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Take Away: An Invaluable Lesson
There is no all-encompassing formula for relationships. The diversity of individuals in this world ensures no possible algorithm for success, so consider yourself fortunate if you get it right and find someone whose values and perspectives beat to the rhythm of your own life. Truthfully speaking – my first relationship failed miserably. But on the […]
So That’s Why I’m Still Single?!
“I can see why you’re still looking for a man,” he said. Let me set the scene of the crime, because you know the brother’s life was at stake as soon as the words left his mouth. It was a Sunday afternoon, right after church. The pastor had just preached on, “Supernatural Confidence.” At least […]
Stop Breastfeeding: How to be an Attractive Man
source: http://heritagehealthmagazine.com/ Fellas, it’s crucial that you understand these two things: Seeking the approval of women actually repels them How to stop breastfeeding There’s always going to be some woman, somewhere, who’s annoyed or upset with you. If you spend your life trying to please the women around you, (1) you’re going to miserable, and (2) […]
Here’s How Russel Wilson Keeps The Good Guy vs Bad Guy Conversation Going
“Will He Wait In 2015?” was a piece that I wrote back in July here on SBM. The piece used the new relationship between Russell Wilson and Ciara as proof that there are men that will abstain from sex with the right woman. I spent most of that post reassuring celibate or prospective celibate women […]
Is Celibate The New Single?
Have you ever had one of those intimate conversations that just could go on forever? You don’t even realize the hours that have flown by, but your cheeks hurt from smiling and you can’t stop blushing? You share parts of yourself in ways you hadn’t expected, or maybe even experienced. You feel truly known, and you truly know the person across from you: dreams, goals, loves, everything. You are known intimately - not known physically just yet – and even though you’re ready, you’re not in a rush. Imagine if this were the core of your relationship; this love you always express, and this lust you haven’t tapped into. Imagine being intimately and truly seduced, before having sex.
4 Ways To Ruin Your Perfect Match On A First Date
The famous phrase “You never get a second chance to make a first impression” resonates so accurately in the dating world. Searching for and ultimately finding your Perfect Match can prove difficult, so you don’t need to sabotage yourself either. No one is born a dating expert, but avoiding these 4 common dating faux pas […]
How to keep your sanity dealing with frustrating (but irresistible) men
Men can make us angry. From being inconsiderate to making us feel a bit unappreciated. He would be darn near perfect if he just did not get you into that state of frustration. And often. It seems like they don’t realize what they’re doing until you’re mad and then they’re looking at you like you […]
Single, Married, and Separated, Oh My!
“Are you going out there to dance?” he asked. It was a Friday night and I was in the mood to shake my groove thang! Yep, I might be a little old and corny, but hey, it’d been that kind of week. Not a bad week, just long and I needed to let loose and […]
The Valentine’s Day Chronicles: No Beginner’s Luck
We’ve all made it! We’re past Valentine’s Day and I sure hope it was an enjoyable one for you. Whether it was you staying home and watching a phenomenal dunk contest, or missing everything for the sake of dinner…I do hope it was well spent. All jokes aside though, my weekend left me in a […]