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They all heard someone was giving away p****

Craigslist games have been popular for awhile.  It’s a place you can be completely anonymous and play experiments on people.  Want to see if women will really send in head shots to fly in your G5?  Want to see how foul a woman has to be for no man to sleep with her?  Want to see how much your virginity is worth?  Yeah … craigslist gives you the opportunity to do this, and get away without people coming to get you.

One of the SBM family decided to run her own little experiment.  Read on …

Subject: Revenge Sex

So, out of curiosity one day, I posted an ad on Craigslist. It was completely
phony, although I was amazed at the turnout! Basically what happened was, I
posed as a white woman in “Casual Encounters”. I stated that I was a white
woman who had found her boyfriend cheating after a seven-year relationship. I
stated that I was interested in having revenge sex, and “the bigger and blacker
the better.” I received nearly 300 responses! Seriously!?!

Could someone please analyze this one for me? Why would so many men jump at this opportunity?
What does this say about men and relationships in general?

I hope to receive a response!

Thanks,
Nina

So I am going to make some assumptions just by the way this is worded:

– You were trying to see if a white woman asking for a black man would illicit a response
– You wanted to see if men were down for a “casual encounter”
– You already knew what was going to happen!!!

First, I don’t think this is a race thing at all.  If you had left out the “blacker” in the post, you would have still had 300+ responses.  If the girl was latin, black, asian, or polka dot … you would still have 300+ responses.  Race was not a factor. You managed to prove one thing with this:

There are at least 300 men that want easy p*ssy

I know … shocking.

You basically offered the easiest of beats.  No date, no money, no chance of a relationship … just back breaking f*cking.  And not just some regular s*x, this woman is mad.  This woman wants to prove a point and make a statement.  The things she would do defy physics.  You offered every man’s dream.  Are you surprised by the response?  Reading this, a few things make even me want to send a response (and I know its fake):

Casual S*x is … great

Personally, I do love committed “I’m in love” coitus.  It’s passionate, I can kiss you in your mouth and not worry about herpes, I can leave the rubber in the drawer … it’s just better. But new p*ssy is new and there is a lot to be said about being able to put your pants on immediately after and going to your own house … alone.

S*x is always better when someone is mad

Makeup s*x. Breakup s*x. “I hate you” s*x.  Well recognized as some of the best good good that you are going to come across.  What is common here?  Anger!  Anger just … well … if I gotta explain you just don’t know.

It was posted in “casual encounters”

If I am reading casual encounters, I am not trying to work for my beats and I’m too cheap to pay for it.  As long as you aren’t posting “I finally got the last surgery to become a woman and want to test out my new parts” … you probably would have gotten 300 responses with nothing more than a phone number.

So, the analysis … you offered free p*ssy.  You might have broken the entire internet with the amount of responses.  Be happy it ended at 300.

Who is surprised by this response?  Was the race a major factor in the response rate?  Don’t you want to craft a fake craigslist posting right now?

– SBM aka Mr. I like Free & Easy aka Working for it is overrated

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Comment(224)

  1. Welllll…. that about explains it. Not much more to add. Lots of men aren't going to pass up free, unrestricted, no-strings-attached chex. Honestly, who is surprised by this?

    This will be included in Ch. 1: Men Like Sex in my new book entitled "Duh, B!tch: Things Yo' Dumbass Should Already Know" coming soon to a store near you. #StayTuned

    1. I would like to purchase a few advance copies and have suggested some future chapters. This can be an SBM Movement…..

      CH2. "Why Men like Head more than your Advanced Degree(s)"

      CH3. "Why Your Always Single Friends Will Ruin Your Relationship"

      CH4 "If You Won't, Why She Will"

      CH5 "The Three F's..The Key to Success"

      CH6 "The In's and Out's of Pre-Nuptial Agreements…Everybody Wins"

      CH7 "You, Me and Her…. Sharing IS Caring"

    1. lol 🙂

      Yay to all the new commenters lately! Welcome Stanly and Bly! I'm fresh outta treats, but I'm sure Sane will be round soon…

      1. I wrote a welcome last night, but I think it got lost in moderation somewhere (or I accidently didn't save it because it was late).

        Either way, welcome!!!!! *pops champagne and poontang-shaped e-confetti*

  2. I don't think race had anything to do with the responses. I'm wondering what made her post as a white woman and solicit black men? It also makes me wonder if she was trying to prove a point on black men.

    This makes me want to make a post to solicit Chics altho I'm sure there will be far less women ready to go in

    1. Welcome Bly!!! I was gonna throw some special e-confetti for you too, but I'd end up in moderation again, so yours is just normal.

      *pops e-champanga and throws e-confetti*

  3. <blockquote cite="comment-289977">

    TWIsM81:

    Welllll…. that about explains it.Not much more to add.Lots of men aren’t going to pass up free, unrestricted, no-strings-attached chex.Honestly, who is surprised by this?

    This will be included in Ch. 1: Men Like Sex in my new book entitled “Duh, B!tch: Things Yo’ Dumbass Should Already Know” coming soon to a store near you. #StayTuned

    DEAD!

    1. Look at you using the new features and ish…lol

      It's ask and you shall receive round these parts, eh? Cuz I could use a milli and a man… *waits for midnight for my wish to come true* What? It worked for SFG!

  4. I love free pus$y… as long as I like the woman physically,

    I love my fat & ugly chicks, but there is an income requirement with that free pus$y…

    And because free pus$y can be dangerous… & I want to be a good father with a good baby's mother & the pus$y I really want, can be hard work for at times…

    I will just use my left hand & my laptop… <DEL> Yes I am a lefty #Don'tJudgeMe </DEL>

    I am excited to see how much I p*ss people off… #BetterToBePissedOffThanBePissedOn

    Thank you & Goodnight

    1. lmfao…well im certainly not pissed off (even though i turn my nose up at the fat chick monetary requirement since im a big girl myself lol). If anything u get a small handclap for throwing in there that you have to like the chick physically in order to freely smash. There's plenty of brothers that will beat ANYTHING that comes their way regardless of how ugly, funky, tore down, etc it is. So kudos for standards 🙂

      1. My idea of fat & ugly is VERY subjective, and certain women who seem fat & ugly to MOST women/men, so my point is, is that if ADONIS requires an income to get with you sweetheart,

        B*TCH, YOU ARE NOT ATTRACTIVE

        I found them attractive time & time again, especially if they might have a cute forehead/nose/lips/cheeks or they are proportion the way I like but then they have some angry look on their that says "I am not the most approachable woman in the room…" or some other legitimate reason why I need to avoid them, even though my lust & my heart says "go for it"…

        And in the spirit of easy pus$y, some women like to make their pus$y available for the WRONG type of dude, but then want to try to get right with the "right" dude…

        http://lidia-anain.com/should-women-wait-to-be-in… (side-eyes Max again)

        To those type of women, F*CK YOU, Pay me…

        1. I just wanted you to know that when you see the dislike hit on your comments, it's probably me. I didn't even read what you said but I know I don't like it.

        2. @SFG

          <blockquote cite="comment-290382">

          SmartFoxGirl: I just wanted you to know that when you see the dislike hit on your comments, it’s probably me. I didn’t even read what you said but I know I don’t like it.

          That totally makes your stance irrelevant. You know that right? That was unbecoming of you, don't be like that. I know and you know, you're better than that. If you not going to read, that's one thing. But to say, I don't even read what you say, but I don't like it and i'm going to comment, goes against everything we hold true on this blogstreets.

        3. @Max Nah, I might just start a movement with this article alone… There will be less good guys who will get played because I will make them aware of BS games women play… Guys should at least KNOW they are being swindled… If they are cool with the swindle… Then who am I to judge…

          @SFG That is ALWAYS a good thing… Appreciate that…

          Enjoy…

        4. @Dr. Jay

          Oh whatever you party pooper. Who says I was trying to be relevant?…blog streets smog streets, BAH. Fine I'll be nice.

          @Adonis

          Sorrr

          Soo *cough*

          Sorrrrrrrrr

          Sorry Adonis

        5. *reads article*

          Wow.

          wellllp…time to get my Scrooge McDuck on. M.O.c? Yes, Yes i think so.

          *starts up Peter Parker's Pickled Peppers Corporation and outsources*

        6. "To those type of women, F*CK YOU, Pay me…"

          Lawd, Adonis… you keep thinking like this, the one who will be paying after effing will be you. #HookerSwag

      2. @SFG Your apologies are not welcome here, but your honesty is… and as long as you keep it real, whether on the eStreets or IRL, you will always have my respect…

        Just learn to admit when your beat, and you'll definitely be somebody else's wife…

        It doesn't seem like you have alot of character flaws, coming from this side of the planet…

        Enjoy

        @Dr. J I agree… But I give people the freedom to dislike me even though they never tried to understand me… I think most people should think like that

        Thanks

        1. "Just learn to admit when your beat, and you’ll definitely be somebody else’s wife…"

          It's spelled "you're" or "you are"

          and….

          Don't think you know me well enough to assess what I need to do in order to be somebody's wife. I'm this way with you on purpose and it is no way a part of how I treat real men. Don't play yourself.

    2. Dude, issues you have. You started posting honestly trying to find answers. Now you sound like battered and scorned woman. You come across as just tring to use people just because you have heard it's been done to others.

      Let it go. Think longterm. Your "in the present" dislike/distrust of women act has gotten old

  5. What type of satisfaction did you get from doing that? you must have alot of time on your hands and are running out of ideas to overcome your boredom. All men want easy sex, duh. Now i can see if you put that you were a tranny and wanted sex and got 300 responses, that would be appalling. But not a woman….that's the only reason why men get on craigslist.

  6. i'm not surprised at all by the amount of responses and i don't think it had much to do with race… she may have gotten more if she just said she wanted revenge sex because the white men couldn't chime in after she said the blacker the better…

    i play on craigslist all*the*time… i make up people… sometimes i'm white, sometimes not, sometimes skinny, sometimes not, sometimes i'm a man looking for thug loving, sometimes i'm a nasty chick looking for raw sex yes RAW and i get multiple responses and pics to every single character i create. it's fun, helps me unwind after long days caring for the sick. i'm NOT surprised by anything on craigslist at all…

    1. "she may have gotten more if she just said she wanted revenge sex because the white men couldn’t chime in after she said the blacker the better…"

      Hah! I bet some of those responses were white men. I also play on CL a lot and they love to send d*ck pics. lol!

      1. The same reason married and involved men play with their s.o. emotions by being on CL. It's entertaining. Also, if you play around on CL enough you will find there is a core group of guys who respond to EVERY post no matter what character you chose to play. At the end of the day, playing around on CL helps you to discern the scum in real life.

        1. Thank you! There was one guy who posted frequently in the m4w section. His post were pretty sweet too… seemed like a nice guy. As I like to look at all of CL personals I noticed that he also posted naughty ads in the m4m section.

          Also if you post fake ads you will start to notice that the same people respond to every single ad you place.

      2. basically… it's FUNNY… men are a trip from the dyck pics to the azz shots (for when i am m4m) it makes me happy which reduces stress which then keeps me young looking which makes me even happier so i'm better company…

  7. I'm sorry I can't understand the logic of this question?

    Why do men love free pu^^y?

    If you love pu^^y, why wouldn't you want it to be free?

    Ice Cream doesn't not taste better if its more expensive, it taste better b/c its creamier. Same goes for pu^^y.

    It might be that better tasting ice cream cost more. However, its not impossible to find great ice cream at a discounted price that way you can enjoy the diversity in flavors.

  8. This post will probably get females mad on the lowkey lol. Just the idea that out of a hundred females out there, one would be willing to give the p*ssy free just for the heck of it. I'll admit though that if not for the subtle double standard society has, more females would be openly thirsty for some free D*ck. Great Post btw.

  9. As someone who's been posting fake craigslist ads for years, I can definitely agree that race had nothing to do with it. Men just like sex. However, what concerns me the most about CL, is that a good portion of the responders (black white purple or teal) are married men or men in committed relationships looking to fulfill a sexual fantasy they are too ashamed to admit their wives or s.o. Basically, if I had a dollar for every man who's asked me to break in his back door, I'd be rich…

    1. Obviously there could me many reasons for this, but I would be D*MNED if I get married and I can't playout the 7,812 different sexual scenarios in my head…

      It seems that not only I have to help men/women carry out successful relationships… I have to liberate the ones who are already established, SMH…

  10. "My girlfriend owns a Saks that I work at as a general manager. I found out last week that she cheated on me. So I'm giving away free Louis Vuitton purses to get revenge."

    I wonder if I will get any responses…

    1. Hugh, my friend, my eLove…purses= pusses?

      As silly as I think the outrage of the woman in the letter is, this is precisely the point she was getting at…the price of pucci is at an all time low. 🙁

  11. Sometimes free p*ssy is not really free p*ssy!

    I know men who have actually tried to meet 'women' who post ads like this and end up in trouble. Most of the time it is not a woman. CL is a playground for TS and gay men. Beware… The naughtier the ad the more likely it was not posted by an actual woman. Or they will end up wanting you to verify your age with a credit card number.

    Have fun guys!

    1. "Or they will end up wanting you to verify your age with a credit card number."

      o__O

      Oh Word. *SMH* People actually fall for this??

      #NoCountryforSimpletons

  12. Yeah I'm at a loss as to what I could say in response to a question like this. All the answers I've been formulating have the words "duh" and "captain obvious" in them and I'm pretty sure that's not productive at all.

  13. Just out of curiosity, I wonder what the racial make up of the men who responded where? I know alot of times 2520 women who specifically date/bump uglies with only certain races in particular get branded with scarlet letters in the overall 2520 community.

  14. I don't really understand why she's so surprised. Maybe she thought certain men would think that's disgusting. But I'm pretty sure the ones who would think easy p***y is disgusting aren't on CL looking at close encounter ads…..

  15. Who is surprised by this response?

    No one except her

    Was the race a major factor in the response rate?

    I highly doubt it. I might have affected the target market but the amount and speed of responses, not so much

    Don’t you want to craft a fake craigslist posting right now?

    Hell yeah!

    As far as why do men like free p*ssy?

    Cuz it's free dummy, if someone was handing out free Christian Louboutins I'd be all over that

  16. I wonder how many woman would answer if I said I had the new 2011 collection of Chanel, Coach, Prada, Gucci bags for free? would I get 300+ responses on CL?

    1. <blockquote cite="comment-290411">

      Dr. J: To the women who have said here today that they have posted fake articles on the CL, you should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law.

      Hah! Whatev! But to the rest of your statement I have actually posted real ads on CL and met some really nice although socially challenged men. The fake ads are for casual encounters. Hey they are looking for free p*ssy I am looking for free entertainment.

  17. ok why did I initially read this post title as 'why do men love EATING p*ssy" clearly my mind is in the gutter this AM.

    but yea, I don't understand the shock of this. but I do think its creepy to sleep with strangers. like someone said, I'd assume they were all criminals (trying to rob me) or trannies. I have never perused this part of Craigslist.

    1. <blockquote cite="comment-290366">

      Reecie:

      ok why did I initially read this post title as ‘why do men love EATING p*ssy” clearly my mind is in the gutter this AM.

      That's exactly what I read this morning when checking my emails.

  18. Suprised at the response??? I am shocked that ONLY 300 people replied. Isn't it common knowledge that free poon is like christmas morning to many men? I guess not.

    Btw, I like the "dislike" button even though I know certain people will dislike my sh*t because it's me. It's still passively funny though. I can't wait to use it. 🙂

  19. <blockquote cite="comment-290382">

    SmartFoxGirl:

    I just wanted you to know that when you see the dislike hit on your comments, it’s probably me. I didn’t even read what you said but I know I don’t like it.

    iDied.

  20. Let me first clarify that it wasn't me LOL

    But i'm with SFG why is this a shock and I am also surprised there wasn't more – I was however shocked to find out that there is are several free and pay website for easy cooch. I don't know why but hey to each his/her own

  21. Although I tend to fade in and out of my BuffyGirlWorld from time to time….THIS. I am not surprised or shocked about, what man you know is going to turn down some free buns??? *LooksAround* NOTTA ONE.

  22. Taboo, white woman soliciting black d* and the fact that she's already in a relationship and now wants revenge. SBM broke down the reasons pretty thoroughly so yeah. Add in that it's nasty ass Craigslist, hell I got rid of my 8 year old RABBIT (yes the furry mammal kind) on Craigslit. People will take ANYTHING on there.

  23. They've actually done studies and it's shown that Black men are the most likely to date outside of their race while dating online. There is overwhelming evidence to support that if she posed as a white woman looking for a black man. Black men jump or pounce at this opoprtunity. So I think that race plays some part here.

    Another interesting thing is going around pertaining this post, is that people are automatically saying that CL is filled with married men or men in relationships. I've got a blog coming out really soon on the exception or the rule. Think about it, most of the people on CL are not married, you're talking about a small subset that gets caught doing something wrong. There are hundreds of thousands of people on CL who are just sitting at home behind a keyboard. There's simply no data to suggest that the demographic of the men on there is married or in a relationship.

    To the women who have said here today that they have posted fake articles on the CL, you should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. That's just immature and childish and it's also misleading. Now please, I plead of you to tell me about how married men do it all the time and it's just for entertainment, but at the end of the day it's deceitful and it's not becoming of a woman to do that. And you probably are wondering why you're single? It's because you find stuff like that to be funny. If you go back and look at what happened on CL since its inception to now, it's downright disgusting. But it's mainly because there are so many people who would rather post fake articles on CL, than actually use it for what it was originally intended for.

    In conclusion as it pertains to the easy sex, you've got to pay attention to the fact that you listed this under Casual Encounters. You got what you asked for. Craigslist has about 17 million people online everyday looking at ads. When you breakdown that across the cities and across the categories are you suprised that you got such a large response. Casual Encounters and the Dating/Personals aspect of the site are the largest communities, second to Adults services. You may have had 10,000 read that ad. Congratulations, 300 of them decided to reply. Not only did you offer NSA sex, you offered interracial fetish sex, you were bound to get a response of that magnitude. Lastly, when you look at the ads on CL that get the most response it is those ads that are detailed in nature. For the people prowl on CL they pick up on the more detailed posts because they seem to be more genuine in nature.

    Aside, before Match, Plenty of Fish, and any of the other dating sites there was CL. And in the last year i've been studying online dating habits and it seems like regular normal people are having success using online dating. I went through the paper one time and a couple was getting married and the ad said, "Don't judge me, but we met on CL." I started to think… wow that's interesting. People might say those people are desperate, but it's a reflection of the dating world in general. The world is changing people, it's changing in front of us. Some y'all should try a personal ad on CL, you'd be surprised what you might get.

    1. "To the women who have said here today that they have posted fake articles on the CL, you should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. That’s just immature and childish and it’s also misleading. Now please, I plead of you to tell me about how married men do it all the time and it’s just for entertainment, but at the end of the day it’s deceitful and it’s not becoming of a woman to do that. And you probably are wondering why you’re single?"

      Well Damn — Tell em how you really feel!!!! o:)

    2. meant to put this here…

      Hah! Whatev! But to the rest of your statement I have actually posted real ads on CL and met some really nice although socially challenged men. The fake ads are for casual encounters. Hey they are looking for free p*ssy I am looking for free entertainment.

    3. @Dr. J: "They’ve actually done studies and it’s shown that Black men are the most likely to date outside of their race while dating online. There is overwhelming evidence to support that if she posed as a white woman looking for a black man. Black men jump or pounce at this opoprtunity. So I think that race plays some part here."

      An opportunity for WIM to #plug himself? Don't mind if I do.

      I wrote two articles on "Love Is Not Colorblind" – http://www.wisdomismisery.com/2011/04/06/commenta

      *exits*

    4. I'm afraid of CL. The jobs section is sketchy, so the personal ads section is terrifying to me. Fun to browse, but I'm afraid to do anything else. LoL

  24. <blockquote cite="comment-290226">

    CHeeKZ Money:

    I’m sorry I can’t understand the logic of this question?

    Ice Cream doesn’t not taste better if its more expensive, it taste better b/c its creamier.Same goes for pu^^y.

    RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!

  25. Why would anyone be surprised at the results? Unfortunately a lot of men get it how they live. Some men even feel you are not a man if you turn down easy p**y. Dudes are thirsty and will hit anything. The results kind of backs one of my theories. That theory is that women cheat better than men because men are willing participants in cheating. As long as a dude is getting chex he couldn't care less. A lot of men will sacrifice their, pride, step on the next man, almost sell their soul, etc. for some p***y.

    On the list of Humble's Rules is "Easy or convenient p***y is the most dangerous p***y". I've seen so many dudes get unwanted kids and drama from easy p***y. You show me a dude that can't turn down easy p***y and I'll show you a dude that doesn't have his ish together and more than likely has baby mama drama. Easy p***y is lame ninja bait.

    1. Humble, I actually agree with you. I have a healthy fear of the STD fairy, and I'm not looking to get some kind of advanced disease that makes [email protected] bleed when you wake up in the morning. If a chick is literally broadcasting "1st come, 1st served" to complete strangers… HELLL NAW! Not to mention that sounds like a setup. I'm not trying to catch a Kobe case.

      Surprise sex is the best… unless you're in prison.

  26. Why oh why would anyone be surprised at this… I see it all the time, try this for a social experiment; go to the club with your girlfriends wearing a long pants and a covered top (no cleavage) while they wear their sexy mini dresses and whatnot. Stand around and see who get's the attention. It's as simple as that, even in how women dress sometimes it's an indicator of "easy p*ssy"

    Now i"m not saying anything is wrong with you dressing how you want to, but men read these simple things and assess how easy it would be to get that p*ssy every minute of every day.

    (My first time posting btw so don't be too hard on me. lol)

  27. wait when did sbm get a dislike button and a quote feature?

    also i agree with streetz. why wouldn't a man want free, unattached beats? she as well as everyone who read this post knew what the outcome would be when she posted that listing.

    also there are few things better than angry sex.

  28. This reminds me of a story from undergrad.

    Over a break a chick was giving dome in one of the male dorms. Dudes were supposedly lined up down the hall and the room was a revolving door.

    Until her brother's turn was up…yeah they both were never seen again.

    1. I just guffawed out every bit of oxygen in my lungs. That sh*t is beyond hilarious. How was her brother in line though? I hope he ain't know who was in there. If he did, I may have to rescind my guffaw and insert an "errr?"

      1. Na he didn't know. It was one of those things that spread around campus REALLY FAST. And most folks didn't know who she was. Just some poor freshman that had excess saliva one evening.

  29. <blockquote cite="comment-290414">

    Starita34: eLove…purses= pusses?

    As silly as I think the outrage of the woman in the letter is, this is precisely the point she was getting at…the price of pucci is at an all time low.

    I agree, my darling e-boo. It's not the price of pucci (I'm going to use this more often) that she was surprised at, but the demand for it at that cheaper price. She shouldn't be surprised, after all, what happens to the demand of something when price decreases?

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Supply_and_demand

  30. <blockquote cite="comment-290448">

    Animate:

    Dude, issues you have. You started posting honestly trying to find answers. Now you sound like battered and scornedwoman. You come across as just tring to use people just because you have heard it’s been done to others.

    Let it go. Think longterm. Your “in the present” dislike/distrust of women act has gotten old

    Thanks Animate for the advice…

    I'll be more than fine… Enjoy

  31. "Why do men love easy P****?"

    Ummm I'm going to go out on a limb and say, "because it's easy?" Her results are not surprising at all. They're actually a little scary.

    To think men would jump at the chance to have sex with a random "woman" (they're not even sure about that much yet), who's easy (passes out coochie coupons on a regular and may have a disease), w/o even knowing what "she" looks like, is borderline disgusting.

  32. I imagine these 300 responses were from men who aren't doing too well at life or they have some fetish that they fulfill occasionally by perusing on CL. I can't imagine drafting fake post for CL. I can think of 300 other things I'd rather be doing with my free time. To each his own. As for the race thing being a major factor on the number of responses, I'd say no. If "white girl" sex is what the man is into, this is like a sure thing. His curiosity might get him to respond but whether he follows through is a whole different matter. The whole hypothetical is hilarious to me. If I was a dude, free pussy would worry me in and shade of the spectrum. Thank goodness for inside parts, but what do I know about the male psyche

  33. Free p***y? It depends on the environment it's offered honestly. If it's in the hood where I grew up, H*LL TO THE NO!

    I don't think less of a woman that offers sex. We do it all the time and guess what, we can still be considered great guys.

    starts thinking about p***y

    This begs some introspection of the concept of p***y stock/value which for the record is ridic. It's easy to draw simple parallels and use pseudo-economics. This notion of p***y mileage stating that the worth of a woman is correlated to the # of partners she had suffers from the bare assertion fallacy. More concisely, it devalues the person and glorifies the organ. I don't see how women that swear to be feminists even co-sign on that. That's basically talking about my (and every other guy in this world) mother and my grandmother.

    The psychology of it is crazy though. A little girl can be taught that SHE (read: the person) is precious b/c to her parents SHE (read: the person) is precious. It can morph into: she = her (distance from) virginity and/or how many partners she had. Think about it. How many guys think when entering a p***y: "Awww man! I didn't get a virgin!"? I know I certainly don't. In this world, imagery is king. So the perception of a woman having lower p***y value is the actual drive for judgment, not the number of partners. That can be assigned to any woman via trash talk regardless of the lack of truth.

    For proper handling of the situation, let's look at the other end of the spectrum: The tease. A woman can be called a 'tease' even though that wasn't her intent. This can be assigned by any guy that thought he was getting some and then got turned down, regardless of the circumstances. The tease, in the ideal sense of the word, refuses to have sex with random men, but will flirt with them heavily. The negative 'tease' stigma shouldn't exist since, based on p***y-nomics, her stock value should be the really high. So the increased chances of failure to obtain the p***y shouldn't matter.

    So given p***y is good. Why does the increased chances of failure to obtain high valued good devalues the said good, when the ability to readily obtain the good decreases the the good's value?!?! -><-

    Hypocritical it is… The idea of p***y stock/value is centered around the idea of "sweet spot/lie to me/exclude me" It basically says: "For any woman, I'm the only guy in which she can express her sexual freedom." Also, it shows that for every guy, there's a standard deviation for the value of a woman's p***y, in reference to a man's deductive steps. So basically, the perception of a woman's p***y value is highly determine by the amount of effort it took to obtain her sexual history. For the 3rd part, 'exclude me', one's own mileage usage won't lower value of a woman's p***y. So in those cases the increased p***y mileage that is applied by the current user is not ignored but rather check this -> used as a measure to evaluate the time to obtain another p***y. The newly obtained p***y can even have a initial value LOWER than the current value of the current p***y! (Men cheating with ho3s then getting into relationships with the said ho3s)

    Let's me tell you about the reality… It's always been understood that when women speak men misunderstand the meaning behind the words. I think that when women state that their lower body counter gives them a relative higher value, they are referring to their potential for emotional a connection to a suitor. They're basically saying, not many people deserve to yield that emotional connection with them. When men speak, we're talking about the physical act minus emotions. I betcha I'm right… How? Look at the case of a woman that doesn't use her p***y as her measure of value. Even IF sex with a guy yields an emotional connection, she's fully aware that an emotional connection will yield sex. Therefore she limits to supply of the emotional connections with men. More specifically, strives to avoid situations where sex would yield an emotional connection AND recognizes that allowing such an emotional connection in that manner would place strain on her desire for (emotional) self preservation. (And Ignoring self preservation is a sign of low self worth).

    Randomness… I know… Just some thoughts…

  34. I don't know what's worse…the fact that she was surprised to get responses about free sex or the fact that you all admit to posting fake ads all the time. Waste of energy maybe?

  35. SBM pretty much hit the nail on the head. Most men will not turn down casual sex under the right circumstances. (contrary to popular belief some men have do have some standards, which coincidentally has an inverse relationship with the amount of alcohol consumption one intakes…kidding…kinda..)

    #typestuffclosetogethertotryandmakeacleverpoint

  36. Now I'm curious about what kind of men are responding to this…is it fugly registered sex offender lookin type guys or attractive good looking men who have no problems meeting women?is free casual sex more appealing to those who have trouble getting some or is really appealing to ALL men no matter what the circumstances?

    1. IMHO, It is the men who ain't getting it like that…

      Once you get to a place where you are turning p*ssy down… You are not going on CL to holla at randoms…

    2. I had a male friend tell me… "There are two types of men…. Those who fcuk who they want and those who fcuk who they can"

    3. <blockquote cite="comment-290592">

      PrettyPisces: Now I’m curious about what kind of men are responding to this…is it fugly registered sex offender lookin type guys or attractive good looking men who have no problems meeting women?is free casual sex more appealing to those who have trouble getting some or is really appealing to ALL men no matter what the circumstances?

      Some men just want no-strings-attached $ex. They don't want to deal with courting, talking to a woman, pretending they care about her after the deed, or whatever. It's not that they can't get a woman, and in some cases it's not that they don't have a woman. There are good-looking, financially successful men that have no problem getting a call girl, pr0stitute, or going on Craigslist. An old saying goes you don't pay a h00ker for $ex, you pay her to leave.

      I wouldn't do it, but to each their own.

  37. <blockquote cite="comment-290600">

    SmartFoxGirl:

    “Just learn to admit when your beat, and you’ll definitely be somebody else’s wife…”

    It’s spelled “you’re” or “you are”

    and….

    Don’t think you know me well enough to assess what I need to do in order to be somebody’s wife. I’m this way with you on purpose and it is no way a part of how I treat real men. Don’t play yourself.

    Now we are talkin'

    You are right, you're right…

    But I know this,

    I have NEVER met a woman who was single who shouldn't be single, and I have never met a woman who wasn't marriage material who wasn't married…

    And chances are I never will…

    And that is "The Play-er" in me speaking…

    1. LOL I'll let you think that's why I'm unmarried. Whatever you say little buddy.

      Tell you what, I'll get help for my "single" issues if you get help for your mental issues.

      Deal?

      1. My mental issues will be taken care of, independent of your *single* issues…

        But if you want to cure your bout of *single*ness… I am definitely here to help…

        But I rather you holla at @DrJayJack, @MrSpradley, @LincolnABlades, & @8Plus9

        They are WAY more equipped & qualified to get you a ring… & a marriage certificate…

        I could almost put my future first-born on that…

        Enjoy…

  38. On second thought, don't answer that.

    Just keep your man/woman, feminine, shim, wavy self away from my username and we're good

    As long as you keep saying DEEPLY profound/idiotic things, and/or you are eternally deprived of your marriage license because of your own doing… I sing your praises… & I will keep checking a b*tch

    Because you women have not gotten enough credit for good, and not enough blame for the BS…

      1. *raises hands* Is this seat taken because I wouldn't mind sitting next to you at all? 🙂 *brings Cinnabon popcorn*

      2. Man, a PPV fight and a room full of women. My e-life is poppin'. *Passes theater style popcorn.* SFG's a contender but Adonis got a mean right cross. I think it's over in 5.

    1. Ya'll aint right. See…this is where I would show my @ss

      …then ya'll DM me later like "SFG you went in too hard girl" "Play nice SFG" "You didn't have to call him out girlie"

      …then Slim DMs me with "Girl what I told you, save that energy for me later tonight or else I'll spank you til you act right."

      …then Streetz DMs me with "SFG you know what happens when you get out of line, I'll be there with the cuffs and vaseline soon"

      …then Dr. Jay DMs me with "N*gga, assume the mah effin position, myself and the other writers (except Most) will have to teach you the real moral lesson of acting out on our blog…We're on our way!"

      Then I lose pay for taking off of work the next day.

      I can't be the people's champ no mo.

      1. <—- about to start showing my @ss if I can get DMs like that…

        iKeed I can't even get a follow. Passive aggressive much? Why, yes, yes I am.

      2. Why do I have BOLT HOUSE FARMS "Green Goodness" All over my laptop now. OMG!

        SFG that is HILARIOUS (but you know i'm new so I want to see it go down)

        1. I meant you not playing nice – not the train LOL- but i'm mean hey don't stop get it get it 🙂

      3. Hmmm…

        Sh*t, I wish I can get some encouraging DMs…

        It is good that you have dignified men rooting for you in your corner…

        In light of that new info… Life holds alot of promise for you…

  39. Wow! After SBMs thorough (yet obvious) explanation and TWIsM81s fabulous co-sign, I thought there was nothing else to be said! I clicked the 'thumbs up' on the aforementioned co-sign and went back to my day job. But, now, 120+ comments later, I see that I was wrong, LMBO! Clearly, I was very, VERY wrong.

  40. <blockquote cite="comment-290672">

    TWIsM81: Man, a PPV fight and a room full of women. My e-life is poppin’.

    You ARE on a roll today, lol.

    Now, if you could just remove that hand from your pic so I can see what goes with that smile and slight dimple, I'd be forever grateful. 😉

    Please…and thank you…

    1. I'm gonna go ahead and assume that CynicalOptimist is a woman now…

      (and let me assure you girl, behind the hand you will not be disappointed…)

        1. LOL!

          *considers how one would describe that action properly in words*

          @Cynical – I won't give away the man's secrets…but talk to him…he may show you 🙂

        2. Teabagging is an EXTREME exaggeration, lol. And, no one's offering easy p**** either, LOL!

          Look, based on what I've been reading, "Ask and you SHALL receive" works on this blog. Just figured I'd give it a shot to complete the visual! LOL!

          Don't knock me for trying…

  41. <blockquote cite="comment-290672">

    TWIsM81: Man, a PPV fight and a room full of women. My e-life is poppin’. *Passes theater style popcorn.* SFG’s a contender but Adonis got a mean right cross. I think it’s over in 5.

    Jamaicans can scrap doe! And don't let her find a bottle laying around. I say Adonis goes out in Round 4…

    1. I am from Jamaican descent myself… I thought SFG was more exotic then that #WhoKnew

      But hey… I only hit women when they stop acting like women… #NoChrisBrown, #NoIkeTurner #ThatIsAll…

        1. Nah, Slim. We gotta let this ride. I think this time Anna Mae is gonna make Ike eat the cake. Don't take that from us.

        2. My side is hurting……

          Ya'll killin me over here today and my co-worker keeps looking over at me like I only got two strands of hair on my head.

          SMHLOL

  42. <blockquote cite="comment-290703">

    Slimuel L. Jackson:

    I’m throwing in the towel for Adonis. After that last comment, this n*gga bout to die.

    I won't defend this comment too much, but I see how it gets misconstrued…

    That is what happens when women want to scream equality… And I agree women should be my equals, but if she is coming at me on some physically violent tip, she is NO LONGER a woman… she is a threat… and should be handled like one…

    I believe that all warfare between men & women should be psychological, not physical…

    "Marriage is the only war where you get to sleep with the enemy" – Unknown

    Now put that towel down Slarack…

    Enjoy

  43. <blockquote cite="comment-290710">

    RCTuri:

    What’s with all of the unmarried digs? There isn’t anything wrong with being single.

    I agree… and if she gets married at 60 it is still an accomplishment… But I am telling you that it didn't need to take that long… especially if you are on the SBM forum…

  44. <blockquote cite="comment-290713">

    Starita34:

    unless you’re a woman

    If it is not an issue for women/SFG it is not an issue with me… But I truly doubt that the average man complains about a woman not being married…

    That complaint comes the female collective & her family & friends…

      1. <blockquote cite="comment-290731">

        RCTuri: to you

        I will always root for women <DEL> who I am not already f*cking</DEL> to get all that they can out of life & more…

        See @RCTuri, I used to believe men were the reason why women are not getting married when they want to… #BoyWasIWrong

        As the great Fat Joe says

        And everybody talkin crazy how they're AK spit

        But we know this investigatin, and they ain't spray sh*t

        cite: "New York (feat. Fat Joe & Jada Kiss)"

        And every woman I have investigated who was never married… There is always a good reason for that… independent of men… Even if THEY refuse to acknowledge it…

        Maybe I just care too much…

        But I'll be better the second time around…

        And I will close out with the now, commercialized, used-to-be-underground HOT, Wiz Khalifa

        "This aint the life that we chose, but it's the life that we living

        Know we belong on the top, but we aint trippin'.

        'Cause we'll get there in a minute"

        cite: "The Statement" by Wiz Khalifa

        Enjoy

        1. Sooooo if a woman isn't validated by a man through the institution of marriage, something is wrong with her?

          Oh ok.

          Thanks for the song and dance, but I don't subscribe to that idea.

          However, I DO agree with you that the reason women who want to be married but aren't, is indeed a personal problem. Surely isn't the end of the world though.

    1. <blockquote cite="comment-290725">

      Adonis: But I truly doubt that the average man complains about a woman not being married…

      That complaint comes the female collective & her family & friends…

      Point!

        1. I'm just cosigning the "I truly doubt that the avg. man complains about a woman not being married…"

          He has a valid point.

  45. LMAO!

    1. Yes, men love easy poon. Thing is, easy poon might get you killed on some Snapped type of ish. And CL is too crazy. Didn't a man just kill some women off of Craigslist? Wasn't that last year? Yeah, folks need to be careful with that.

    2. Comments are hilarious today.

    3. Love the quote feature!

    4. That's all…

    1. <blockquote cite="comment-290746">

      N.I.A. naturally: naturally

      I agree with you that anybody who is doing the on-line wave needs to take the proper precautions

      Get them on the phone…

      Meet at a public place…

      Do a little background check…

      However, chill with the “fear” swag, because not every person who killed their love interest met on-line…

      Not every marriage got started & maintained by two people meeting in person first…

      The world is changing… Make the proper adjustments…

      Enjoy

  46. I don't think neither Adonis or SmartFox is bout that life.

    Adonis is listeninig to steady mobbin on his headphones.

    And SFG sending messages about hold me back, in more words than that.

    Ain't bout that life.

  47. <blockquote cite="comment-290753">

    Dr. J: I don’t think neither Adonis or SmartFox is bout that life.Adonis is listeninig to steady mobbin on his headphones.And SFG sending messages about hold me back, in more words than that.Ain’t bout that life.

    My bad. I mainly wanted to see how this quote function works. But yeah, I do agree with this statement.

    1. One last friendly tip: you hit "Reply" first, and then "[Quote Text]" to respond inline, otherwise you start your own thread…

      1. <blockquote cite="comment-290777">

        Starita34: One last friendly tip: you hit “Reply” first, and then “[Quote Text]” to respond inline, otherwise you start your own thread…

        oooooooooooooooooooh. *looks around with childlike innocence* THANKS!

      2. <blockquote cite="comment-290777">

        Starita34:

        One last friendly tip: you hit “Reply” first, and then “[Quote Text]” to respond inline, otherwise you start your own thread…

        Hey, it does work, LOL! I sho wish you'd posted this earlier!

        Question…since you dabble in Tech support (LOL), how in the ham sandwich do I get my pic to show up? I've been lookin all around this blicky and I can't seem to figure it out… :-/

        1. First, I'll voluntarily take one ride one way on the short yellow bus for not realizing the 'quote text' directions were in the link, lol. Smh… Reading is indeed fundamental.

          Second, thank you both for the pic tip! 🙂

          @Starlita – $75 though?! C'mon son… LOL! I thought this post was all about hook ups???

  48. <blockquote cite="comment-290753">

    Dr. J: I don’t think neither Adonis or SmartFox is bout that life.Adonis is listeninig to steady mobbin on his headphones.And SFG sending messages about hold me back, in more words than that.Ain’t bout that life.

    I had to take the headphones off and go to the library…

    If the connotation in my head "Ain’t bout that life" matches with Dr. J's meaning… then he is right…

    I only punch when pushed… No need to start fights

  49. <blockquote cite="comment-290746">

    N.I.A. naturally: LMAO!1. Yes, men love easy poon. Thing is, easy poon might get you killed on some Snapped type of ish. And CL is too crazy. Didn’t a man just kill some women off of Craigslist? Wasn’t that last year? Yeah, folks need to be careful with that.2. Comments are hilarious today. 3. Love the quote feature!4. That’s all…

    I agree with you that anybody who is doing the on-line wave needs to take the proper precautions

    Get them on the phone…

    Meet at a public place…

    Do a little background check…

    However, chill with the "fear" swag, because not every person who killed their love interest met on-line…

    Not every marriage got started & maintained by two people meeting in person first…

    The world is changing… Make the proper adjustments

  50. <blockquote cite="comment-290736">

    Starita34: Complains? No.Assumes something is wrong with her? Yes.

    If I meet a girl who I find physically attractive

    (remember compared to most men, my beauty standards are very relaxed….)

    & she is over 20 with no ring in sight…

    automatically in my mind something is wrong with her…

    Again

    "I have NEVER met a woman who was single who shouldn’t be single, and I have never met a woman who wasn’t marriage material who wasn’t married…"

    Because as sleazy as me & some men "are/can be"

    WE DO STILL DO OUR JOBS…And Approach… <DEL> and offer some d*ck </DEL>

    If marriage is not your wave… This doesn't apply…

    Now if the man you want is not checking for you… then that is an entirely different issue

    If you are not ready for marriage after 20+ years of living… and you want to get married someday, I think you are setting yourself up to be eternally single, but YEAH,

    That is a YOU problem…

    1. I don't think there are many people who are ready for marriage at twenty. How is not rushing into a marriage you aren't ready for, setting you up to be eternally single? There a lot of things that I want to do soeday that I'm not ready for today> Doesn't mean someday isn't coming and it doe4sn't mean that I'm not working towards someday.

      1. Good Point Sade…

        Let me further elaborate…

        I am not saying that a 20 year old is/isn't ready for marriage… I could care less about such a personal decision…

        My point is, is that if you are a woman who is in their 20s who is strongly interested in starting & maintaining a LEGAL marriage… Then you need to get in the mindet of being a wife (whatever that means to you…)

        I hate to belabor the point, it is not like most women can wait until their 70s to tie the knot…

        And at 20-something you are at your most beautiful & your most fertile…

        At 30, 40, 50… you are now in competition with the women who are YOUNGER…

        Did I clear that up for you…

        Now being mature & ready for marriage is a totally different conversation… Women need to learn how to match maturity with beauty…

        (But if women can't do that, it kinda throws a wrench in the whole "Women mature faster than Men" belief…)

    2. Its impossible for every person that's single to fit into that "they are single because they are supposed to be" category. If that was the case, then no single person would ever get married because all the marriage material people would already be taken!

      1. Hmmm… Bless the people who press the "like" button without thinking it through

        @Psyche I hope you are not going out of your way to discredit the things I say…

        Being that I cannot tell… I will make the positive assumption that you want more information so you can increase the probability of getting yourself & your relationships in the right direction…

        “I have NEVER met a woman who was single who shouldn’t be single, and I have never met a woman who wasn’t marriage material who wasn’t married…”

        Now, assuming that a person is marriage material & he/she wants to get married… Then my statement holds true…

        Now, as far as the perpetually single… that person can change… and become more like a husband/wife to the person that he/she is attracted to & is looking to "Death Do Us Part" with them…

        In life there are no guarantees… I agree… But in my experience… the "marriage material" folks who want to "get married/be in a relationship" are

        – Already in a relationship heading towards marriage…

        – Already married

        – Or just got out of a break-up or serious situation/circumstance & have plenty of "potential suitors willing to put a ring on it" or "potential suitors willing to take a ring"…

        Did that clear things up for you…

        Enjoy…

        1. And I have to add that…

          The "perpetually single" can change & become marriage material aka "evolve" into a more attractive mate…

          But that doesn't take away from the fact that BEFORE he/she evolved…

          He/She was destined to be eternally single…

  51. Men like easy p**** because like stated in the text, its easy. Easy p**** usually means no strings attached, no trying to be in a relationship but just casual sex. Some men just want sex anyways but many women who he may ecounter may not be feeling the same way and might actually want a relationship.
    To answer your questions, am I surprised by the resonse? No. Not really. Some dudes on those sites are desparate ass weirdo's anyways so why wouldn't they want easy access p****? Is race a factor? Honesly, I say yes. Race is a factor. If it was vice versa and an Asian or White man were posting free d*** would I respond? No. A black man who described himself well? Yes. No offense to the Asian and White brothers but its just how I feel. Would I create a fake craigslist? No. Don't have the time.

  52. <blockquote cite="comment-290847">

    RCTuri:

    Sooooo if a woman isn’t validated by a man through the institution of marriage, something is wrong with her?

    Oh ok.

    Thanks for the song and dance, but I don’t subscribe to that idea.

    However, I DO agree with you that the reason women who want to be married but aren’t, is indeed a personal problem. Surely isn’t the end of the world though.

    Keep in mind @RCTuri, as long as women don't b*tch & moan about their current situation… I really have nothing to say… That goes for men too…

    So, in reference to your question

    Sooooo if a woman isn’t validated by a man through the institution of marriage, something is wrong with her?

    Absolutely not… But it is women & their friends and family who GO HARD over being apart of this institution…

    The ones that are cool with whatever they get in life… married or unmarried… I f*cks with you…

    Chances are she is a woman who bring peace & tranquility into my life…

  53. <blockquote cite="comment-290873">

    Cheekie:

    “To those type of women, F*CK YOU, Pay me…”

    Lawd, Adonis… you keep thinking like this, the one who will be paying after effing will be you. #HookerSwag

    Good Evening Cheeks,

    When I saw you in the comment section just now, my day got a little brighter…

    Put it this way, if women are not willing to pay me for s*x #MaintinenceMan, I am failing at life…

    So, thanks for reminding me of goal I need to get to…

    Enjoy…

  54. I see y'all had fun today. But on the real, I raised my eyebrow a bit at the number of people admitting to posting fake ads on CL. Maybe it's because the site is only relevant to me when I'm looking for my next condo, but..well, meh. *shrugs*

    1. *blinks hard*
      Wish Granted!!

      Welcome fresh face!
      *whistles between my fingers*
      <del>I can't really do that in real life, but my Mom can; does that count? No? Oh.</del>

      1. D* mn Star, I didn't know you worked for State Farm…

        #LikeAGoodNeighborStateFarmIsThere With Six Stacks And Kim Kardashian's Cuter Twin

        Thank You Goddess…

      2. Thank you, thank you…lol.

        Ok…I'll def be playing around with this gravatar thingy cause um…this pic doesn't do it for me as a little square, lol. Back to the drawing board. But, yeah, the gal looks sumthin like that…

  55. Why am I not shocked or appalled that she received that many responses.. there are so many creepy people on CL that she didn't get 1k responses in the time that she placed her ad. I remember hearing from several dudes that coochie has NO face, and as long as its clean and as long as they strap up then they are down for the cause.. it doesn't matter how it comes just as long as it cums.. #seewhatIdidthere…

    If she would've said that she didn't get any responses I would have been pleasantly surprised. I don't think the race thing mattered either If she said she was a cock-eyed asian midget with bad breath who wanted to try something new she would still the the same responses.. men have fetishes and fantasies that they want to fulfill and on any given day a woman that fits the description or is looking for something different will fit the bill..

  56. Oddly enough, I'd pass this up. There is something very **I probably have aids and I want to give it to you-ish** about ads or anything like that. I definitely have had women as easy as Sunday morning, but in my mind, I did have to actually come to them for it…they give it up to anyone asking on a website…or did they (ehhh, facebook h**s). If i was in a store and a random woman approached me for sex, I'd have to turn her down. My better mind would just tell me that something was wrong. Either she was trying to set me up or she was trying to give me something I don't want.

  57. I wonder what it would it take to get 300 responses from women? That's the question. Because I do think men and women are equally shallow.

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