The Butterfly Fallacy: How stomach butterflies will get you caught up
We all know the feeling – the feeling defined as the Butterfly Fallacy! At the start, you...
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Tag: Dating
Here’s How Russel Wilson Keeps The Good Guy vs Bad Guy Conversation Going
“Will He Wait In 2015?” was a piece that I wrote back in July here on SBM. The piece...
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Is Celibate The New Single?
Have you ever had one of those intimate conversations that just could go on forever? You don’t even realize the hours that have flown by, but your cheeks hurt from smiling and you can’t stop blushing? You share parts of yourself in ways you hadn’t expected, or maybe even experienced. You feel truly known, and you truly know the person across from you: dreams, goals, loves, everything. You are known intimately – not known physically just yet – and even though you’re ready, you’re not in a rush. Imagine if this were the core of your relationship; this love you always express, and this lust you haven’t tapped into. Imagine being intimately and truly seduced, before having sex.
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How to keep your sanity dealing with frustrating (but irresistible) men
Men can make us angry. From being inconsiderate to making us feel a bit unappreciated. He would be...
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The Valentine’s Day Chronicles: No Beginner’s Luck
We’ve all made it! We’re past Valentine’s Day and I sure hope it was an...
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Black and Introverted: 5 Tips To Attract Women – Quietly
Let’s face it. We’re a minority. No, I’m not just talking about being black. I’m talking about...
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Why Loving Yourself Is More Than Just A Cliche
There is no shortage of Instagram posts about relationships. They range from joking about exes to...
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Starting Over Is A Drag, Can You Avoid That Feeling?
We have all been single at one point or another. In the wake of a breakup there’s an...
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Single Black Mail Episode 9: “The Claim Game”
Friends don’t let friends put claims on people they didn’t even date! Jeff drops the...
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How Do Men Avoid The “What Are We?” Question?
The last time I wrote here I gave my thoughts on a video that was produced by Buzzfeed. The video...
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Single Black Mail Episode 7: “First Date Etiquette”
Jeff gives some general dos and don’ts to make that first date go smoothly! If you want your...
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Single Black Mail Episode 5: “Hotline Bling”
How do you handle an ex who calls and texts you nonstop, even though they’re have a new boo? Jeff drops some knowledge in Single Black Mail Episode 5: “Hotline Bling”
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