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Boy do I have a doozy for you all today! I trust everyone had a safe and turnt Labor Day weekend. I personally took an extra day off. Upon waking up on Tuesday I did what any millennial does, I checked my twitter timeline. What I expected to see would have been videos of excessive […]

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NetFlix And Chilling Tells A Small Story In The Book Of Dating

August 27, 2015 DamnPops

We are in 2015 and the world is as trendy as it has ever been. Everything seems to trend. The creation of memes and starter packs trend. The increase of people wearing joggers trend. The amount of grown men wearing wigs to impersonate women trends!! That’s who we are right now. Another trendy activity that […]

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My Curiosity With A Single Mother Who Is Dating

August 20, 2015 DamnPops

Yes yes! It’s really me and I’ve missed you way more than you have missed me. But if you’ve missed me more I won’t complain. There are some things on my mind lately. Single mothers who actively date is a subject I don’t see enough written on. I have a fascination with the topic because I […]

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I Have A Different Beef With Bill Cosby

July 16, 2015 DamnPops

You can feel free to call me a 90’s baby. I grew up in the 90’s. My early years consisted of Saturday afternoon wrestling on Fox 5 after “Life With Louie,” or Dionne Warwick’s Psychic Friends Network. I grew up knowing if I caught “Bobby’s World” after school it was a great day. Beeper gum? […]

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Will He Wait In 2015?

July 9, 2015 DamnPops

Yes would be the simple answer here. There’s more behind that yes, which is probably why you’re reading this currently. I figured that this was the perfect time to rehash one of those really good conversations on celibacy. You see, America’s Golden Boy Russel Wilson currently dates the “cute an ting” Ciara. In a recent […]

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Why Sloppy Public Drunkenness Isn’t The Business

July 1, 2015 DamnPops

It’s been a while since I’ve written. I briefly want to express my sympathies to the nine families who were affected by the church shooting in South Carolina. I share my thoughts on this in the next episode of the Negro Please Podcast. We still have a ways to go. To the gay and lesbian […]

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Why Being Fiscally Responsible Is Sexy

June 17, 2015 DamnPops

It’s amazing how many layers to dating there are. The more time flies by, the more different things begin to matter more to me. These things aren’t usually things that you can see. They’re really ideas, attitudes, and philosophies I look for a potential prospect to have. In conversing with different people, I try to […]

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Are Straight Men Confused By Transgender Women?

June 3, 2015 DamnPops

“Men are only upset at transgender women because they are confused as to if they should be attracted to them.” Talk about a mouth full right? It was only a week ago that I said the beauty of life is the ability to have great debates and discussions. In the interim, we now have a […]

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Is College As Necessary As It Once Was? (Podcast)

May 20, 2015 DamnPops

Negro Please is back for Episode 2! In this episode the guys continue their discussion from episode one. They cover their personal college experiences as well as discuss whether or not college is still a prudent decision heading into the real world. Was/Is it really worth it? Find out what these guys think. DamnPops is […]

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How Can Your New Lover Measure Up To Your Ex In Bed?

May 14, 2015 DamnPops

This past weekend I was able to watch Chris Rock’s “Kill The Messenger” stand up special again. If you’ve followed my writing you know that I gain a lot of inspiration from stand up acts. We laugh at most jokes because we relate. Kill The Messenger is one joint that grew on me over time. […]