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I’ve always had a few females friends. I used to think they were good resources for back when I was socially awkward and lacked the ability to talk to women. I figured “girls know what other girls like. They will lead me out of this awkward phase”. Man … I was kidding my self. Some […]

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With Great Power Comes Great Responsibility

January 20, 2010 Jeff J.

One good thing about Single Black Male is that our cast of writers have the ability to think outside the box. We present age old arguments and dilemmas in a fresh and updated light for our readers, in order to adjust and relate to current times. I’m heavily influenced by sports, literature, pop culture, and […]

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Its My Perrogative: Let a man want what he wants!

November 11, 2009 Jeff J.

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My homie Midtown Mo and I had this discussion the other day, which prompted me to write this blog. We wanted to get to the bottom of a question he had concerning women. It seems like women in the last few weeks were criticizing him for his tastes in women. After I heard his ordeal, […]

5 Reasons You Should Give Her (More) Face Time : The Love Below

October 2, 2009 RightCoastLexSteele

I did a post the other day over on that condescending prick’s my buddy Slim’s blog the other day about the top 5 reasons women should enthusiastically “baby sit” her SO’s kids. According to the old saying, sometimes it’s better to give than to receive. And honestly, sometimes a lot of men don’t receive all […]

“I like the way you comb your hair and the stylish clothes you wear…”

April 24, 2009 Guest Post

I’m sitting at my desk jamming to a 90’s hip hop mix when Wreckx-N-Effect’s infamous “Rump Shaker” came on. As I was shaking my rump at my desk, my mind wandered back to a question that a girl I mentor asked me, “what type of men are you into?”. This is such a good question. […]

What Women Want From Men? … That’s Easy!

January 14, 2008 SBM

What do women want? A question that has plagued many males. A question debated and argued in barbershops, dorm rooms, strip clubs, and in psychological circles across the country. The basis of a few movies, at least one doctorate thesis, a couple case studies … and a memorably episode of “Save by the Bell: The […]

The Prelude: The Husband Store

January 14, 2008 SBM

Thought this funny email would make a good introduction to my next post. I almost fell out laughing when I read it … but its SO true! A store that sells new husbands has opened in New York City, where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is […]

One Thing Women Don’t Know … Women

January 10, 2008 SBM

I’ve always had a few females friends. I used to think they were good resources for back when I was socially awkward and lacked the ability to talk to women (sadly … this wasn’t that long ago). I figured “girls know what other girls like. They will lead me out of this awkward phase”. Man […]