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8 Qualities Every Woman Looks for in a Man

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It’s not rocket science in knowing if you are date material, you just have to know your strengths and weaknesses and what your potential boo may want in you. Because there are just certain qualities every woman looks for in a man and here are just a few of them.

She wants a go-getter

All women like a confident man who knows what he wants and how to get it. If you have a crush on a girl, go after her. Forget the games and just be upfront; tell her that you’re interested and would like the chance to get to know her better. She can only say yes or no — if she says yes, awesome, if she says no, you’ve lost nothing.



A man who calls

Most girls are totally fine with texting a bit to feel each other out, but there should be a limit. Women are not pen pals; we’d love a steady balance between texting and calling.

A man who makes plans

So you took a chance, got her number and gave her a call — now it’s time to ask her out. Many guys seem to have trouble making solid plans because they worry that the girl won’t be interested in the suggested date. Consciously learn about the girl and what she likes to do while you correspond with her via texts and phone calls, then plan accordingly. Planning a thoughtful date is essential in the courting process — work to do something she will love. It’s possible to plan amazingly creative dates for under $20 if you make the effort.

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A man who focuses on just one girl

Often, when a guy meets a girl he actually likes, instead of her being enough, he feels the need to keep a few other backup options around. But, these backup plans are likely not real options — if they were, they’d be more than just a backup plan by now.

While you’re not yet monogamously committed, courtship will proceed much more seamlessly if you invest your time in just one girl. When you date multiple women, you don’t give any of them a real chance.

A consistent man

Most guys I come across are on good behavior for a month or so, until they do or don’t get what they want — and then things fall apart. However, consistency will prove to her that she is who he wants. Stay consistent with communication, creative dates, surprises, compliments, honesty and effort, and she will be one happy girl.

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What are some qualities you look for in a man? What don’t you want in a man? Fellas, what do you look for in a woman? Is there anything men think women want that you all(women) don’t want?

Comment(24)

  1. I enjoyed this altough i can see this going right into the "good guy-bad guy" debate. I'll be watching lol but this is a good list.

  2. Article should be retitled to "Qualities that a woman looks for in a man once she's already determined that she is going to sleep with him based on status, money, looks, style, and confidence"

  3. "good-guy, bad-guy" debate.
    I can see that happening aswell.

    A man who focuses on just one girl:

    Man Tip #2
    If a woman ask you to put all of your eggs in one basket (read: her only) PRIOR to her showing commitment to you, through words and actions – she doesn't have your best interest at-heart.

    Dating, prior to commitment, should be a practice reciprocity. Not one person doting upon the other in hopes of being taken seriously as a romantic choice.

  4. I look at this list and see basic stuff that me and most of my male friends and a lot of other men I know, do. Then I'm amazed at the number of women saying stuff like this is rare. Something aint adding up lol

  5. A woman will always look for a man who will only focus on one woman. No one wants to go out with a player. With that comes insecurities, trust issues and it never works out well. I also completely agree with your first point that women want a guy who is a go-getter. Someone who is confident and provides direction is always far more attractive e vs. someone who is not
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  6. I feel like men are more romantic than women. When we get married, we marry, like, one girl, ’cause we’re resistant the whole way until we meet one girl and we think, “I’d be an idiot if I didn’t marry this girl. She’s so great”. But it seems like girls get to a place where they just kinda pick the best option… ‘Oh he’s got a good job.’ I mean they spend their whole life looking for Prince Charming and then they marry the guy who’s got a good job and is gonna stick around.

  7. I feel like men are more romantic than women. When we get married, we marry, like, one girl, ’cause we’re resistant the whole way until we meet one girl and we think, “I’d be an idiot if I didn’t marry this girl. She’s so great”. But it seems like girls get to a place where they just kinda pick the best option… ‘Oh he’s got a good job.’ I mean they spend their whole life looking for Prince Charming and then they marry the guy who’s got a good job and is gonna stick around.

  8. I feel like men are more romantic than women. When we get married, we marry, like, one girl, ’cause we’re resistant the whole way until we meet one girl and we think, “I’d be an idiot if I didn’t marry this girl. She’s so great”. But it seems like girls get to a place where they just kinda pick the best option… ‘Oh he’s got a good job.’ I mean they spend their whole life looking for Prince Charming and then they marry the guy who’s got a good job and is gonna stick around.

  9. I feel like men are more romantic than women. When we get married, we marry, like, one girl, ’cause we’re resistant the whole way until we meet one girl and we think, “I’d be an idiot if I didn’t marry this girl. She’s so great”. But it seems like girls get to a place where they just kinda pick the best option… ‘Oh he’s got a good job.’ I mean they spend their whole life looking for Prince Charming and then they marry the guy who’s got a good job and is gonna stick around.

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