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Writing My Wrongs (Part Two)
So, I’ve been in a relationship for over four years. And I’m a guy. Trust me, I know how to apologize. It’s an art form, really. And you could call me the modern-day James Porter of the sorry. Real men know what I speak. If you saw me, you’d give me the stranger’s “head nod” […]
Here’s How Russel Wilson Keeps The Good Guy vs Bad Guy Conversation Going
“Will He Wait In 2015?” was a piece that I wrote back in July here on SBM. The piece used the new relationship between Russell Wilson and Ciara as proof that there are men that will abstain from sex with the right woman. I spent most of that post reassuring celibate or prospective celibate women […]
Why Is Halle Berry Crazy, But Steve Harvey Is A Relationship Guru
A few months ago, famous actress, Halle Berry announced that she was ending her third marriage to Oliver Martinez. It didn’t take long for the bitter, misogynistic men brigade to chime in with how crazy Halle is, which is why she can’t keep a man. It didn’t take long for the women to offer some […]
Why Loving Yourself Is More Than Just A Cliche
There is no shortage of Instagram posts about relationships. They range from joking about exes to $200 dates etc. I want to talk about breakups today. I want to talk about breakups and why loving yourself is the biggest component in getting over things. I know someone who recently broke up with a woman after […]
Single Black Mail Episode 6 – “I Need A Girl”
The dating pool is drying up for one man, and he needs help finding the right women to date. Jeff tries to guide him on the latest Single Black Mail! If you want your questions answered, be sure to hit us on the following: Ask.FM | Twitter | Email Let us know if we can post your […]
Single Black Mail Episode 4: Minute-Man
When a girlfriend is fed up in the bedroom, and needs advice on how to break this news to her boo, Jeff J. is here to help on this episode of Single Black Mail!
What I’d Want The Mother Of My Child To Be Like
Recently I reposted a video on my Instagram page which was a scene from the movie Malcolm X. It was a scene where Malcolm was talking to Betty about the rebuilding of a nation. He stated that the foundation of a nation lies within a woman. “The mother is the first teacher of the child, […]
Single Black Mail Episode 3: Cheaters Remorse
Cheaters need to heal too, right? Jeff assists a young man get over his regrets in the latest Single Black Mail Episode 3: Cheaters Remorse: #SBMail
Single Black Mail Episode 2: Friends With Benefits
Jeff J. tackles friends with benefits in Single Black Male Episode 2: Friends With Benefits #SBMail