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Another Chris Brown and Karrueche Split, Airing Exes Out On Social Media

December 8, 2014 TheSUNK

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I wonder how many times Karrueche’s name was misspelled over the weekend, I searched for the correct spelling and I still feel as though I’m spelling it wrong. Anywho, Chris Brown and Karrueche split for the 1000th time. It seems like this might finally be the end of this messy relationship, whether they stay together or not is […]

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Can You Let A Man Down Easy?

October 9, 2014 DamnPops

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We’ve all been there. We have all had to tell someone that we weren’t interested. Whether it be we weren’t interested in being in a relationship or being more than platonic friends. It’s a compromising position. To the majority of us who don’t want to intentionally hurt someone, we spend time trying to find the […]

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5 Signs They Haven’t Really Broken Up

July 11, 2014 Dr. J

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It’s really confusing when you’re trying to establish something with someone who hasn’t quite moved on past their last relationship. At times, they haven’t even broken up with the person they’re dating. They just begin another situation with you hoping for some type of lateral move in the future. This is confusing and whether this […]

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Would You Let Your Significant Other Cheat?

May 21, 2014 DamnPops

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Normally I wouldn’t ask a question like this. I’m more conditioned to think that a woman would never just give such permission. I should say maybe I don’t think she would give this permission while still feeling okay with it on the inside. A couple of weeks ago Teyana Taylor challenged my thought. In the […]

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Why Being A “Messy” Man Is A Bad Look

May 14, 2014 DamnPops

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“You need to keep your hoe on a leash!“ Those were the words of Steve Carell in The 40 Year Old Virgin. The actual scene is in the above photo. Harsh words from a pretty mild-mannered dude right? Well, on one end he was simply covering up for his cheating friend. On the other end, […]

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10 Silly But Relevant Deal Breakers for Relationships

January 10, 2014 Dr. J

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I’ve been compiling this list of reasons to breakup with a person that while they may seem absolutely silly is actually telling of deeper and relevant information for a relationship. You may be thinking well if it’s silly how could it be any deeper than you found a reason early on to flee the scene […]

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Can You Sleep With Someone Else While On A Break?

October 3, 2013 DamnPops

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(Photo Courtesy: mimisays.com) Not too long ago I’m on the bus with one of my friends. We caught up on a bunch of things: we spoke about work, Grand Theft Auto (goes without saying) and women. This somehow leads us to what I consider a great debate. I love to have my thoughts challenged, so […]

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The Main Reason Why We Don’t Meet Who We Want Faster

September 19, 2013 DamnPops

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“I hope that you’re the one, if not you are the prototype.” – Andre 3000 A few days ago, I was talking to a guy who was explaining to me this dilemma he’s having. He said that there’s a woman he sees from time to time who isn’t his girlfriend. He hasn’t been in a […]

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Someone Is Going to Love This Blogger: What’s It Like To Date a Blogger?

August 16, 2013 Patia Braithwaite

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I told him. I told my oldest male friend about my break up with The Besticle. I told him about how we broke up, how I blogged about it, and how that mother fu my ex called me up to complain about my blogging. Then I cringed. And waited. On some level I knew my […]

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Break Ups and The Fear of Not-Enough-Ness

July 3, 2013 Patia Braithwaite

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One of my biggest fears in life is that people are better off without me. I worry that the room becomes more awesome when I leave it; the air becomes lighter when I’m not breathing it; Things magically become better because I’m not there. When I was little, I was always sent to bed before […]

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