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Jeff gives some general dos and don’ts to make that first date go smoothly! If you want your questions answered, be sure to hit us on the following: Ask.FM | Twitter | Email Let us know if we can post your email with “OK to Print” in your questions. Be sure to use the hashtag #SBMail when […]

Dating

A Guide To First Date Conversations For Men

December 18, 2014 DamnPops

This past weekend I had a date night and went to go see “Top Five.” I t was a good time, and the movie fascinated me for a few reasons. None of those reasons really correlate with this post. So maybe another time we’ll get into that. More importantly I’m here to tell a short […]

Dating

How to Take a Woman Out on a Proper Date

November 18, 2013 SBM Staff

A woman tells men how to take a woman out on a proper date, since it seems alot of fellas have lost their way with the romanticism, you need a fresh reminder every once and awhile. It starts by actually asking me out. Please call me up on the phone, or if we are talking […]

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Biggest First Date Turn Offs

October 9, 2012 WisdomIsMisery

This week I was asked to provide my biggest first date turnoffs for BadOnLineDates.com‘s The Male POV. An excerpt from the post: Let’s face it, the first date is the most complicated of all the dates. Even the date before deciding when you’re going to have relations is less complicated than the first date! The first date […]

Around the Web

When Keeping It Real Goes Right: An Honest First Date

June 20, 2012 WisdomIsMisery

Have you ever gone out on a date, and wished you could cut through all the red tape and swindles and get to the heart of the matter. You want to ask the pertinent questions to know whether this outing will be worth your time or another loss registered in your dating career. Well this […]

Submission

SBM Answers: Should I buy the plane ticket?

March 12, 2010 SBM

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*** Admin Note *** “The Man” is trying to keep us out the workplace … again. So, for now, there are no bad words in the comments sectiong. That is s*x, f*, sh*, pus***, di**, pen***. I’m trying to figure out a way to stop with the censoring and keep unblock us in the workplace […]

Laws of Attraction

Gimme one more chance … baby baby gimme one more chance

April 20, 2009 SBM

SBM: “How was your date last night?” Lisa: “A complete waste of time! I don’t know where I keep meeting these whack guys at!” SBM: “What happened? Ya’ll have been talking for like 2 weeks, you said he planned a real nice evening with you, and you two had so much in common. Was he […]

The “Performance”

December 22, 2008 SBM

The First Date Have you really taken a second to think about all that goes into a first date, the things that can come out of this date, or how your life may forever be ruined over 1-3 hours of your time? You haven’t … go ahead … I’ll wait. Done … aight. Its like […]

Preliminary Rounds

September 10, 2008 SBM

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*******ADMIN NOTE********* I want to personally thank everyone for helping me to hit 400 comments yesterday. It’s all surreal sometimes! Also … I’m on MySpace (http://www.myspace.com/singleblackmale). Please be my friend …. plllleeeeeaaaaasssseeeee!!! *********************************** It’s a battlefield out here when it comes to dating! You have women looking to just use your money and time. Then […]

Rantings of an SBM

February 18, 2008 SBM

I think a lot … but not every thought is worthy of an entire post. Here I will attempt to take some of the more interesting things floating in my head and share them with you. – Something about the club is becoming less and less attractive. When I go, I can have fun, but […]