Relationships Archives

Writing My Wrongs (Part Two)

April 18, 2016 SBM Staff

So, I’ve been in a relationship for over four years. And I’m a guy. Trust me, I know how to apologize. It’s an art form, really. And you could call me the modern-day James Porter of the sorry. Real men know what I speak. If you saw me, you’d give me the stranger’s “head nod” […]

Culture

Here’s How Russel Wilson Keeps The Good Guy vs Bad Guy Conversation Going

March 17, 2016 DamnPops

“Will He Wait In 2015?” was a piece that I wrote back in July here on SBM. The piece used the new relationship between Russell Wilson and Ciara as proof that there are men that will abstain from sex with the right woman. I spent most of that post reassuring celibate or prospective celibate women […]

Featured

Why Is Halle Berry Crazy, But Steve Harvey Is A Relationship Guru

February 5, 2016 SBM Staff

A few months ago, famous actress, Halle Berry announced that she was ending her third marriage to Oliver Martinez. It didn’t take long for the bitter, misogynistic men brigade to chime in with how crazy Halle is, which is why she can’t keep a man. It didn’t take long for the women to offer some […]

Advice

Why Loving Yourself Is More Than Just A Cliche

January 12, 2016 DamnPops

There is no shortage of Instagram posts about relationships. They range from joking about exes to $200 dates etc. I want to talk about breakups today. I want to talk about breakups and why loving yourself is the biggest component in getting over things. I know someone who recently broke up with a woman after […]

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Single Black Mail Episode 6 – “I Need A Girl”

November 9, 2015 Jeff J.

The dating pool is drying up for one man, and he needs help finding the right women to date. Jeff tries to guide him on the latest Single Black Mail! If you want your questions answered, be sure to hit us on the following: Ask.FM | Twitter | Email Let us know if we can post your […]

Advice

Single Black Mail Episode 4: Minute-Man

October 26, 2015 Jeff J.

When a girlfriend is fed up in the bedroom, and needs advice on how to break this news to her boo, Jeff J. is here to help on this episode of Single Black Mail!

Culture

What I’d Want The Mother Of My Child To Be Like

October 21, 2015 DamnPops

Recently I reposted a video on my Instagram page which was a scene from the movie Malcolm X. It was a scene where Malcolm was talking to Betty about the rebuilding of a nation. He stated that the foundation of a nation lies within a woman. “The mother is the first teacher of the child, […]