I’ve been writing for a number of years and in my professional and personal experiences a number of women have asked me why is it so difficult for men to commit, especially black men. I honestly have no idea but I have my theories. I’m sure it has something to do with rap music. In addition, I think most men have internal personality types that often have conflicting interest when it comes to pursuing relationships and what they’re looking for in their ideal woman. The following video provides an example of how if two of these contrary personality types are left unchecked they may hinder a man from choosing and ultimately committing to one woman.