Advice

Starting Over Is A Drag, Can You Avoid That Feeling?

January 5, 2016 DamnPops

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We have all been single at one point or another. In the wake of a breakup there’s an interim. In that time you hopefully take some time to heal if you need to. Hopefully you grow a bit in areas where it was necessary. But once all of that low key maintenance takes place, you’re […]

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Dating

Do Men Need To Show More Affection?

February 25, 2015 DamnPops

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Men and affection will always be a topic of conversation. The relationship between how we show affection and our age group plus societal influences will always have it’s relevance. Recently I read a tweet from a young lady I follow on Twitter. I consider her to be a pretty sharp girl and I value her […]

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Culture

No Valentine? NO PROBLEM!

February 11, 2015 DamnPops

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It’s that time of year again. Tweets of bitterness of conversations of $200.00 dates can only mean one thing! It is Valentine’s Day season. Three days from you reading this I am anticipating that you’ll be occupied exactly how you wish to be. Valentine’s Day is arguably one of the most polarizing holidays that we […]

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Dating

The Valentine’s Day Chronicles: A Good Day To Be Black And Sexy

February 13, 2014 DamnPops

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  Today is all about part three. Valentine’s Day is tomorrow. If you celebrate it I hope your plans are coming together smoothly. If you are new to this series please read part one and part two respectively. When we last spoke yours truly was in bliss I just had a Valentine’s Day that I […]

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Featured

Should Women Help Pay for Dates?

July 16, 2012 WisdomIsMisery

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Editor’s Note: A few members of the SBM team have begun contributing their thoughts on dating and relationships to the popular website, Madame Noire. This week I was asked to provide the male perspective on if or when women should offer to pay for dates in response to the following article from Marissa Ellis’ Dating Dynamics: When […]

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