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**** Admin Note **** A few weeks ago we brought you an unknown poster. He’s got a name now and I’m happy to bring back “Cashmere Jones” for his next contribution to the the entity that is SingleBlackMale.org. Enjoy … -SBM ******************* I’m assuming that most folks who follow this blog, live here within the […]

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SBM Answers: Should I buy the plane ticket?

March 12, 2010 SBM

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*** Admin Note *** “The Man” is trying to keep us out the workplace … again. So, for now, there are no bad words in the comments sectiong. That is s*x, f*, sh*, pus***, di**, pen***. I’m trying to figure out a way to stop with the censoring and keep unblock us in the workplace […]

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SBM Answers: Am I being shallow?

February 26, 2010 SBM

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It’s been awhile since I’ve gotten an email that I felt needed a public response, but that time has finally come again. For those of you unfamiliar with the process, sometimes when I get an personal question I feel the need to share this person’s inquiry with the world as it may help someone else. […]

SBM Answers: Should I tell him I’m celibate?

November 9, 2009 SBM

****** Admin Note ****** I don’t know if everyone else has noticed the “falling back” of SBM on the site, twitter, and email. I haven’t been commenting as much and have been off the scene a lot. Well, the true reason for it is … I’m moving to Atlanta. By December I should be a […]

Reader Appreciation Week: A Deal Gone Wrong

August 21, 2009 RightCoastLexSteele

****** Admin Note ****** I hope everyone love and appreciated our Reader Appreciation Week. We get so many letters, it was time that we took the time to let ya’ll know we appreciate each and every one of ya’ll (yeah … you too!). On a side note … We are probably not going to be […]

RAW: Sleeping With Who You Sleep With?

August 20, 2009 Dr. J

It’s my go. Tag me in like Shawn Michaels the Heartbreak Kid, i’m ready to get in on the action. We got this email, and i’ve got some advice for this young lady. (I hope she’s young.) To the readers, below is the lady’s email. And below you will find my response. Enjoy. I know […]

Reader Appreciation Week: How to get out of the friend zone?

August 17, 2009 SBM

Because we love all of our readers so much, all this week, we here at SingleBlackMale.net will be responding to emails that have come in from readers. Everyday you will see a different person respond to a different reader and drop a new nugget of insight as it regards someone’s situation. Who loves ya? Onto […]

SBM Answers: Freaky Deaky Pictures

July 13, 2009 SBM

****** Admin Note ******* VOTE Gotdamnit! Sorry … I just grew up in a pseudo-good neighborhood so the thought of actually winning something and achieving something with my life gets me all riled up. Please please PLEASE … help a brother out and vote SingleBlackMale.net “Best S*x and Relationship Blog” (http://vote.blackweblogawards.com/vote/Je3H79EpHyJTmauz) -SBM ************************ Got another […]

SBM Answers: When we need to be even more clear!

March 18, 2009 SBM

My post Monday (Can I be any clearer?) brought a quick response from a fellow male who is having a recurring issue of being clear just not working (some people are just don’t want to listen). While my wisdom is deeper than the pacific, I know the collective thought of my great readers is so […]

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SBM Answers: Creepin …

December 8, 2008 SBM

This letter comes in from someone who just recently discovered us here … but she has come for the infallible wisdom of myself (and the family) and here is her story … read and enjoy … the first time I read it my mouth was open for about the whole second half of it. It […]