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“Just because someone desires you does not mean they value you.” – @SlimDarskin I saw this tweet on my timeline a couple of weeks ago and it caught my eye. I had a few thoughts I wanted to express on it, so I figured what better place than SBM. I know a whole heap of […]

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Single Sam’s Episodes in Love Part 1: An Officer and a Gentleman

March 1, 2012 The Mighty Most

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The following is a true story. It had been a year since I moved to New York to pursue my Master’s and ultimately, a career in broadcast journalism. It was the loneliest year of my life. In a city with 13 million people, you’d think it was easy for a young, attractive, outgoing woman to […]

Relationships

Battle of the Sexes: Lies and Deceit

July 13, 2010 Slim Jackson

Men lie. Women lie. Numbers don’t. Unfortunately/fortunately, that’s not the point of today’s post. Miss Jenkins and I actually want to discuss the topic of lying and deceiving others as it relates to each gender. Yes, everyone lies, but we do it for different reasons at varying frequencies about different topics. We got into a […]

Relationships

He said, She said… Everybody Lying!

May 20, 2010 Dr. J

“And so I stay clear, We from a small town, And everybody talks and everybody listen, And somehow the truth just always comes up missing.” – Aubrey Graham (I swear, I’ll stop quoting Drake now.) We’ve been talking a lot about the summer and what the summer brings us. As we get ready to show […]

Nope, Doesn’t Count

October 29, 2009 Dr. J

So as we sit two days from the smuttiest holiday all year, I just want to remind everyone life is cumulative and not on an occurrence by occurrence basis. This is a FaceBook note of mine from 2007. I wanted to repost it because recently some of my posts have inspired some crazy comments about […]

The Truth In Advertising … these fake a$$ chics

September 4, 2009 RightCoastLexSteele

Ever bought something because you saw a hot ass commercial or the salesperson told you it was the greatest thing since sliced bread AND it was the ninth wonder of the world? The box looked real fancy, the display looked banging, and you envisioned yourself being happy with your new purchase. But once you took it […]

True lies

April 29, 2009 Jeff J.

“Men lie, women lie, the numbers don’t!” – Jay-Z We all lie. This is no secret. Especially when dealing with the opposite sex. Whether we want to protect feelings, lessen the wrath inflicted upon us from a mistake we made, or we fail to follow through on a promise, we have our reasons for these […]

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He’s Not in Love … He’s a PIMP: The Truth of Ignorant Females

December 20, 2007 SBM

“I show you shit you never seen, the Seven Wonders of the World And I can make you the eighth if you wanna be my girl When I say my girl I don’t mean my woman, that ain’t my style Need a real street stalker (stalker) to walk a green mile … I’m a million […]