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Infidelity Rates May be as High as 70 percent

September 30, 2013 WisdomIsMisery

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Anyone who has been unfaithful and then gone to couples therapy to “work on the marriage” — assuming he or she hasn’t already been given the boot — knows that the therapist probably isn’t going to take his or her side. You cheated, you’re bad, end of discussion. Yet it’s clear that with infidelity rates […]

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How Friendships with Married Men Become Affairs

September 12, 2013 SBM Staff

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Most women agree that they would never have an affair with a married man and even vehemently oppose any accusation that they would. But if that’s the case, “Why are there married men still out here having affairs? and “Who are they having them with?” Someone must not be telling the truth. From the beginning, […]

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Love Isn’t Enough to Keep Some Men Faithful

September 11, 2013 WisdomIsMisery

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Q: Is it possible to love your spouse and family, but still constantly need an outside sexual outlet? A question as old as time, do unfaithful men really love their spouses and family? As usual, it depends, but in most cases, I would say yes. Some would argue that if a man truly loves his wife, […]

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The 10 Signs She’s The Perfect Side-Piece

August 7, 2013 SBM Staff

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Every now and again you get bored with the love of your life and need to dabble outside the lines a bit with something fresh – a sidepiece. However, you just can’t pick any woman and think that she’s the perfect side-piece. Your side-piece has to compliment you, your relationship, and your lifestyle or else […]

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How Not to Cheat: A 5 Step Tutorial

July 29, 2013 WisdomIsMisery

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To begin, let me point out that the vast majority of people will never cheat. To the degree there is a consensus on the subject, a number of studies have conservatively estimated that at least 80% of married people have never been unfaithful. There’s only one problem with that statistic – it doesn’t account for […]

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5 Things To Say If You Get Caught Cheating

July 3, 2013 SBM Staff

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  Let’s face it, getting caught with ya pants down is basically like stepping in the dog’s business; it stinks, it’s gonna be messy, and there’s really no clean way out of it. But onto every sidewalk, some sh*t happens. To all those caught in the crap, you probably won’t be able to save the […]

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An Anecdote Of A Sloppy Cheater

June 27, 2013 DarrkGable

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**the following is a cautionary tale** The other day, I was talking to a guy who said he’s been “off his game” lately.  I wasn’t quite sure what he was talking about at first, but the more he talked, I started to understand where his story was going.  One of the first rules of working […]

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15 Tips on Cheating and Managing Your Mistresses

April 3, 2013 WisdomIsMisery

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Recently, someone asked me if “men enjoy being the sideman?” For those of you who are unfamiliar, the “sideman” refers to a man who plays the side-role to a woman he knows is in a committed relationship. His equal of the opposite sex is usually referred to as the “sidechick.” My answer: yes and no. […]

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Men Don’t Have The Monopoly on Effing Up

March 29, 2013 Patia Braithwaite

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Earlier in the year, I almost ruined my relationship. I screwed up. Badly. I violated my boyfriend’s trust and when he found out (I told him), he was angry. No, I didn’t cheat, but what I did was really hurtful. There are more ways to betray your lover than to sleep with someone else. There […]

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Women Don’t Have a Monopoly on Heartbreak

March 25, 2013 WisdomIsMisery

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Not a week goes by where I don’t read about a woman, usually multiple women, talking about heartbreak in the blogosphere – not that there’s anything wrong with that. As a writer/blogger, I am familiar with the cathartic process of sharing your inner most thoughts with complete strangers who even if they judge you have […]

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