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Why It’s Easier To Support Someone Coming Out of the Closet When You’re Not Close To Them

April 29, 2013 Dr. J

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Yesterday, Jason Collins decided to come forward with an announcement that he was gay. I was real happy for him and I made sure to let him finish but when you hear an announcement like that, you always have to stop and think for a second. I reviewed my timeline on Twitter and my newsfeed […]

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Culture

Are Women No Longer Afraid Of Men “On The Low?”

July 27, 2012 Dr. J

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I have a coworker who came into my cubicle area one day and did what bothers me the most. She asked an obvious question as if she needed someone else to confirm something bright as day. It went like this: Betsy: Jay, can you do me a favor real quick? Jay: Why are you crying? […]

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Your Man is Gay, Now What?

May 3, 2011 Dr. J

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  I learned a long time ago that if a woman starts her sentence starts with, “I know you not gon’…”, run like hell. Gloria: Yeah, uh, I thought that maybe we, you know, like last time.  David: I should be honest with you.  Gloria: About what?  David: About me.  Gloria: What about you, hmm?  […]

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Women

“Girl … He’s Gay”: Female Homophobia

May 8, 2008 SBM

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“He’s got on a pink shirt … He’s Gay” “He wouldn’t buy me a drink at the bar … He’s Gay” “He said he rather see ‘the guys’ than me … He’s Gay” “He said the word ‘toiletries’ … He’s Gay” “He didn’t want none of this p*ssy … He’s Gay” I know the whole […]

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