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Dr. J

This guy has no idea what his position is at SBM.org. He's a well travelled blogger. You can find his work at SingleBlackMale, Necole Bitchie's BitchieLife.com, BuppietheBlog.com, The Book of Jackson, This Is The Dream. He has also published several guest posts at blog all around the blogosphere. He can't spell really good, and grammar isn't his strong suit, but he really appreciates you reading his posts for content, and content only. (I feel very Michael Vick'ish referring to myself in the 3rd Person.)

Seven (or Eight) Things We Need To Understand about Street Harassment

I didn’t want to respond or blog about that video until I came to the realization that I’ve actually experienced it. You know that video, the one with the woman who walked through NYC for ten hours and endured cat-calling or street harassment. I didn’t want to respond because like most times when things like […]

When Feminists Attack Male Bloggers

I love the Internet. It’s the only place where people create fictional images of themselves and then project that image until they either develop a following or earn notoriety. At times that notoriety is for being absolutely ridiculous. And while I’ve been no stranger to attacks on the Internet by people who have created an […]

Why Are More Women Choosing to Not Marry?

I came across an article yesterday and it gave me pause for thought. I thought i’d share some excerpts with you all today and see what your thoughts were. The gist of the article is that more and more women are choosing not to marry and happy being single for the rest of their life. […]

Are you standing in the way of being happy?

A close friend of mine who lives in Atlanta said to me during my last trip there that women sometimes don’t know how to be happy. I don’t think that statement only pertains to women because there are men in that conversation too. I asked myself that same question this week because I’m starting to […]

The Secret Lives of Men

This following was written by Kelly Marceau: I know a secret about men most of you don’t. Why do I know this little secret? Men talk to me. Most of my friends are males and they tell me everything. And, I mean EVERYTHING. A lot of men don’t know how to be honest about who they […]

MELD Dating App Review: A Changing of the Guard For Urban Professional Dating

For the last few years my area of dating and relationships that I have been most intrigued by is mobile dating applications. They just seem to fascinate me. Online dating is a fascination of mine too. One that I’ve spent extensive time researching but once there was the ability to do it on your phone; […]

Does Iggy Azalea Really Have The Body That ALL Men Love?

Check out this excerpt from an article I recently came across below: Thinking about how much attention my family member gained from the guys who’d enter her restaurant made me focus on what they found attractive about Iggy Azalea body shape. She regaled me with stories about how the men would start out acting like […]

There’s No Middle Ground In Relationships, Either Yes or No

Think about this for a moment: Why would you ever choose to be with someone who is not excited to be with you? There’s a grey area in dating many people get hung up on — a grey area where feelings are ambiguous or one person has stronger feelings than the other. This grey area […]

How To Be The Main Chick, Side Piece And Bottom B*tch And Eliminate The Competition

Let’s talk about the cyclical relationships that women have in a man’s life. The main chick is annoyed at the side piece for trying to steal her man. The side piece is mad at the main chick for actually thinking that she can fully satisfy her man. The main chick and the side piece are […]

Is Nick Cannon Right to Rant on Twitter about His Marriage?

Nick Cannon took to Twitter to address rumors about his marriage. He says he’s never made a statement to anyone or any news source about his marriage. Which is confusing because this Twitter rant is addressing the rumors about his marriage which makes that a little contradictory. Anyway, read the rant for yourself here: I […]

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