Men’s Relationship Advice

Last week I wrote a post entitled The Ridiculous Expectations Black Men Black Men Place On The Sexuality Of Black Women. In the post I discussed the various ways in which Black men shame the sexuality of Black women and how this trend seems to be spreading via social media. The post received a decent […]

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Why Nice Guys Finish Last And Always Will

June 28, 2013 Guest Post

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So let me say first, hoping that I’m speaking/writing within some invisible, online no-judgment zone, that I have dated every flavor of thug — the sensitive thug, the angry thug, the quiet storm (just like WBLS in every way) and after a period of being young and dumb, I decided to get it together and […]

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5 Things Men Should Eventually Accept about Women and Relationships

June 24, 2013 WisdomIsMisery

A few weeks ago I logged in to moderate comments when I came across one from a user named “Taylor” on a former post, Rise of the Lazy Man. We didn’t mean to censor Taylor’s comment but since he used more flagged words than a little bit, the system automatically held his comment for moderation. […]

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The Power of ‘We’ – A Fresh Perspective on an Old Tradition

April 8, 2013 Dr. J

Over the last few months, I’ve been searching for a way to explain why I feel my views on dating are a little different than what most “relationship experts” are preaching on the Internet. I think that’s it’s perfectly fine to have several list posts or “what you need to do” articles circulating the Internet, […]

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Cuffin’ Season Tips: 5 Ways To Know Your Situation Is Not Exclusive

September 28, 2012 Dr. J

Often times people find themselves in situations without having figured out all the details. It’s almost like when people accept a job just to have a job without asking all the questions that you need to know in order to determine if you’d actually like to be an employee of that company. Well, I […]

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11 Things I’ve Learned About Relationships, Dating, Love and All That Other Stuff

September 14, 2012 Dr. J

Each one of these could have been an individual post here on SBM, but it’s really not worth the series. This is a quick list of eleven things I’ve learned about relationships, dating, love and all that other stuff over the years. It never became clearer to me than in the last few weeks when […]

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Five Relationship Flaws Nobody Ever Talks About

August 17, 2012 Dr. J

Nobody’s relationship is perfect. If anything, it’s perfectly imperfect. It’s hard to have an easy relationship because there are so many factors at play and trying to get two people to come together in agreement is hard work. We all know couples who have their problems; they’re always arguing or they’re always breaking up and […]

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Men Are Not Perfect Vol 3: The One that Got Away

July 30, 2012 WisdomIsMisery

This week in the Men Are Not Perfect series, which you can follow here, I describe my role and failure in letting a woman I loved get away (For the fellas who never got over their first (or second and third), I also recommend this article: I Never Got Over My First). As is always the case, there […]

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Men Are Not Perfect Vol 2: Everything I Need to Know About Love

July 2, 2012 WisdomIsMisery

For the remainder of the Men Are Not Perfect series, which you can follow here, I plan to talk about my adventures in love from roughly ages 15 – 25. This is not to say I haven’t found serious relationships more recently but 1) The journey is more interesting than the destination and 2) […]

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Men Are Not Perfect Vol 1: Are Men Less Moral than Women?

June 25, 2012 WisdomIsMisery

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As some of you saw last week, I had an interesting discussion in the comment section of Dr. J’s post, Are Male Bloggers Helping or Hurting Women? While you can read that particular thread for yourself, the main take away for me was a challenge to better outline how men’s actions contribute to the failure […]

The Inconsistencies In How We Give Men and Women Advice

Why Nice Guys Finish Last And Always Will

5 Things Men Should Eventually Accept about Women and Relationships

The Power of ‘We’ – A Fresh Perspective on an Old Tradition

Cuffin’ Season Tips: 5 Ways To Know Your Situation Is Not Exclusive

11 Things I’ve Learned About Relationships, Dating, Love and All That Other Stuff

Five Relationship Flaws Nobody Ever Talks About

Men Are Not Perfect Vol 3: The One that Got Away

Men Are Not Perfect Vol 2: Everything I Need to Know About Love

Men Are Not Perfect Vol 1: Are Men Less Moral than Women?

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