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How Black Sexuality is Viewed in America




This picture is worth way more than 1,000 words.

Last week, the above map was retweeted onto my TL.  It claims to show the most searched “sex terms” by region. Later in the week, Russell Simmons released a spoof of a sextape featuring Harriet Tubman.  Most people who’ve viewed the tape took umbrage with it.  Yet, the map and sextape showing up in the same week was coincidental.

The map was something that caught my attention, almost immediately, for two reasons.  First, of all the other colors to signify “ebony” searches, did black really have to be used?  Secondly, and more importantly, was the historical context of the states with the most “ebony” porn searches.

All the states are in the south and have a higher rate of black residents than the other regions of the country.  This would explain a portion of the findings.  However, many of the same states have an extremely dubious history, from slavery to Jim Crow.  Slavery was, and remains, a horrific chapter in this country’s history.  We’re still (arguably) dealing with the lasting mental and generational issues that stem from it.  One of the horrors was the rampant and systemic abuse heaped upon the slaves; this includes sexual abuse.

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Since slaves had no control of their bodies, their owners could do whatever they saw fit.  This led to a fetishized view of the black body, where the “Mandingo negro” and the “insatiable negress” archetypes find their root.  These archetypes carried over from slavery right on through the 21st century.  The stories of Rosewood and Emmitt Till explain why the Mandingo was, and still is, viewed with both fear and reverence.  The Sally Hemmings/Thomas Jefferson story is a twisted example of the insatiable negress.  Today, when Billy Jo and Beth Ann want to satiate their lust without having to actually touch a black body, what means is available to them?  Porn.

On a surface level, sextapes are just amateur porn.  But to fashion a sextape around Harriet Tubman and her slavemaster is in bad taste at best, and irreverent at worst.  If anything, we have created a caricature of the insatiable negress and her desire to be satiated, yet again.  Only a passing reference is made to “the special time” that Harriet and her master shared.  This time was when the master raped her.  And this was supposed to be funny?

It’s a shame that after all these years, this nation has an institutional aversion to the black body, and black sexuality.  It’s taboo.  No division is made between heterosexuality and homosexuality either.  America wants to control it and look at it, but not acknowledge it as part of *us*, the same way it doesn’t want to give credence to our humanity, 3/5th compromise be damned.

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We do this nation no favors by exploiting our own, both men and women.  Our community really should examine how the historical views of  black sexuality have impacted how we act toward one another and see our bodies.  At some point, the admittedly corny but true notion that “black is beautiful” should be something we take pride in; not just a slogan for a television network.

This video is @chescaleigh‘s views on the Harriet Tubman sextape.

How do you feel about black sexuality, and how it’s viewed in America?  How much of an impact do you think the past has on how society views it?  Will society’s views ever change?



  1. I am a huge fan of Franchesca. : )

    I think that the view of black sexuality in America has changed a little. I still think black men and women are viewed as hyper-sexual beings. I honestly think this belief system, created and exploited by the oppressive racial environment, still affects our belief system today. Black people were treated as objects at one time. We were treated as animals. We could be bred. Women could be snatched from their husbands and raped at the drop of a hat. Our sexuality was viewed as an animal's sexuality would be. I think all of this affected our thinking.

    Even now Black women are often made to feel dirty or nasty if they are sexual or if they have a positive, healthy view on sex. Black men are often relegated to the mandingo narrative or sometimes just the hulking sexual predator. Even now as a black woman, I know that there are many women out there that put all types of conditions on their sexual relationships with men. This is usually based on belief that society will view them a certain way. I don't want to be viewed as a "whore", so I won't do this, this and this. I don't think the men are innocent in all of this either. I have seen the hypocrisy. They don't want their girlfriends and wives to be "prudes" but if she seems "too comfortable" with her sexuality then something is wrong.

    This doesn't mean that all people fall into this group. Of course not. Just some observations I've made.

    I am not sure if society's views will change. I wish it would.

  2. well anything is an improvement from slave days, but the black man’s sexuality hasnt changed that much, we were deemed as good for nothing but a great lay, that stigma follows us, even our own has adopted that notion. The black woman is obviously no longer just an object but look at pop culture, the black bbw is depicted as desperate aggressors, beyonce is hailed as perfection yet is constantly depicted as white, and 2 weeks ago we saw a little white girl use faceless big booty sistas as props

    1. "and 2 weeks ago we saw a little white girl use faceless big booty sistas as props"

      ugh, wth was that? i was so disgusted & confused lol. but really, It's sad that there are black women out there who'd be willing to disrespect themselves on that level.

  3. I do believe that the deep-rooted, generational stigmas placed on our sexuality have affected BW more than men per se. I think it is a key factor in why a lot of BW are mostly conservative sexually when compared to women of other ethnicities.

    1. I would say while that is true, these stigmas and histories has also affected BM. I know BM love sex and the idea that all women desire them but I'm sure the stereotype of the baby making then dipping Mandingo has cause huge damage to the self-esteem, identity, and relationships of the BM.


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