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We Want Women Who Enjoy Being Feminine

February 4, 2014 Guest Post

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Until I started having substantive conversations with a female friend who has a history of emotional trauma, I had no idea why so many women choose to act in masculine ways. I didn’t understand why the concept of the “fierce” woman was seen as a desirable model for behavior. I thought these women were difficult […]

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How A Man Can Avoid The Friend-Zone

January 29, 2014 Gee

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Men get friend zoned for one reason and one reason only: they’re too available. When you’re friend-zoned by someone, they know that no matter what, they can always depend on you as a plan B if all of their other less available options don’t work out. Whether we like it or not, that’s just the […]

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Can Enitan Bereola Be Entrusted With Teaching Women How To Be Ladies?

January 24, 2014 realgoesright

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I’ve noticed throughout my online writing career that writing about relationships was the gateway for most bloggers. I know Steve Harvey wasn’t the chief purveyor of relationship advice before he exploded onto the scene with Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man…but it appeared to spark an increase in relationship-driven content written by men and […]

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5 Names You Should Never Call a Black Woman

January 17, 2014 Dr. J

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There’s a long list of names, words, or phrases that women don’t like being called or associated with at all. Much like other words, it doesn’t mean that women haven’t owned their fair share of them and started to use them as terms of endearment. What it does mean is that a man would be […]

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How To Keep Her Happy

December 27, 2013 Jeff J.

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So a few weeks ago, I wrote an article on 5 things women need to do to keep men happy. We had some great participation, and some feelings were hurt. I received a few tweets, Facebook messages, and comments by some who were offended by the title or the notion that women NEED to do things […]

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Is It Easier For Pretty Women To Get Married?

December 17, 2013 Dr. J

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I catch the Metro everyday to work.  There are a few things that I typically spend my time doing; reading everyone’s new blog on my phone, listening to hype music to get me through the day, and people watching.  For some reason, I always notice the pretty women on the train.  Why?  Because there’s typically […]

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Do Black Women Know How to Take a Compliment?

November 22, 2013 Dr. J

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  A few days ago, I was watching Kanye West’s new music video; you know the softcore porno he shot with his wife and baby mama, Kim Kardashian? I hit up my homegirl on gchat and said, “I feel like doing a post about women over 30 who look damn good.” Now this was via […]

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5 Unrealistic Expectations Men Have of Women

October 18, 2013 Dr. J

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Do men ever admit to women that they’re slightly crazy in the things that they expect out of women? Not really. I think that’s the way the game works though. Women don’t tell men about all the things they’ve got going on and we don’t tell them either. When it comes to expectations that each […]

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Why Women Cheat

September 3, 2013 WisdomIsMisery

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For whatever reason, I’ve often found the explanations behind why women cheat to be far more sophisticated than why men cheat. So, when I saw that the “experts” over at COSMO had parsed the reasons down to a simple list of five, I decided to take a read. My three favorite are below. 1. Going […]

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My Experience Dating a Bisexual Woman

August 15, 2013 WisdomIsMisery

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Based on a few comments I received on this particular post, I will add the following context. I agree that someone who identifies as “bisexual” is no more likely to be faithful or unfaithful than anyone else. To cheat or remain faithful is an individual choice people make for themselves, regardless of sexual orientation. However, […]

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