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SBM Sports: What Derek Jeter Taught Me About Sports Guilt


I’m an unashamed Detroit sports fan. This weekend was a great one for people like me. The Michigan Wolverines destroyed Illinois, the Lions finally won, the Pistons have yet to be eliminated from the Playoffs, and the Tigers went up 2-0 over the Yankees. With all these highs, I was surprised to feel like I had gotten away with a watered down victory.

 If you didn’t catch it, Derek Jeter broke his ankle in the 12th inning of Game 1 of the ALCS against Detroit. The Tigers had just completed a comeback from a 4-0 deficit and taken a one-run lead. I should have been enjoying the win by sending Ric-Flair-like text messages to my friends (okay, I did get a few of these off). Instead, I felt conflicted. I was deliriously happy my team was one game closer to the World Series and upset that the series would be decided without a signature player. Besides the offensive slumps of virtually every Yankee player, the team’s captain and best player has a broken ankle. How can I fully enjoy that?

Jeter’s injury puts the Tigers in the unenviable position of the favorite that’s supposed to come out ahead. If the Tigers win, they beat a team where half the guys can’t hit and the best player got hurt. If they lose, then it’s a huge disappointment and the Yankees get to be the underdog that everyone is cheering for (excuse me while I throw up into this trash can…ok, I’m back). No matter what, this injury will affect how we talk about this series. Times like this remind me of other instances of “Sports Guilt,” where a major event changes the course of a team’s playoff series, season, and/or championship run. Here are some others:

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The Choke

Sports are hard, if they weren’t, we would all be pro athletes. Sometimes players miss the shot, strike out, or blow a tackle. Other times, players fail at the simplest parts of their sport. The things they have done a million times in practice and in big moments.

When your team wins because someone on another team chokes, do you celebrate the same way? Do you feel any empathy for the choking athlete?

Case in point: 1995 NBA Finals – Houston Rockets vs Orlando Magic 

Behind Shaquille O’Neal and Penny Hardaway, Nick Anderson was a great shooter who helped bring Orlando to the Finals. In Game 1 of those Finals, Nick Anderson missed four clinching free throws in the final 10.5 seconds. He became known as Nick “the Brick” Anderson while the Rockets went on to win the game in overtime, and their first of two consecutive championships. Can Rockets fans enjoy 100% of their team’s victory and feel bad for Nick the Brick?

The Fluke

If you’ve ever played pick up basketball, you’ve seen a mini-version of The Fluke. When the worst player on the floor hits the one-handed runner for a game winner? That’s a fluke.

On the professional level, these happen less often and their impact is a million times greater. When a big game turns on a fluky play, the rest of the game seems pointless. The best players in the world are deciding a playoff game, and some lucky play changes everything? Weak.

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Case in point: Super Bowl XLII – New York Giants vs New England Patriots

 The “Helmet Catch” as it is known might be the greatest fluke of all time. The Patriots came into this game 18-0 and on the verge of a perfect season. Eli Manning, a player who many thought would never lead a championship team, changed his legacy in one play. And David Tyree was an unknown player who never caught another pass in the NFL. All of these factors came together to produce one of the most memorable plays in NFL history. But should it cheapen the Giants’ victory?

The Santa Ref

These are the games that turn on a blown call by a referee that greatly benefits one team. We all hate refs, that’s a given. Usually, fans of both teams come away from a game saying the refs stink. To me, that means they did a good job: equally crappy on both sides. In rare cases, refs will decide a major game with a bad call (or calls) that leaves one team mad and the other shrugging their shoulders. Truthfully, it’s not the winning team’s fault that a ref handed them a game, but how should their fans react to the controversial victory?

Case in point: Super Bowl XL – Pittsburgh Steelers vs Seattle Seahawks 

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I know Seahawks fans that still don’t believe they lost this Super Bowl in 2006. This game is forever marked by two terrible calls in the fourth quarter that both went against Seattle. The referee of that game, Bill Leavy, admitted to affecting the game saying he will “go to the grave” with regrets about his performance. Ben Roethlisberger, the Steelers quarterback, has two Super Bowl rings, but one will forever be tarnished.

We all want our teams’ success to be defined by a triumphant performance. How do you feel when your team wins with Sports Guilt? Hit the comments and let me know!


  1. I understand the guilt over the injury, but are we supposed to feel guilty because another team can't hit?!?! Thats his job. How is this guilt-worthy? I don't remember Heat fans, feeling bad for OKC when they couldn't find the rim in the last 2 games of the Finals. They talked about their team's improved defense. They hit enough to make it to the ALCS. So chalk that up to Detroit's stellar starting pitching. They managed to hit everything Valverde threw. I get the Jeter thing its unfortunate but I doubt Detroit takes a mile out of the parade in his honor if they win the World Series.

  2. Jeter going down was a punch in the gut, not because I am a Yankees fan (I am a fan of Interesting teams, and the Yankees happen to be interesting), but because Jeter is iconic.

    Even though I want NYY in the WS, if I was a Tigers fan, I would not feel on iota of guilt, nobody directly caused Jeter's injury (like Matt Holiday's dirty play yesterday)

    Also, in Superbowl XLII Asante Samuel missed an interception that could have iced that game, it was 80% Giants being slightly more talented Vs. 20% fluky plays, and it is better to be lucky than good.

    I didn't know the Seahawks got jobbed by the refs, I wasn't into football that year. But it was nothing like the ending of the Seahawks vs. Packers game which they benefitted.

  3. If Kobe goes down this year with Jeter and Ray Lewis out the Boston fan in me couldn't curb my enthusiasm. Only time i could say sports guilt came in was the tuck rule game, but then the next year the patriots missed the playoffs, the raiders went to the superbowl (and got stomped) so i guess you can call it even.

    Oh and Superbowl XLII should've ended with a ruled sack. That is all.

    My recent post Today’s Word is… SUICIDE

    1. @Tristan

      If Kobe goes down this year

      Kendrick Perkins went down in Game 6 of the 2010 Finals. I feel you bro.

      Oh and Superbowl XLII should've ended with a ruled sack. That is all.

      What? *Lil' Jon Voice*. Put down the weed & The Chowda.

  4. Due to the Lions Superbowl Track Record #NonExistent and the fact the Tigers haven’t won a World Series since my birth year, I live by one rule….Whatever It Takes

  5. "…the Pistons have yet to be eliminated from the Playoffs"

    But my Bucks did blow them out in a meaningless preseason game on Saturday!

    Sorry, but when you're a Bucks fan, you have to take any victory you can get.

  6. The other day I said Jeter should come out to 50 Cent – Many Men. I would agree wholeheartedly if he really felt that song was made for him. And I do wish death upon Jeter on a regular basis from the comfort of my couch.

    I shall give no f*cks about Jeter's injury.


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