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Why You Never Really Moved On From Your Ex

December 19, 2014 Dr. J

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The other day I had a conversation with a close friend and the topic of conversation came up of whether you ever move on from your ex. Not the ex that was a dirtbag but the exes that you have that you really cared about. I told her in summary that you really don’t move […]

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Let Me Clear This Up: Five Myths About Introverts

April 18, 2012 Slim Jackson

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I was owt last week at an Omega event in NYC to fulfill my brotherly obligation after a long ass day in the office. If you know anything about me, I’m much more likely to go home after a long day than to a party where I have to channel my inner chatsworth. That’s part […]

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Don’t Call Me Sexy! A Discussion On How Men Should Express Affection To Women

April 4, 2012 Jeff J.

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While hanging out with a bunch of friends the other day, we got into a conversation about women (as usual). One of the things that came up was the difference tween “pretty” and “sexy” (pretty vs. sexy). As men, debates like this are easily ended with the most important question of all: “… but would […]

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3 Things About Groupies, Fans, and the Thirsty

March 14, 2011 Slim Jackson

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  I was reading the post that my e-cousin, Panama Jackson, wrote for VSB last week on the similarities between the rap and blog hustles. If you haven’t read the post, you should take a look. A reader suggested in the comments that one of the perks of being a male blogger is one that’s […]

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Oh you FANCY huh?!

July 14, 2010 Jeff J.

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***Admin Note: New to our speadshirt site is the offical “Fancy” women tees! If you want to let the world know how fancy you are, or question the next heaux’s fancy style, this shirt is for you! www.singleblackmale.spreadshirt.com – Tell a friend to tell a friend!! – Streetz *** If you’ve heard both The-Dream and […]

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The Chris Brown(@Chrisbrown) theory on forgiveness

June 30, 2010 Jeff J.

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So many of us watched the BET Awards. I have to first tip my cap and say it’s probably the best one since the last one with  MJ and James Brown. Speaking of Brown, it was definitely the comeback show, as Chris Brown performed and the THE MJ tribute we all wanted to see. The […]

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Friend: A 4 letter word

June 23, 2010 Jeff J.

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Definitions of friend on the Web: a person you know well and regard with affection and trust; ally: an associate who provides assistance; acquaintance: a person with whom you are acquainted The word friend is a term that many of us use very loosely. It seems nowadays that ANYONE can attain that label with a simple “hello”. It […]

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The Independent Woman

July 10, 2009 RightCoastLexSteele

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***** Admin Note ***** Remember … we’re trying to get this award … so take 30 seconds and bless us with a vote … pretty please. And don’t forget to also vote on the new poll.  This is America … exercise your rights! – SBM *********************** Whether it was by circumstance or by choice, we’ve […]

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Propensity to Holla

April 8, 2009 SBM

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**** Admin Note **** I am pleased to say the response to my call for writers was greater than expected.  So, starting tomorrow, and lasting probably 2 weeks, I will be having about 3 guest posts a week.  I want criticism, comments, and feedback from all to see who people like.  Email me, comment, be […]

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Freaks, Hoes, and Freaky Hoes …

January 7, 2009 SBM

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Something I have noticed for years and it has annoyed me for all of those years.  Two terms that are often used interchangeably … when they really speak to two different aspects of sexuality. I am here to discuss the difference between (sexual) freaks … and hoes. *Flashback* SBM: Man … did you ever mess […]

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