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Trojan released its College Sexual Health Report Card in which they rank 140 colleges and university across the United States on their peen and vag politics specifically how infectious their campuses are. First and foremost, shout out to Syracuse University for ranking #13 on that list; while the student body manages to pain their bodies […]

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The House, The Boat, The Car: What Would You Be Willing to Have Sex For?

October 28, 2013 Ahyiana Angel

Most of us say that we wouldn’t have sex in exchange for money or material things. Your first thought may be: I’m not that type of woman/man, that’s reserved for a hoe, a prostitute, or a gigolo. Many of us look upon the lifestyle of money in exchange for sexual favors with a judgmental eye. […]

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SURVEY: Women’s Top 5 Favorite Sex Positions

October 15, 2013 SBM Staff

Sorry misogynist, “the kitchen” is not on the list. You want to please your partner. I want to help you. (Well, not literally, but you get where this is going.) That’s why we surveyed over 1,100 women on which sex positions they wish you’d try more often. (Spoiler: Missionary came in dead last.) As it turns out, […]

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Why Your Man Won’t Go Down: Could You Live Without It?

October 10, 2013 DamnPops

A couple of week’s ago I read an article called “5 Reasons Why He Won’t Give You Oral Sex.” It was written by Ty Knighten (@Uheardmeright) who runs “The Sexy Single Mommy.” The article profiles some reasons why a guy may not go down on you. A couple of the reasons included foul odor and […]

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4 Reasons Why Some Women Have Sex

September 30, 2013 WisdomIsMisery

A lot of women who are married or are in monogamous relationships will often say that their man wants to have $ex more frequently that they feel like it. The result is that a lot of women end up having $ex even when they don’t want to. Below are some reasons that women end up […]

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How Black Sexuality is Viewed in America

September 10, 2013 DarrkGable

This picture is worth way more than 1,000 words. Last week, the above map was retweeted onto my TL. It claims to show the most searched “sex terms” by region. Later in the week, Russell Simmons released a spoof of a sextape featuring Harriet Tubman. Most people who’ve viewed the tape took umbrage with […]

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Americans In Bed: A Lesson In Love On HBO

August 15, 2013 DamnPops

HBO has outdone themselves with the summer series Documentary called “Americans In Bed.” Americans In Bed chronicles ten couples and their stories of love and how they arrived at that place. The beauty of this documentary is not so much in the content covered, but in the variety of the couples. Just to name a […]

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I Thought I Only Wanted a Physical Relationship

August 12, 2013 WisdomIsMisery

A SBM reader asks for advice on the following situation (submit your own questions here): I’d gotten involved with a guy back in December of 2011 when I had just gotten out of a relationship. I had decided that he and I would share a “physical” relationship, but, I never made that clear. I guess […]

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Bad Sex: Should Bad Sex End a Good Relationship?

July 1, 2013 WisdomIsMisery

A few weeks ago I came across an interesting piece on The Atlantic written by a married guy proudly claiming that his marriage was good, but his sex life was…boring. Judging by social media – where only the most accurate of information is available – when it comes to top 3 relationship fears, most men and […]

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Why Teaching Men Not To Rape Isn’t Going To Cut It Either

March 29, 2013 Dr. J

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As children, we were taught about not talking to strangers and inappropriate touching from adults; not about rape and sexual assault. Despite that, I can’t ever remember growing up in an environment that encouraged or condoned rape. Not once, not never, not even for a few moments do I remember being in an environment that […]