…you think you look like a caramel version of Kim Kardashian when you actually look more like Ving Rhames in a dress.  No matter how good it is, that’s just hard to get past.  Yea, yea, I know…looks and s*x shouldn’t be what counts.  I also heard the one about the s*x being wonderful in your last relationship, but it just didn’t work out.  Listen, if it was as good as you claimed, he would have made it work.  A sad, but very true reality.  And for the women who think that having an on point sex game isn’t that important…you can get on the same short bus with the women that don’t give head.  #keepitmovin’

This may have come across slightly crass, but this is a heartfelt PSA to the opposite sex.  If you have a sincere interest in being at the top of your game, please take the steps to be there and don’t assume simple effort can get the job done.  But if you actually are a lazy ass b*tch a slouch in bed and purposely “puffing” your talents, shame on you.  As a collective, I need you to get it together.  And to all the women that really got that good gush and know what to do with it, may the Lord richly bless your soul.  You are appreciated.

See Also:  They still make you?

She calls me Sean Paul cuz I make her bed Dutty Rock,

got $5 someone’s gonna say “I don’t know what kinda chicks you mess with“…

Comment(67)

  1. As one of those effin my current dry spell, I've very confident that my skills in bed have nothing to do with it. It's hard to say that a woman is single because she fits into any category thrown out this week, it is entirely possible that she is single simply because she wants to be or there are just a lack of options. Aside from that, I can't complain about this post, makes sense.

  2. So men be dropping ladies cos they cant step up thier p%ssy game but some men just make it so damn difficult in bed.

    men shud step up their d%cks too.

    btw, the post is on pt.

        1. omg, i've been with one guy that understood that c*nnilingus was an artform…A-MA-ZING… caused me to loose my mind everytime… funny thing tho…he had no conversational skills outside the bedroom….go figure! lol

      1. I will never understand the male thought process behind deep-sea diving, I really won't.

        So, when we give y'all special attention, we're supposed to lick, suck, swallow, stroke, deep-throat, tickle, pray, all types of ill sh*t at the same time while trying to breathe and not throw up well that was once upon a time ago, my gag reflex went with the Clinton surplus yet when you go down there (and your job is a LOT more simple, don't even front) you act all bamboozled and sh*t.

        I hate this, too: when a man doesn't eat for the sake of eating, he eats to get you wet to f*ck. If I tried to pull that sh*t, two licks and let's go, I'm pretty sure I would get choked. If you're gonna go down there at all, make it count.

        1. "I hate this, too: when a man doesn’t eat for the sake of eating, he eats to get you wet to f*ck. If I tried to pull that sh*t, two licks and let’s go, I’m pretty sure I would get choked. If you’re gonna go down there at all, make it count."

          *applause*

        1. Yes some do! Some spit to much all on it or they too rough with it! smh It is def a art form and skill that needs to be developed!

          I have only had one guy that had it down packed! He had a PhD in eating the p***** lOL

          That is all he did when we messed around we didn't do sh*t else LOL

          Too bad I was too much into playing games then and doing me cause I should have made him my man!! LOL

  3. Well… *scratches head* I have to agree with Mr. Steele. I have several homeboys rant about how this female said she was this or that & they'd tell 'em not to hype themselves up. At first, I was shocked but once they told the whole story I could see men get just as frustrated about hyped up p*ssy as we do about hyped up d*ck. LOL… Smh *sigh*

    Without giving too much info there are tons of things women can do to insure their sex game is on point. Laziness is just that… Laziness. Research!!! Classes, tools, exercises & not Kegels. That isht is elementary. Let's not point fingers. Everybody should step it up at least a little.

    Lastly, I might be effin my dry spell again this week. Lol… This has been a hard week for a goddess. Whew!

  4. Well…well well…how perfect. This has happened to me on more than one occassion EXCEPT it was with a man. Being told how one can serve it up in bed to end up totally disppointed about the number added is just cruel. I feel you on this. And even worst than that. Dude had he nerve to have a magnum condom when clearly he needed a focus ..*flips hair*

    Sincerely,

    Go

    1. I mean it happens both ways. I actually downplay or dont speak about my moves at all. Then when its game time, i knock it out the park. I rather be a 6th round sleeper that becomes an allstar than a 1st round bust lol. I call it the #lowerexpectationswindle

      1. I do the same thing. I'll be real low-key about the sh*t, but I know I'm doing something right when I hear a dude speaking a language his orgasm invented for him.

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    'I also heard the one about the s*x being wonderful in your last relationship, but it just didn’t work out. Listen, if it was as good as you claimed, he would have made it work. A sad, but very true reality.'

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    this isnt always the case….sometimes you're going in different directions in life and sex just cant be the foundation…people tend to rate other factors higher over sex when it comes to taking risk sin life in order to build a decent future for themselves

    Dont get me wrong…sex is important in a relationship… if the game is weak it’s down to ALL parties to get it right…before he decided to dine out and then ‘not come home last night’ I wanna ask him… did he do anything to help make things better?…or is it that he prefers to have his cake and eat it?… lets admit that some men just don’t do monogamous…they want their wives as wives and their hoes as freaks…In other cases some people don’t have the know how to keep things spiced up after they've been together so long….

    I got wise cos I got lucky enough to stumble on a means to get educated on the topic…

    In the UK there was a programme called ‘Sex tips for girls’…great for guys and gals…as a teenager I learnt that there was an art to giving hand jobs (e.g. basic ok grip, basket weaving, fire starter, twist and shout etc)…. A couple of years later I tuned into the new series and learnt there was an art to o giving bl*w jobs (tongue tease, hair tease, doughboy, around the world, corkscrew etc)… same with sexual positions …thing I loved about the programme is it broke down the karma sutra in a useful way…

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    'Please don’t take this as an endorsement of cats with weak d*ck games. '

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    i like the fact that you said that cos if I can get educated on this and why cant guys…I never have complaints… and if I get requests that are not nasty , I try they out and if I like i keep them in my repertoire …but i’ve met too many men that are selfish in bed (this changes a bit when they care about the person but u’ve got to have skills in the first place) …too many times men are just thinking with their d*cks and not about a shared experience…which means the big O is gonna elude some poor girl again!…

    so I’m begging the league of extraordinary cocksmen for help…we got your memo and we understand but please put out a new one to all budding members of your gentleman’s club on our behalf…men need to get clued up cos all this ‘wham bam thank you ma’am’ nonsense needs to stop… in this day and age, it a f*cking crime and men continuing to do so will be shot down

    1. Shubby, your long azz posts are always worth the read. #lookwhostalkin

      This: "cos all this ‘wham bam thank you ma’am’ nonsense needs to stop… in this day and age it's a f*cking crime and men continuing to do so will be shot down" is some funny funny isht. And very true.

    2. DEAD at the names of the hj techniques.

      Fire-starter? Twist and shout?

      If I had a d*ck, I would be leery of a chick trying to burn my bush with her twisting and shouting and sh*t.

  6. You never really know how you are in bed because either the other person is lying on you to make you feel good or lying on you to make you feel like sh*t.

    I think enthusiasm more than skill has a lot to do with it. Someone who is blase about the p*ssy is not the man I'm looking for. I want us to really WANT each other.

    And for those of you who believe that s*x isn't important, run along and hold each other's hands as you head on over to DragonLand because the real world don't work that way. If you ain't touching me right, best believe another ninja will. Church.

    Lol at my ex: "I just don't really want to have s*x anymore. It's too much." (FYI: I am a WOMAN, with a HEALTHY appetite. I tired out this youngblood, I suppose.) I guess he saw that I was slip-slip-sliding into another negro's bedchamber as we were speaking because he got indignant that I was going to cheat on him!

    Ladies, this is some life advice for yo a$$: If you are Taco Bell and your man comes to you asking for Denise a 5-Layer Burrito and you tell him you refuse to serve him food, please don't get angry when he goes to McDonald's.

    1. "Ladies, this is some life advice for yo a$$: If you are Taco Bell and your man comes to you asking for Denise a 5-Layer Burrito and you tell him you refuse to serve him food, please don’t get angry when he goes to McDonald’s"

      to steal your word….church!

  7. This is so true. It’s really annoying when someone gets you all excited only for it to be a let down…Laziness plays a big part because when it comes to s*x women expect men to do all of the work most of the time. However, if you know you’re lazy, why brag about your stuff? Makes no sense.

    Also, more women just need to be open to things. I mean if it’s not putting your life in danger, what’s the harm in at least trying it? Especially if your partner asks.

  8. I don't know anything about this. I never go without s*x and I truly am a beast in bed. Not every woman who says that is lying. But my fiance would repeat what I said. I guess what really makes me so good is that I really do love having s*x. Not just because it feels good. I love the act of s*x as well.

    I've never been the type to just lay there on my back. If I am on my back, I'm grinding my hips up and down while he stays still…or throwing that a$$ back while I'm in that face down a$$ up position. And I truly do love to give head. And deepthroating. There is not much I won't do s*xually other than anal (because that ish hurts). I love s*x and can't picture ever going without it. I must have s*x everyday. And I am glad I finally found a man who doesn't complain about my high s*x drive. It really does feel good to not be bored in bed for once….someone is finally on my level. He is the only man that has made me tap out and that's very hard to do…so yea I'm addicted to that d*ck. People always say that s*x isn't that important in a relationship, but I think it is. There is no way I would have accepted that ring if the s*x wasn't fantastic…not just good, but mind blowing.

    I do hear men complain about their lack of good s*x from their girlfriends/wives. There are alot of women who are more um prudish when it comes to s*x, and I don't necessarily think that's a bad thing, especially in this world of diseases. But I do feel like when I am in a relationship, I am nothing but a sl*t in bed. Has nothing to do with me trying to keep the man I'm with. It's just the way I am naturally. I'm the type of person who feels that if I am going to do something, I might as well go all out. S*x feels so f*cking good…why wouldn't I want the best s*xual experience each time I open my legs. If I'm going to open my legs to you, I might as well follow through all the way.

    I have a question for you fellas…one of my ex boyfriends who couldn't handle my high s*x drive told me he doesn't like a "24-hour freak". Do any of you feel that way? That you wouldn't want a woman who is always horny? just curious….

    1. I have a question for you fellas…one of my ex boyfriends who couldn’t handle my high s*x drive told me he doesn’t like a “24-hour freak”. Do any of you feel that way? That you wouldn’t want a woman who is always horny? just curious….

      It depends. Are you talking "high s*x drive" horny or Black Snake Moan horny?

      Personally, I don't agree with your ex's notion b/c ol' girl will be on call, but everyone is different. Maybe you could give a bit more incite on what he meant by "24-hour freak." Is he your ex due to some lack of communication or diversity of the relationship? Just saying… I doubt if that notion is arbitrary. I never thought, "I'm tired of f*ckin." More like, "I'm tired from f*ckin." lol

      Maybe he was just talking sh*t and teasing… lol

      1. Lol.

        Yes we had really bad communication problems.

        What he said he meant by 24-hour freak is a woman who is always horny. And he felt that if I'm always horny, I would go someplace else when he is not around. But at the same time, this same ex always had to tap out, or would skip on the sex because we had it like twice a day…so I guess it could have just been him tired from f*cking as opposed to tired of f*cking. Well, then again, he did say he was tired of f*cking so much…idk, nevermind lol.

    2. Sex every day who wouldnt want it? But some ppl have kids, dying parents and all other kinds of sh*t that will interfere with a routine sex life. And I value quality over quantity.

      I have to say you come off as making it seem as if sex is more of a passion than anything else in your life. When I was 18-25 yea sex was the only thing mainly becuz I was in my infancy in film. Now at 34 things have changed, if I have to give up some regualr sex to make movies-to have a career in film than hell yea I'll do it.

      Life is about sacrifices.

      And yes sex is one of those things you may have to check to get what you really want. Some film shoots last 14 hr plus traveling after all that shorty is lucky if I know who she is let alone blow her back out.

      Face it the semi/unemployed (and basking in it)-are the only ones who can bang EVERYDAY and never be at a lost for anything else in life.

  9. @Chocolate Drop,

    YES. Maybe I just always pick guys who love the blunt more than the booty (weed is proven to decrease sex drive), but I never understood the men who seem to want a lady in the street and a freak in the sheets but eventually stop wanting to f*ck.

    I see it like this: I love s*x and have since my fast a$$ lost my virginity at an age I'm not willing to divulge lol. I love dome and I've been able to deepthroat since the first time I did it. I love all positions, all the time, anywhere and I am unabashed about my sexual hunger. I'm open to anything and all I require is for you to keep the hell up. If you can't do that, please don't try and date me because I'll go where the d*ck is, call me what you like.

    1. lmao. You sound just like me. But you know people are going to think you are lying lol….be prepared.

      And that age for me was 11…

    2. Not one of my weed smoking friends have less than 2 kids and I smoke and am just as horny now (maybe more so) than I was before smoking..note weed only exposes things-if he was lazy before weed he will be even more so when he smokes

  10. Ok, can I point something else out too….

    A lot of men say they want a freak in the sheets, but then turn around and think that a woman is a sl*t or whatever just because she is great in bed and knows p*rn star moves. So even though men want to be completely satisfied, they dont seem to want that in a relationship…not really.They wonder how much "practice" has gotten her to such a high level, and automatically assume that it's from a lot of men. Well, just my experiences maybe. But I personally am naturally a s*xual beast…didn't take much practice. I am that way because I genuinely love s*x.

    1. A lot of men say they want a freak in the sheets, but then turn around and think that a woman is a sl*t or whatever just because she is great in bed and knows p*rn star moves.

      This is false. What makes a woman is a "sl*t" maybe b/c she used those moves on me as well as my homies. Not for the simple fact of knowing how to get it in.

      This is an example of what various women (not necessarily you) think of themselves in reference to sexual freedom and it's projected onto some idea of a male persona. What women say we think and what we actually think are two very different things Ms. Drop. lol

      1. lol @ Ms. Drop…

        But sorry this is what I have heard straight out of men's mouths. Not from my imagination. And they weren't talking about me. They were speaking in general when they said these things.

    2. I never have or never will be a man, but I'm going to have to respectfully disagree with MeteorMan.

      I can definitely feel the judgment and the pressure to "ration out the p*ssy" (Copyright: Chris Rock) from the jump. Some dudes just don't trust a girl with Jenna Jameson swag to have Bush approval ratings kind of numbers concerning the number of partners they've had.

      I always get the "where'd you learn that at?" too. Is that a question you really want answered? I just say I'm freestylin' it… better than explaining the long story involving the cramped backseat of a Kia Sephia, some required creativity and a lot of Hennessy.

  11. The notion that a man should put you or your p*ssy on a pedestal simply because you’ve decided to “give him some” needs to die a swift death.

    co-sign! I don't know where this foolishness came from. I wish it would go back there.

    Listen, if it was as good as you claimed, he would have made it work. A sad, but very true reality.

    I'm still out on this one… My effort in a relationship doesn't hinge on the s*x. And I won't stick around in some sh*tty relay just for s*x. That's just me though…

    Side rant: Ok. Everyone dislikes over the top s*x hype. But for real, what's up with these ladies that can't take some constructive criticism? Like there's a way to bring it up and/or suggest it in the moment or even outside of the moment. But some people get all discouraged and pout when you try to tell them what you like and it happens to be outside their current skill set or even maybe they guessed it wrong (guessing? that's another story…). And if you're a guy who does this, #killyoself. That is all.

  12. I've learned that the people who brag the loudest are usually exaggerating. If someone has to advertise their shizz, it probably aint that good. I agree, that if a woman lies there like a dead fish, it's time for you to make her get that sh*t together or chuck the deuces. And before you assume it's her that's making it bad or if it's you acting like thumper aka plenty of thrust, no rhythm.

  13. I don't think men get tired of s*x but tired from it. That's alot of energy to expend. I used to could get in a nice workout and then go play some ball. I tried that a few times and threw my back out (playin ball) every single time.

    I won't put too much of my own bidness out here, but I've made a request so that I could "dine out" more regularly to the SO and it was/has been/will continue to be rejected. Now sometimes just the thought of "dining out" can raise my temperature. To hear your name moaned/shouted…lemme stop.

  14. Er um ah…

    A LOT of women say they can make a bed rock. Most times they are talking trash. I think there should be a clear delineation between dirty talk and trash talk. Because yeah you may be telling me you can rock my socks to turn me on, but when the switch is on, you're begging for a 20-sec timeout as you scuttle across the bed.

    Re: Going down on women –

    I am convinced most men don't know what they're doing. CONVINCED. There's no reason why so many women are out there saying they having problems with men hitting up Mexico.

    1. Sh*t, reach one, teach one. Go down there and improvise. It's more or less the same as brain: use tongue, no teeth, and pay attention to sounds. If I sound like I'm liking it, continue. If I sound like I'm listening to the Best Of Nails on a Chalkboard album, quit the tactic you're currently employing.

  15. Good post, RCLS.

    I think a lot of women are uncomfortable with their bodies, which means they are timid in bed b/c of their body issues. It's hard to enjoy s*x if you are trying to hide your little belly, or if you're worried about stretch marks, or you think your body isn't pron star perfect. If women want to feel better about themselves and improve their performance, start exercising. It's been proven that people who workout have better s*x than people who do not. So, ladies, hit the gym for some cardio. Do yoga and pilates to strenghten your core. And if you have a few stretch marks, eff it. Men know that you have them either because you were big and got small, or because your were small and got big. Either way, they gon hit. Don't stress on that small stuff.

    1. I co-sign this notion.

      Black women are NOTORIOUS for NOT WORKING OUT and wanting to have sex with the lights off to hide some of the fat, flat or cellulite that they are insecure about.

      We all have to bring out A+ game to the table, cuz if not, somebody gonna be talking about one us on one of these blogs one day, lol.

      1. Of course somebody had to say something against black women. Um this post is about women in general right? I get sick of this ish seriously. Get it together…..

    2. But yes I agree with you Nia. Not only will it help with confidence, but also with stamina…definitely makes the sex better. I exercise at least 3 hours per day (exercise addict and I need help).

    3. "And if you have a few stretch marks, eff it. Men know that you have them either because you were big and got small, or because your were small and got big. Either way, they gon hit. Don’t stress on that small stuff."

      Word.

  16. I'm fittin to open up to ya here, so bare with me….

    When I was just a young lad (maybe around 16), I was talking to a girl who was gettin ready to let me get the beats. Before this time, I had only had chex one other time w/ one other person and it was 3 years prior. (I know 13 is a bit young but hey, it happens). I remember how the last time i did it i was trash and the girl didnt moan or squirm or nothing. I was so self conscious of me being trash that I promised myself that she was gonna arrive first. I knew my 16yo peen game wasnt gonna do it. So as seen in American Pie, I looked up every guide on "travelling to Australia" and became a pro.I rocked her world and now I'm grown and got the peen game to match and that is all

  17. out of all the posts this week (most of which i disagree with) i surprisingly 85% co-sign this post. why only 85%? this right here:

    "All vaginas are created equal."

    i disagree. all vaginas are not. you vaginas that are so loose that you could probably put your whole arm into. and yes there can be a thing as TOO wet. the best is a perfect combination of wetness and tightness. so no all vaginas are not created equal.

    i do agree with you in the fact that its impossible for all women to have that good good. all because no man has ever told you that you s*x game is weak doesn't mean that you are the second coming of roxy reynolds. i do partially think its our fault tho. if a woman's s*x game leaves much to be desired, then we should voice our opinions. most times we fear that if we tell a woman that her head game is wack then we might not get that anymore. *shrug* i think honesty is the best policy. it might hurt to hear but you're actually looking out for them in the long run.

    1. most times we fear that if we tell a woman that her head game is wack then we might not get that anymore. *shrug*

      Once I told a lady that there were a couple of things she she could do differently in order to maximize my pleasure during head. Her response: "Ok. Since I'm not doing it right, we can cut oral out all together. You won't have to do it either."

      o_O WTF!?!?!?! I guess doing something different didn't come across her mind.

      Keep in mind, she brought up this topic. In any case, with that solution, I felt like I was loosing twice. I love head, but I love to hit up Mexico as well. Loose-loose- and loose.

    2. I do disagree with that one aspect of this post as well.

      ALL VAGINA's are not created EQUAL. Some get wetter than others. Some are prettier than others. Some taste like high quality sea salt…while some taste like pumpkin pie, lol. Some you can shave bald (which I personally prefer) and they look smooth like the surface of a reese cup while others after you shave them, look bumpy and rocky like a Nestle Crunch Bar, lol.

      They ALL differ. Which is better depends on the woman and how she uses her "puddy cat" and they guy that she is dealing with and his sexual experiences and preferences.

  18. I agree with the fact that females' s*x game needs to be on point and it can definitely make or break a relationship, but I don't think that great s*x is enough to keep a relationship going because I know for a fact that I'm on point yet these dudes still have commitment issues. Great s*x doesn't take away from a man thinking that the grass is always greener on the other side or them trying to find a way to have that great s*x on the regular and not have to deal with the commitment portion. So, although I think that sex can be a deal breaker, I think saying that if the sex is good a guy won't leave, is oversimplifying everything.

    1. "I think saying that if the sex is good a guy won’t leave, is oversimplifying everything."

      I agree. Good sex might make you put up with a lot of things, but it won't be the glue to keep the relationship together.

  19. …Laziness plays a big part because when it comes to s*x women expect men to do all of the work most of the time.

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    9 times out of 10 this is the problem. Lazy brawds that just lay their and expect you to do everything.

    Also brawds that don't know how to communicate. I'm sure every man has heard a woman say something stupid like "You gotta make me come." I'm thinking "Well we been f*ucking for a half hour; So who's fault is it you aint come?" My point is ladies, you have to communicate verbally or non verbally. Which brings me to point three.

    It matters how you communicate. Sayin some dumb ish like "You better make me come," actually does not tell me what you need to make you come. Just tell a brother what you need. No need to be an a$$ about it.

    Finally I have to agree with some of the other post. Sometime it's just about finding someone on your level that can match skill and sex drive. If you are a super freak and like it all day long all the time. There are some people that can't handle that. Personally I think that sexual compatibility is underrated. Cause if somebody is effn you the way you like to be effed you will look over a lot of other BS.

    1. "I’m sure every man has heard a woman say something stupid like “You gotta make me come.” I’m thinking “Well we been f*ucking for a half hour; So who’s fault is it you aint come?”"

      I'm sorry, but as a grown person, it is YOUR responsibility to know what you like and what needs to be done to get yours. I know what the f*ck I like and I request it and I'm usually obliged. Plus, when YOU know what YOU like, it takes a lot of the pressure off the other person and you generally have a more enjoyable experience.

      "Personally I think that sexual compatibility is underrated. Cause if somebody is effn you the way you like to be effed you will look over a lot of other BS."

      HELL YES. Ever heard of an aint-sh*t nigga who doesn't rock anything but house shoes and doo-rags and couldn't hold a job if he had 12 hands and twice as many pockets? Yet he has the newest cell phone, his car always has gas and all other bills are being taken care of? Because he's good at ONE THING and women, myself included, get d*ck silly real easy. Takes maybe three, four REAL GOOD Os before I'm ready to hand over my debit card AND pin number.

  20. i haven't been jumping in lately because you all seem to be getting kind of crazy over here…(vent week and all)…i'm trying to hang in there tho —

  21. I have never bragged about my nunniecrunch ever cause how do you know whether you all that in that sack, ya dig. Cause what I do with one man, may be the best ever and to another just your average run of the mill s*x. But I think if a man can't leave you alone after 6 years of you trying to leave HIM, that includes having other relationships and a kid, you might have some good good. If a homie lover friend from the past is blowing your phone up with texts, sexts, and voicemails when the last time you gave him a piece was over a year and a half ago, u might got some good good. If a homie you gave a piece to cause you were bored one day, gets wood everytime he see you and salivates in your ear kicking game about how he want it again, you might got that good good. Moral of the story is let actions speak louder than words and then you'll know if your ish really made his bedrock. But hey, I might be wrong.

  22. this post is on point. applause.

    game recognizes game. i think those who really know whats up dont need to prove to other people on a blog in the comments that they are good when it comes to s#x. you dont need to tell every little thing you do to others to somehow convince people your good when most dont give a flip on here. just looks immature, is annoying when trying to read the discussions, and sounds like ya need some attention (aka "i" "i" "i").

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