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Why Do Some Women Enjoy Breaking Up Happy Homes?


A while back, I came across this article on Necole Bitchie’s website, Author Kola Boof Claims She’s The Reason Kimora And Djimon Broke Up. It took me a minute to let it sink in because I actually had to sift through the pictures of this lady to think if this was actually true. Personally, I think it’s completely false. It’s obvious that Kola has a grudge against Kimora. For what? We’ll never know.

Check out her email below:

I am the reason that they broke up. I have slept with Djimon Hounsou throughout his marriage to Kimora Lee Simmons. I don’t think it’s a secret to people in Los Angeles.

I am not in love with Djimon Hounsou & he is not in love with me. The only reason I had sex with him was to get revenge on Kimora.

Kimora nearly destroyed my life and my children’s lives, she is a lecherous, two-faced, money-obsessed witch and a delusional snob.

It’s just too much.

Djimon is a great human being. He’s just lost in a culture he doesn’t understand.

You can also check out her Twitter rant, (uncensored) here: Kola Boof vs Kimora Lee Simmons on Rhymes with Snitch.

PLEASE, click that link. It’s too profane for this site, but it’s freaking hilarious.

It got me to thinking about the pleasure that some women get out of stealing a man. I’ve always thought that it had a lot to do with the satisfaction women get out of knowing they can have whatever they want when they want it. I’ve been witness to women who have actively tried to steal a man away from his girlfriend or wife. At times, they didn’t even want him, they just wanted to play the game. I’ve written about how I thought that people had lost their way in music when they became infatuated about sleeping with women who have a man. Actions by women like this, get the same evil side eye from me.

What are your thoughts? Do you believe Kola? How do you feel about women who break up happy homes? Is your home happy if it’s able to be broken?

– Dr. J


  1. I think that is really sad. I recently experienced the same thing and it really made me evaluate my self worth. If a man if that eager to take the bait then you didn't really need him in the first place. Anyhow…I know I'm better than that and I will continue to look until the right one comes along

  2. There was also this little gem on HuffPost earlier this week: Why I Dated A Married Man http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jennifer-garam/i-ha

    "When a man meets his boy's girlfriend and he walks away, he says to himself. 'I gotta get me a girl like that.' When a woman meets her girl's boyfriend and she walks away, she says to herself, 'I gotta get him. And I'll cut the neck of any [female dog] that gets in my way.'" – Chris Rock

  3. :-O
    I'm seriously inclined to think that woman is insane.
    :-O still

    Some of my theories on why folks meddle in other people's relationships:
    a) to prove they can (um, Genius, getting a man to SLEEP with you isn't the hard part…)
    b) to prove to themselves that men ain't ish, some people really hate to see a happy couple, shoot a happy person. These are the 'if I'm not happy, ain't NOBODY gon be happy' people.
    c) seeing a man in a relationship is attractive and a lot of women really, really have a 'love is more important than anything' mentality. i.e. the ends justify the means – "Who cares if I stole him, I loooooove him." When they say "I would do anything for love" they mean it. No Meatloaf.

    1. I’ve have been trying to pin point this very thing for about 6 years now. I think its a combination of AB and c. Putting C at the back end because most of these ladies confuse being fed good ” D” with C lol. What i dont understand is what clicks to moves a girl from the point to Point. A (Let me see if I still got it) to Point B (Yeah I got it I told her he wasnt no good..All men dogs neway). Or Even Where they’re still trying to be friendly with the girl you are literally stabbing in the back to the point where you pop off and get right ignorant and go on a twitter rant about how “she tasting my coo” and all. What occurs to make the transition take place? I cant for the life of me find someone who is honest enough to answer this question and believe me I have asked. Maybe this is the forum to ask that question. Till then Im all for the #CrazyDerranged Theory tho! Lol

  4. I don't know if T'Challa slept with that woman, and I don't care. I'm stuck on one thing…

    She used to sleep with Osama bin Laden? What. The. Fcuk!?!

    Okay, one other thing…

    "everytime she kiss him, she's kissing my p***y"

    I saw a dude taunt another guy with that. He actually said "Yeah motherf***er, how's my d**k taste? You kissed her, right?" If that guy had a gun, someone would have been shot.

  5. I think dating someone who is already in a committed relationship stems from low self-esteem. Anyone who knows their self worth will not settle for something so demeaning. Now if they did not know and feelings got involved then it makes things much harder and complicated for everyone involved.

  6. "What are your thoughts? "

    Some women want what they can't have, want what another woman has, or just doesn't want to see someone else happy.

    "Do you believe Kola?"

    I don't know, she could be telling the truth or she could be lying for publicity.

    "How do you feel about women who break up happy homes?"

    Some women just don't care, I have no feelings about them I just hope I never cross paths with a woman like that.

    "Is your home happy if it’s able to be broken?"

    Yes, unfortunately happy homes can be broken. Men don't always cheat because they're unhappy, they sometimes do it because they think they can get away with it, they don't care about how it affects their wife/gf, they're greedy, or just plain bored. All that can happen within a happy home.

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  8. I just always find it interesting that there are countless stories at any given time about women who break up happy homes. Honestly it's not as if she put a gun to his head. HE cheated on his wife, and if anyone should be badgered about it then it should be him.


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