Advice

How Do Men Avoid The “What Are We?” Question?

November 20, 2015 DamnPops

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The last time I wrote here I gave my thoughts on a video that was produced by Buzzfeed. The video chronicled a woman hurt by a man who simply wasn’t honest with her. He hurt her by his lies and she felt the need to let people know that we all should be aware of […]

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Featured

What’s Behind Twitter’s Obsession With Eating “Cake”?

July 23, 2014 DamnPops

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You know, it’s said that we live in a microwave society. We are trendy. We want instant gratification. I’m sure we’re conditioned to be that way at this point. At least in small doses we all have a little microwave society in us. This day I examine a small part of what’s hot in the […]

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Dating

Why Men Don’t Put in Work in Dating

July 2, 2014 DamnPops

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“Why don’t men want to put in any work?” I guess this is an age old question. Hell, I might get get a question like this at least once a week. It’s well documented that dating if nothing else can be tricky. So many nuances are involved. You’re always thinking so defensively. What should you […]

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Dating

Are These Women* Loyal? Some Men Sure Aren’t.

June 4, 2014 DamnPops

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  We’re a couple weeks from summer y’all!! It’s around this time where there’s a whole slew of new music. We’re all listening and looking to see reactions. We’re trying to figure out what will be the summer anthem. I love summer anthems. I frequent  many outings throughout the summer months (like the UA BBQ […]

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Featured

Messing With The Guy You Don’t “Like” Might Lower Your Stock

May 7, 2014 DamnPops

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It’s no secret that men and women are wired differently. These differences show themselves in a myriad of ways. We spend more time than we’d like to admit just scratching our heads at one another. It’s why I and other SBM writers write. We seek to bridge a gap with understanding.  We’re a melting pot […]

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Dating

Are Men Responsible For Round 2 in the Bedroom?

April 16, 2014 DamnPops

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Most times when I begin to write, I listen to a song or two just to get my mind right. Today the ipod was on shuffle and “Tap Out” comes on. How fitting, right? Maybe it’s more ironic considering today’s discussion. Last week I wrote a post entitled “Ladies, This Can be Why Round 2 […]

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Dating

Ladies, This Can Be Why “Round 2” Doesn’t Happen

April 9, 2014 DamnPops

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Today’s post is dedicated to the discussion of sexual chemistry. To put it plainly, it’s an important attribute to any kind of sexual relationship. Through my discussions with friends and my own experience I’ve learned  few things. One of which is that a woman can take somethings personally. In this case, it’s where a guy […]

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Featured

When is it OK to Deny Him S*x?

July 14, 2011 WisdomIsMisery

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  I listen to a syndicated talk radio show and it seems like their sole purpose is to come up with inflammatory questions to ask their listeners each week. Last week’s question was: When is it OK to deny your husband xes? Responses fell into three general categories. Category 1: Never. Other than the monthly visit […]

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About Me

Celibacy and the Single Woman

June 23, 2011 The Mighty Most

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  Well folks, it’s finally here. As many of you already know, my e-book, my digital novella, my really long, short-story drops today. It’s called Secrets Discovered In Memoriam, and it explores the mind of a man trying to come to terms with his past and his emotional relation to it in the wake of  […]

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Featured

Should Women Carry Condoms

June 3, 2011 WisdomIsMisery

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Source: National Survey of S*xual & Health Behavior – Indiana University A couple quick statistics before we begin: 1 in 4 people in monogamous relationships reported using condoms 1 in 3 singles reported using condoms So, should women carry condoms? Or do they already? Whose responsibility is it to provide the protection? Why the hell are […]

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