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Today I Nancy Kerrigan on thin ice with the stance I’ll take. You can always depend on Buzzfeed to bring you nuanced entertainment and information. I happen to enjoy most of their content. I particularly love their clips where they create these crazy recipes. Anyone who knows me knows how sacred I find a knife […]

Culture

What I’d Want The Mother Of My Child To Be Like

October 21, 2015 DamnPops

Recently I reposted a video on my Instagram page which was a scene from the movie Malcolm X. It was a scene where Malcolm was talking to Betty about the rebuilding of a nation. He stated that the foundation of a nation lies within a woman. “The mother is the first teacher of the child, […]

Advice

Why People Can’t Stand Relationship “Experts”

September 24, 2015 DamnPops

The man above is the well known Tony Gaskins. He recently sat down with Madame Noire for an interview. Madame Noire is a site that I frequent because of all the thought provoking content. This time around was no different as the subject matter got the people buzzing. Feel free to watch the full interview […]

Advice

I Have A Different Beef With Bill Cosby

July 16, 2015 DamnPops

You can feel free to call me a 90’s baby. I grew up in the 90’s. My early years consisted of Saturday afternoon wrestling on Fox 5 after “Life With Louie,” or Dionne Warwick’s Psychic Friends Network. I grew up knowing if I caught “Bobby’s World” after school it was a great day. Beeper gum? […]

Advice

Will He Wait In 2015?

July 9, 2015 DamnPops

Yes would be the simple answer here. There’s more behind that yes, which is probably why you’re reading this currently. I figured that this was the perfect time to rehash one of those really good conversations on celibacy. You see, America’s Golden Boy Russel Wilson currently dates the “cute an ting” Ciara. In a recent […]

Dating

Is God Responsible For Sexual Chemistry?

May 27, 2015 DamnPops

I think one of the greatest beauties in life is the fact that there is so much to debate. There is so much to discuss and so much room to gain more understanding. Once in a while I am lucky to be inspired to write about something that I think would make a great debate […]

Advice

How Can Your New Lover Measure Up To Your Ex In Bed?

May 14, 2015 DamnPops

This past weekend I was able to watch Chris Rock’s “Kill The Messenger” stand up special again. If you’ve followed my writing you know that I gain a lot of inspiration from stand up acts. We laugh at most jokes because we relate. Kill The Messenger is one joint that grew on me over time. […]

Dating

Who Decides What “Making Love” Is?

January 28, 2015 DamnPops

[embedyt]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1DsWazTC6_w[/embedyt] It’s Monday night, and we are in the midst of a big time snow day here in the northeast. That’s right, if you reside in a city in this vicinity then your city will be cuff city for a couple days. What better time to have a little fun with this topic. F****** vs […]

Featured

4 Good Things About Break Ups

January 12, 2015 TheSUNK

Some people view break-ups like they are the end of the world. Friends console you as you mope around for a good three to four months, but everything isn’t so bad about cutting your loses and calling it quits. Here’s ‘Four Good Things About Break-Ups’: 1. It’s a Relief You ever break up with someone, […]

Advice

“If Marriage Isn’t The Goal, Why Are You Dating Him/Her?”

November 29, 2014 DamnPops

You may or may not have seen the above meme go viral. It’s really nothing new. Every time I see “if marriage isn’t the goal of dating” my mind becomes conflicted. I’m conflicted because on paper, dating with the purpose of marriage is ideal. It’s exactly what many of us would like to do. At […]