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Absence Makes Suspicion Grow Stronger

October 30, 2013 Jeff J.

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A reader writes: I was hoping you could offer some words of wisdom. 8 years ago I met this guy named John through mutual friends. We reconnect in January and hit it off. We go on a couple dates the connection is just amazing. Too bad he’s only here for a week as he would […]

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Excuse Me Miss: Why Men Cat-Call Women Aggressively In Big Cities

October 16, 2013 Jeff J.

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I need some advice.  I grew up in Oakland, California, which is technically a city but in most parts doesn’t feel like one. It’s just the hood. I recently moved to Philly for college, and while I love it here, I can’t deal with some of the men I encounter. Take note of the “some” […]

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How Do You Avoid Being ‘Friends With Benefits’

August 28, 2013 Dr. J

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From the SBM mailbox: I met someone last September at a wedding. We live on opposite sides of the country and are both relatively busy. I’m currently a full-time student and he’s a young entrepreneur. After we met we kept in touch and via phone and video chat. We never discussed relationships but twice he […]

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I Thought I Only Wanted a Physical Relationship

August 12, 2013 WisdomIsMisery

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A SBM reader asks for advice on the following situation (submit your own questions here): I’d gotten involved with a guy back in December of 2011 when I had just gotten out of a relationship. I had decided that he and I would share a “physical” relationship, but, I never made that clear. I guess […]

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The Re-Appearing Ex

July 25, 2013 SBM

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Another reader looking for information and enlightenment. While I can get it started, we all know the truth will come out in the comments. Make sure to pitch in. Don’t forget to email your questions to sbm@singleblackmale.org and check out our responses to all of our reader questions by clicking here. Hello Single Black Male, I […]

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She Wants A Strong Black Man! Is That Weird?

July 2, 2013 SBM

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Keep the letters coming. Well written, relationship & dating focused, and in need of advice. Why wait? Send your question to sbm@singbleblackmale.org. We’ll say something, but the SBM family will say more. Hey Single Black Male, How are you? I’m a 25 year old woman, who has a great job as an engineer. I take […]

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Why can’t HE just be my Friend With Benefits?

May 23, 2013 SBM

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Don’t forget that you too can have your question answered by one of the SBM staff, in addition to several thousand readers by sending a short, well written and explanative question to sbm@singleblackmale.org Hey Single Black Male, I am going to get straight to the point. I have known this guy since 2011 and we’ve […]

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Why do men just disappear?

May 9, 2013 SBM

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When you have spent years talking, thinking, and doing relationships … you get asked a lot of questions. A LOT!  Very soon you realize something … most people have the same problems.  Today, we re-visit one of the classics … Dear SBM, I recently discovered your website and became an instant fan, I am so […]

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My Boyfriend Hates My Best Friend … Why?

April 5, 2013 SBM

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Today, yet another edition of Single Black Mail.  Looking for advice, write in. Sure, we might have something cute to say … but the gold is in the comments. Hi my name is Jamie and I am in a very difficult situation. My boyfriend is incredibly jealous of my male bff. I’ve told him over […]

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How Can Women Escape the Friend Zone?

April 4, 2013 WisdomIsMisery

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A SBM reader asks the following (submit your own questions here): I’ve been friends with this man for 1 year and we have a friends with benefits relationship. We only saw each other like once a month in the beginning, but lately in the past 3 months we’ve been seeing each other every week and […]

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